xenonsrt10 Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 I am an introvert and am very passive and never seem to be the one to make the first move and ask someone out, comfortably that is. Do I just need to wait for that "one special person" or should I brave the storm and try to beat out my introverted nature? Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 I am an introvert and am very passive and never seem to be the one to make the first move and ask someone out, comfortably that is. Do I just need to wait for that "one special person" or should I brave the storm and try to beat out my introverted nature? Thanks. ...start working on the latter then perhaps you and the former will meet somewhere in the middle. Get involved in something you like -- sports, art, music, theater, animals, you name it. It's how you meet like-minded people and the easy conversations should just follow naturally. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 I am an introvert and am very passive and never seem to be the one to make the first move and ask someone out, comfortably that is. Do I just need to wait for that "one special person" or should I brave the storm and try to beat out my introverted nature? Thanks. Sitting around waiting for someone else to make the first move will get you nowhere. Most people mistake introverts for unapproachable snobs. You don't want that to happen. Take baby steps...one week just smile at everybody you pass...the next week smile and nod your head....the next week, smile, nod your head and say hello. In no time, you will find yourself in some nice social situations. Perhaps some education to raise your self esteem as well as some counseling may help. You aren't getting any younger. Link to post Share on other sites
Sw3etdev1L Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 just be yourself ...instead of thinking of yourself as introverted, think of yourself as a coward...I mean...don't you want to fight against being a coward?? be brave!!!...what if someone rejects you???...maybe the first times will hurt and later you will get accostumed until one girl says yes and you like her and you get into a relatinoshiop....it's ok being introverted, it is not ok being a coward. Link to post Share on other sites
knaveman Posted November 26, 2007 Share Posted November 26, 2007 you just have to put yourself out there and take the good with the bad. Link to post Share on other sites
LivA79 Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 What are your physical qualities? Link to post Share on other sites
Author xenonsrt10 Posted November 29, 2007 Author Share Posted November 29, 2007 physical qualities: well lets see: around 6 feet, average weight, stocky, dark brown hair (cut short), look younger than i am (kind of a baby-ish face) pretty average physical qualities: i dont stand out in really any particular area; maybe except height since i am taller than average. the sad thing is, the best thing i have going for me is my taste in cars (I drive a 2007 Lexus), good food, and high-class things. could i use that stuff to my advantage? Link to post Share on other sites
Author xenonsrt10 Posted December 24, 2007 Author Share Posted December 24, 2007 physical qualities: well lets see: around 6 feet, average weight, stocky, dark brown hair (cut short), look younger than i am (kind of a baby-ish face) pretty average physical qualities: i dont stand out in really any particular area; maybe except height since i am taller than average. the sad thing is, the best thing i have going for me is my taste in cars (I drive a 2007 Lexus), good food, and high-class things. could i use that stuff to my advantage? Link to post Share on other sites
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