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Hello to everyone on the forums,

 

I am a new member here, and I would be very gracious if some of you would give me some advice. I live in a college universities affiliated housing, and take the universities bus system to and from class every day. I recently met this girl on the bus about a week ago. We chatted until she got off the bus. I haven't gotten her name yet, but I did pick up on some of her body language, and it suggested that she was interested in me.

 

What do I do if I get on the bus and she is listening some music on her Ipod. What do I do to get her attention. I do not want to seem rude. I know what I am going to do if she does not have them on.

 

Also, my usual routine on a first date is to do something that allows us to talk more than anything else. Something like a coffee date. To you girls out there, what do you think about this as a first date.

 

Thank you all for your advice and suggestions.

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Wave as you walk by and if she is not looking, tap her on the shoulder and wave. If she wants to stop listening to her music and engage in a conversation, then she will. A coffee shop is a great place to talk.

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FindingMyselfAgain

My favorite approach is to rip the IPod off their head, yell "I WILL NOT BE IGNORED", then walk away.

 

They melt like butter.

 

Until the cops come.

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My favorite approach is to rip the IPod off their head, yell "I WILL NOT BE IGNORED", then walk away.

 

They melt like butter.

 

Until the cops come.

 

:lmao::lmao:

 

but after ripping it off her head, he needs to throw it on the ground and stomp on it and yell out "me first!"

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My favorite approach is to rip the IPod off their head, yell "I WILL NOT BE IGNORED", then walk away.

 

They melt like butter.

 

Until the cops come.

 

:lmao: thats funny!

 

But seriously, I agree with The Riddler. Wave and/or tap on shoulder. Sounds good. I wouldn't think thats rude at all. And I am a girl that listens to her ipod on the bus almost all the time. :)

 

And coffee is good. I agree that first dates should be open to conversation.

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