b0iiana Posted November 24, 2007 Share Posted November 24, 2007 Please help! My parents dont know any of my friends, ex-boyfriends and any part of my life. Now i've been raped, touched by my grandfather, depressed and keep getting drunk. (I'm 13). Now one of my mum's friends found out and she is going to tell her tomorrow, please help somebody i'm so scared of what might happen! Link to post Share on other sites
Elyssa Posted November 24, 2007 Share Posted November 24, 2007 Hold on a sec.... You've been raped, molested, depressed and abusing alcohol... and your parents don't know or suspect any of it? How does someone else know about these things but not them? If this woman really tells them, she's doing you a favor. You sound like you could really use their help to overcome all these issues. At your age, you shouldn't be dealing with any of it alone. -E Link to post Share on other sites
Author b0iiana Posted November 24, 2007 Author Share Posted November 24, 2007 Hell it is so not good *cry* Im scared of what they might say No.. I barely talk to them, its usually fighting and screaming at each other Im like rebelling against them... I dont know what to say though! Im scared of what is going to happen *cry* please help Hold on a sec.... You've been raped, molested, depressed and abusing alcohol... and your parents don't know or suspect any of it? How does someone else know about these things but not them? If this woman really tells them, she's doing you a favor. You sound like you could really use their help to overcome all these issues. At your age, you shouldn't be dealing with any of it alone. -E Link to post Share on other sites
Elyssa Posted November 24, 2007 Share Posted November 24, 2007 Then stop rebelling. Tell them you need to talk with them and do so without yelling, screaming or challenging their authority with the sole purpose of angering them. They need to be aware of all these things so they can help you. If they hear it from you, they will know the truth of what happened instead of some other version this woman has from hearsay and they will respect you for bringing it up to them even though it must be so difficult for you to do so. As for what to tell them? The truth. From the beginning. -E Link to post Share on other sites
Author b0iiana Posted November 24, 2007 Author Share Posted November 24, 2007 im too afraid of what might happen... read my other thread and you would understand all ive been through i dont know HOW to tell them.. i think alot of this stuff is my fault... Link to post Share on other sites
White Flower Posted November 24, 2007 Share Posted November 24, 2007 I am a little concerned with how your dad will react, yet, there will be another adult around so that might be a good thing. I will keep my fingers crossed for you. Is there anyone else you can stay with since your dad gets violent? I'm glad they're being told; hopefully things will improve for you now. Link to post Share on other sites
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