Lil Posted November 21, 2007 Share Posted November 21, 2007 The question that I'm seriously starting to ponder. I can not get any man's attention. Even when I ask them out (though many of them have said they were spoken for, and I'm going to take them at their word). The most reasonable suggestion I've ever gotten as to why men won't talk to me even on the most basic we're-working-on-the-same-project-for-this-organization level is that everything about me seems so exaggerated, to the point where some people have questioned whether or not I'm actually a living, breathing human. I am young, 6'0, with GGs, and on a personal basis I do tend to have one characteristic or other that comes across rather intensely (such as when I'm aggressive enough to ask a man out), so it is understandable that this might be the issue. Any thoughts? Suggestions? I'm beginning to find it rather frustrating... Link to post Share on other sites
confused_days Posted November 21, 2007 Share Posted November 21, 2007 I do not have too much experience. But i find it much easier to talk to girls that seem "easily approachable" - meaning less risk of being ignored etc. Often, i find these so called girls always give off happy signs such as constant smiling, confidence and have an outgoing personality. Maybe just think positively, and worry less about grabbing guys' attentions and they'll come! Link to post Share on other sites
Lovegod Posted November 21, 2007 Share Posted November 21, 2007 Post a pic. Seriously, a man's primary interest is, and will always be what you look like. If you post a pic, I may be able to give you suggestions on what to work on appearance-wise. Link to post Share on other sites
daisydufas22 Posted November 21, 2007 Share Posted November 21, 2007 Post a pic. Seriously, a man's primary interest is, and will always be what you look like. If you post a pic, I may be able to give you suggestions on what to work on appearance-wise. OI buddy.....let's see a pic of you! I am sure we can give you suggestions on how to improve your looks! Firstly, I would start by working on your manners! Lil.....just be yourself! Don't try to grab their attention, just be you and I am sure they will respond. Link to post Share on other sites
Lovegod Posted November 21, 2007 Share Posted November 21, 2007 let's see a pic of you! I am sure we can give you suggestions on how to improve your looks! My looks are fine, and I'm not the one having problems attracting people. Lil.....just be yourself! Don't try to grab their attention, just be you and I am sure they will respond. That's the same horsecrap that didn't work for me. Just being yourself doesn't work. Being your BEST self does, and if that means working on enhancing your best physical features, then that's what you need to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lil Posted November 21, 2007 Author Share Posted November 21, 2007 I have been being myself! And I've tried being my "best" self, too. Looks are not a problem (most men fixate on one thing anyways). I don't reek of desperation, either. The only reason I'm concerned about men right now is that I'm particularly interested and intensely frustrated at the moment. Link to post Share on other sites
LivA79 Posted November 21, 2007 Share Posted November 21, 2007 Post a pic. Seriously, a man's primary interest is, and will always be what you look like. If you post a pic, I may be able to give you suggestions on what to work on appearance-wise. TOTALLY agree!! Link to post Share on other sites
josh1993 Posted November 24, 2007 Share Posted November 24, 2007 i'm a guy who dosent care how a girl looks but most men when looking at going out with a girl do i like her for who she is not how she looks even though looks give u a plus the main thing is how you act and what makes you who you are i rather go out with a 500 pound women who is real and honsest than an 80 pound girl that is a complete fake Link to post Share on other sites
Lunar Sonata Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 GGs is bra size right or did I just fall into a pervert trap and that was an acronym for "good grades"? Link to post Share on other sites
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