Lizzie60 Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 I went shopping today and met my young lover with his gf... hand in hand... I'm sure he saw me but didn't look at me.... it was weird... I couldn't see her face though, I just saw her from the back. She's a tall blond... I smiled... good thing he didn't look at me.. it would have been too obvious... Oh well... life goes on... Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 Lizzie, are you saying it bothered you seeing them together? Or you mean the gf would have figured out you were his OW? Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 Let me guess lizzie. She was young and beautiful too. Link to post Share on other sites
Gwyneth Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 Oh boy...that had to hurt. I think I'd throw up if I saw my MM with his wife. I think then it would kick in that I'm an idiot. Right now I know nothing about her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 25, 2007 Author Share Posted November 25, 2007 Lizzie, are you saying it bothered you seeing them together? Or you mean the gf would have figured out you were his OW? It didn't bother me per say... it just felt weird... I rarely meet my MMs or lovers outside my place. Maybe, if she really knows him, she could have figured out something was fishy. I don't know.. he didn't look at me... I think he knows her too well... knowing she knows him too well... LOL Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 25, 2007 Author Share Posted November 25, 2007 Let me guess lizzie. She was young and beautiful too. I don't know.. I didn't see her face... but he told me she was beautiful and he keeps telling me I am too... Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 Oh boy...that had to hurt. I think I'd throw up if I saw my MM with his wife. I think then it would kick in that I'm an idiot. Right now I know nothing about her. You think that's bad...their probably bonking. BTW Lizzy...what's the point of this thread? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 25, 2007 Author Share Posted November 25, 2007 Oh boy...that had to hurt. I think I'd throw up if I saw my MM with his wife. I think then it would kick in that I'm an idiot. Right now I know nothing about her. No, it didn't hurt .. it just felt bizarre to see him walking hand in hand with her.. I watched them while they walked away... I am pretty sure he saw me.... they passed just right by me... I had this feeling.. you know when you have this weird feeling that you're being watched...then you turn around to see someone's looking at you... weird feeling... I had this same feeling. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 25, 2007 Author Share Posted November 25, 2007 You think that's bad...their probably bonking. BTW Lizzy...what's the point of this thread? You know IpAncA... I can ask you the same thing about your threads... do we always need a point for all our thread? really... then I can find some of yours where I can ask you the same thing... Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 You think that's bad...their probably bonking. BTW Lizzy...what's the point of this thread? It's a validation thread, IpAncA. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 25, 2007 Author Share Posted November 25, 2007 It's a validation thread, IpAncA. Just like yours... Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 Just like yours... Was mine a validation thread or was there actually an issue, lizzie? What I found amazing was that people put effort into helping me sort through something that needed to be addressed. I don't see any issues in your thread. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 25, 2007 Author Share Posted November 25, 2007 Was mine a validation thread or was there actually an issue, lizzie? What I found amazing was that people put effort into helping me sort through something that needed to be addressed. I don't see any issues in your thread. Give me a break... as if you needed someone to tell you what you need to do... come on now... I'm not 5 years old... you're too funny. Link to post Share on other sites
Gwyneth Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 You think that's bad...their probably bonking. BTW Lizzy...what's the point of this thread? What is bonking? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 25, 2007 Author Share Posted November 25, 2007 What is bonking? I think it means having sex... but I'm not stupid.. I know they're having sex... they LIVE together... Does it bother me? Not at all... in fact, it excites me to think about it... I know he rather have sex with me... Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 Give me a break... as if you needed someone to tell you what you need to do... come on now... I'm not 5 years old... you're too funny. Lizzie, some of us actually do sometimes need help to think things through. If you believe you have all the answers in the world, that's pretty darn arrogant. Link to post Share on other sites
