guest Posted May 28, 2003 Share Posted May 28, 2003 5 years ago this girl and I had this class. on the first day in the class I noticed her but by being completely inexperienced didn't try to act. over time she and I got to the point of VERY light conversation. soon after we got into a near year long argument over the COLOR of the textbook. in hindsight I realize at THAT point she was just as interested in me as I was in her. but both of us being immature we just teased and picked on each other until the end of school. since then "I" see her everyday from across the school and have been gifted with the ability to find in any number of people like a where's Waldo. she's beautiful and I enjoyed watching her live her life one day at a time in the halls it burns in my chest that I can't bring myself to talk to her. in the past 5 years I've slowly absorbed quietly every bit of information I hear about her. some good some bad (the good being all of her interests being near the exact same as mine. Bad being past "Friends" which i'm definitely willing to overlook( in fact I couldn't care less). On two occasions conversation has been initiated and both times I blew it by asking her out without warning. I just lose control of my mouth and instead of saying "yeah thats great" I get "what are you doing tommorow?" btw both times she replied that she was busy. i've been in ONE relationship ever( got dumped on valentines day). she said it was because I never got Philosophical. I don't think I'm a terrible looking person. my DL says HT:5-07 EYES:BRN HAIR:BLK DOB:03-24-87 I am always polite I bought an old porsche real cheap and with a little elbow grease fixed it up into quite the looker. 5 years ago I fell for her pretty bad, the problem is I'm still falling so here is my situation it felt good getting it off my chest and if any knows what to do in this situation let me know. Link to post Share on other sites
Pure_Math Posted May 28, 2003 Share Posted May 28, 2003 Well i have also liked a gil fore over 5 years. Notice the word "liked". Lite converstation is not enough. The interest you think seh has in you could be you trying to read every possible act for a sign. If you already have her number and have no problems on the phone, just go right out and explain your feelings. Ask if she would like to go out with you on a date, maybe a movie since you are a beginner. If you have problems talking to her, go with a group. And over time you can go out with her. Also do her parents know you? You should try and work this in some how. However be carefull because the teasing you are talking about, is what the world knows as flirting. All pretty girls flirt. Do not hint too much that you like her: meaning do no come on strong but slowly. Link to post Share on other sites
guest Posted May 29, 2003 Share Posted May 29, 2003 Thanks you've inspired ideas. light conversation is only light cause i'm afraid ill screw up and she seems to thinking just as hard as I am about what to do next. I think I'll try the group idea or just coming right out laying my cards on the table to see where I stand... after all tommorow is the last day of school... YAY!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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