Rowen Posted November 23, 2007 Share Posted November 23, 2007 Today my ex texted me about the email i sent her. We exchanged texts. Wht we were doing etc. She said she was living at home part time and another place part time. I asked her where? She didnt reply. I texted about my medical tests, then asked again.. no reply. I texted again about my new job... then asked where her new cat would be staying (becuase her mom wouldnt let her have one) She replied "at my boyfriends house" I didnt reply Later she said "hello?" I havn't replied. I was crushed, but I finally have closure. All that pain she put me through, the guilt, the sickening blame she threw on me.. all out the window. Shes living with her new guy in his apartment. I was on the back burner, and now I have closure. She found reasons to break up with me so she could be with him. End of story. I believe she may have cheated on me as well. Beucase of phone call which took her 5 minuttes to say "i almost went out for coffee with someone i used to work with" Thank god this has come to an end. I even wrote her a letter I was going to send. FInally closure. I was a pot of water sitting on the back burner simmering.. now i'm cold and down the drain. Looking back now.. I do not regret telling her to grow up after she broke up with me.. turns out, my gut was right all along. I AM RELEASED!!! Link to post Share on other sites
wowIlose Posted November 26, 2007 Share Posted November 26, 2007 Wow, what a loser of a girl. Delete her out of your life... phone/msn/facebook anything, pictures.. etc. It will make things easier. Go out with friends and socialize with new girls. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
CD111 Posted November 26, 2007 Share Posted November 26, 2007 Hey congratz at least you can move on with your life now Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rowen Posted November 26, 2007 Author Share Posted November 26, 2007 Yeah somewhat.. except she decided to call me the other day. I picked up without looking. UGH! Anyway... She had alot of baggage when i started dating her and one.. she used to do cocaine.. and she "dated" this guy who was much older to get the stuff. I'm a bit worried.. i still care for her.. but I mean since she has "half" moved in with this new guy.. im very suspicious of this., 1.Practically teeth pulling to get her to tell me she had a new bf and where she was living 2.She just magically got a new black berry. 3.She got a new cat. She's either gold digging or I fear she is with this guy again. My god I hope she can put her head back on straight. Just when I thought she was getting her life together with me, it seems she has regressed back into her old crappy habits. I'm almost tempted to call her mom to see if anything suspicious is going on again. She grew up only with a single parent (her mom) She's trying to keep in contact with me.. once or twice a week.. i can't continue to give her this support. I have to delete her etc.. not answer becuase if she's hanging on to my support and care for her (if) she is going into bad bad bad habits again.. she has to learn this the hard way .. AGAIN! I have to cut myself out! For her sake and mine! She needs to fix her **** up now! Link to post Share on other sites
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