worried girl83 Posted May 28, 2003 Share Posted May 28, 2003 I recently met this guy who has a girlfriend and he told me that when we first started talking. i see him everday and we hang out all the time but he told me he's afraid to hang out with me because he's afraid he might fall in love with me.he says all this but he still calls me,hang out with me and even comes over to ma house.we do have our moments together and i really like this guy although i know he has a girlfriend and i'm starting to like him a lot but i don't want to show him how much i care about cos i'm afraid of falling in love with him too but he's always mad when i try to hold back he and he always tells me to just let everything out and not hold back anything.he always tells me that whatever happens happens.do y'all think it okay for me to hold back and not really show how i feel.pls pls pls advice me cos i am really confuse. Link to post Share on other sites
Leikela Posted May 28, 2003 Share Posted May 28, 2003 [color=indigo] Let's put yourself in HIS GIRLFRIEND'S shoes. How would you like it if he WAS your boyfriend and he was carrying on with another girl the way he is with you? Apparently he isn't that committed to his other girlfriend if he knows there is an attraction with you and still pursues and hangs out with you. Any decent guy would cut off communication with you until he sorted out things with his current girlfriend. That speaks volumes about what kind of person he is and the lack of respect for his girlfriend. Ask yourself this-- Do you want to be with someone like that? Say he broke up with his girlfriend and went to be with you but started to feel about you the way he feels about his current relationship and carried on with another girl this way? Would you like that or would you want to be jerked around like that too? My advice to you, would be to find someone worthy of your love, someone you can trust, and SINGLE! [/color] Link to post Share on other sites
Clancy Posted May 30, 2003 Share Posted May 30, 2003 Listen, this guy knows what he's doing with you. He wants you to, "let everything out, not hold anything back" What that means is "Go ahead, fall in love with me.. Then I can have you hanging on the side and have sex with you when I want because you'll be so hung up on me it won't matter if I have a real girlfriend or not. My advice is get strong and turn cold on this guy fast and forever. Link to post Share on other sites
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