josh1993 Posted November 23, 2007 Share Posted November 23, 2007 i have bad typing so if i misspell something sorry ok here is my drama im in high school fresh men anyway the girl who i like and need help with is a girl named Torie i liked her ever since 6th grade (when she moved here ) well being her best friend i knew she like this kid called Josh (different josh) well she basically became his own b**** i don't no if i can curse on this web page anyway i felt sorry for her and this F$C*ing A**hole just called her S*** well over time he asked her out and they went out in the 8th grade so after 2 weeks they break up cuz he thinks she is cheating on him (first she think he is god 2nd i think that 8th grade is too young to cheat on som1) Torie blames her self and I'm with her for like 2 weeks getting her over it so now a year later were in 3 classes together and i made a move and we were holding hands didn't take long for ever1 in the school to know well guess who came and started to be nice to Torie thats right the evil josh so she stops holding my hand and they go out again :lmao: my heart broke i mean 4 years of loving her and he just takes her in 2 mins well like 3 weeks later they break up but she still told me that she loves me some how justing super glue i fixed my heart and we were friend again well last week we held hand again in English class but a movie was on so no one was watching us now should i trust her or should i try to move on it's really hard for me plz i need help i got this whole week to think plz help me Link to post Share on other sites
Author josh1993 Posted November 23, 2007 Author Share Posted November 23, 2007 I forgot to say I Know 100% + that she would do the same thing if he did it again Link to post Share on other sites
Author josh1993 Posted November 24, 2007 Author Share Posted November 24, 2007 plz i need help before monday because i need to know if i should trust her or not i mean how can i stop that evil josh if i do trust her i dont want feel thta way again but on the other hand i do like her plz i need help =( Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted November 24, 2007 Share Posted November 24, 2007 he just takes her in 2 mins I'm uncertain what further answer you need beyond the one you provided. She ain't worth it sweetheart. Don't be a doormat. Move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Author josh1993 Posted November 24, 2007 Author Share Posted November 24, 2007 Im not a door mat it took her like month of her basicly begging for me to forgive her. My problem is the other guy he is like the devil and can tell her "i've changed" but i no he didn't and she would belive him. I need help in showing her that she is falling for the same trick and I need to stop that creep from messing with her. Because every time he ends up breaking her heart. Even if it took me stop seeing torie all together I would. But that is the every last thing i want (but now typeing this it makes sense if i stop being her friend than he would stop trying to steal her from me and she might just might be happy) but if there is any way to stop him and me and torie be together I want to do that. That is why i need advice. How can i stop him from messing with torie? and, How do i help torie stop falling for his tricks? Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted November 24, 2007 Share Posted November 24, 2007 She's responsible for her own actions. She's a big girl now. If her head can be turned by someone else so quickly, it's because she wants to. It's all about how committed a partner is, to the relationship. You can run around and try to control her. You can also run around and kick the ever lovin' crap out of anyone who comes near her. Bottom line, wouldn't you rather have someone who can control themselves? Someone who wants to be with you, therefore, won't get influenced by attention from other men? It's one thing to lightly flirt and another to wander off, when another guy snaps his fingers. She's not so special. Link to post Share on other sites
Author josh1993 Posted November 24, 2007 Author Share Posted November 24, 2007 is there any way that me and her could work Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted November 24, 2007 Share Posted November 24, 2007 If you want to give her one more chance, which I wouldn't recommend, sit her down and lay out your hard boundaries of what you expect of her behaviour and let her know in no uncertain terms that you're gone, if she strays again. Make them reasonable boundaries because if they're impossible, no one can live within them. If she wanders away again, be prepared to back it up and walk without looking back. If you are, she'll know you're not b/sing her. I don't know if this is good advice. I think you're giving up an opportunity to find someone who really values and respects you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author josh1993 Posted November 24, 2007 Author Share Posted November 24, 2007 i got 4 years left in high school i thinkthere is plenty of time to find som1 if she isn't it thank you for the advice it been nice talking to you i got more problem that ill put up here and i think ill do what you said about the 1 more chance thank you again cya Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted November 24, 2007 Share Posted November 24, 2007 You're welcome. Good luck. Don't let her make you her bitch. Link to post Share on other sites
Author josh1993 Posted November 24, 2007 Author Share Posted November 24, 2007 Lol ah that is funny i think she already know that im not cuz i got real mad at her i made it hell for her when she did it the frist time it was only last week that i even forgave her and she came on to me this time so maybe is did get smarter ill post what happens with this Link to post Share on other sites
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