Gwyneth Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 That's what I was thinking--having sex. LOL. Well, sex is sex...EAs are EAs. It's expected that couples have sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 25, 2007 Author Share Posted November 25, 2007 Lizzie, some of us actually do sometimes need help to think things through. If you believe you have all the answers in the world, that's pretty darn arrogant. I don't pretend I have all the answers in the world... all I know is that I have MY answers... I know what I want and what I don't want. I am exactly where I want to be at this stage of my life... If you think that's arrogant.. well so be it... Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 I don't pretend I have all the answers in the world... all I know is that I have MY answers... I know what I want and what I don't want. I am exactly where I want to be at this stage of my life... If you think that's arrogant.. well so be it... Hallelujah to you!! For me, I prefer to know that I'm human and am willing to reach out when I need help, probably not as often as I should. Link to post Share on other sites
KATANYA Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 I wonder if all MM pick OWs who are opposites to their W/SO in terms of looks, personalities, etc? I think I read one of your posts Lizzie that you have dark hair/dark complexion (if I remember) and you say she's tall and blond.....my MM's W is absolute opposite of me in looks, size, personality, everything.......interesting. Anyway, it must have been weird to see them together where you rarely see that side of your MMs lives. Glad you are the way you are and it didn't bother you the way it does sooooo many OWs. I think its when we see the MM with his W that those issues of envy/jealousy etc. start creeping up for many OW - I just cannot figure out WHY those feelings happen... Thanks Lizzie. I always love your posts because they remind me how we SHOULD look at the MM instead of how we do - your confidence is what alot of OW lack which makes all the difference in whether we are in control of the R or being controlled by the R. Cheers Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 25, 2007 Author Share Posted November 25, 2007 I wonder if all MM pick OWs who are opposites to their W/SO in terms of looks, personalities, etc? I think I read one of your posts Lizzie that you have dark hair/dark complexion (if I remember) and you say she's tall and blond.....my MM's W is absolute opposite of me in looks, size, personality, everything.......interesting. Anyway, it must have been weird to see them together where you rarely see that side of your MMs lives. Glad you are the way you are and it didn't bother you the way it does sooooo many OWs. I think its when we see the MM with his W that those issues of envy/jealousy etc. start creeping up for many OW - I just cannot figure out WHY those feelings happen... Thanks Lizzie. I always love your posts because they remind me how we SHOULD look at the MM instead of how we do - your confidence is what alot of OW lack which makes all the difference in whether we are in control of the R or being controlled by the R. Cheers Yes I often wonder why the OW is often the opposite of the W. She is the same height as him... 5'10" and blond.. with a bigger butt than me... He once told me she has fairly big breasts... but not as big as mine. I only saw her from the back... shoot With my other MM (work) his W is 5' 11'', same height as him... but she's not that pretty... and she has small breasts. I know that all my MMs' Ws are much taller than me. I am 5'2'', dark hair but light complexion. Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 For me, I prefer to know that I'm human and am willing to reach out when I need help, probably not as often as I should. She does it as often as she can. That's where they place their payment, dontcha know! Link to post Share on other sites
Gwyneth Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 Yes I often wonder why the OW is often the opposite of the W. She is the same height as him... 5'10" and blond.. with a bigger butt than me... He once told me she has fairly big breasts... but not as big as mine. I only saw her from the back... shoot With my other MM (work) his W is 5' 11'', same height as him... but she's not that pretty... and she has small breasts. I know that all my MMs' Ws are much taller than me. I am 5'2'', dark hair but light complexion. WOW! How many MM did you / do you have? My MMs W is from Central American and looks like a man if you ask me (from the photo I saw). Of course I'm not going to say she's pretty--well, she isn't, let's be frank here. I'm Euro-American, and we both have long brown hair. Well, her's is black. I don't know her height. He says I have a better job than her, and have a better life than he and her will ever have. Men. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 25, 2007 Author Share Posted November 25, 2007 WOW! How many MM did you / do you have? My MMs W is from Central American and looks like a man if you ask me (from the photo I saw). Of course I'm not going to say she's pretty--well, she isn't, let's be frank here. I'm Euro-American, and we both have long brown hair. Well, her's is black. I don't know her height. He says I have a better job than her, and have a better life than he and her will ever have. Men. I only have 4 MMs left... I mean I see regularly. I have 'dumped' a few lately... My young lover wishes she was as confident as I was.. He loves my confidence... I am not insecure like she is.. but then I am 32 years older than she is. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted November 26, 2007 Share Posted November 26, 2007 She does it as often as she can. That's where they place their payment, dontcha know! C-Lion, way harsh Link to post Share on other sites
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