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Me & my girlfriend got together about a week before she ended with her previous boyfriend. I was always willing to take our relationship slow as I made the mistake before of rushing a girl who came out of a long term relationship so for the first couple of months we took it slow. To sum it up she wanted a serious relationship & not just fun so I eventually started to feel the same & next thing I know we were talking how we loved one another.

 

We started to argue because I felt though she wanted something serious it was difficult to believe it & felt that she didn't give me as much attention as she once did. This led to me being jealous when we went out if she was talking to other guys more than me. Even simple things like when I haven't spoke to her for a day I wonder what is keeping her so busy.

 

I never thought that me cheating with her would mess my head up aswell as the guy who got cheated on. He never knew but deep down I guess he assumed we did.Through the argueing she has said that she is finding it hard to cope in another relationship although I feel she was the one who pushed me into one.

 

We have stopped seeing each other as much and rarely having sex. We have only been with each other about 4 months. Do you think we've rushed something that looks like it is coming to an end. Even when she tells me where she is I find it hard to believe her. I love but know this feeling isn't good for us.

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