Aussie65 Posted November 29, 2007 Share Posted November 29, 2007 dramas after dramas with my LDR and still I find myself hanging on and for what???. So I was suppose to go see him this weekend...we were going to a Christmas party.I emailed this week an ex girlfriend of his he phoned up just prior to him moving out and to another State.I found her still on his contact lists...he had re-added her recently so I emailed her. She tells me he told he he is inlove with her still! I ask him about this he tells me he told her he was inlove with her when she was with him...yeah right???...so I asked him about his feelings for me,why did he want me to move to him...why has he told me hes inlove with me...he made no effort at all to try and fix this...never said he loved me only that I should know...when I asked him questions all he would say was "right o",thats all and then he called it off and didn't even seem worried about it. I just want to know what I was to this guy...did he love me??and was I just a game to him.He tells me in a roundabout way he did love me,is inlove with me,did want me there but cannot say it exactly...then he blames me for emailing this ex of his so it's now all my fault and not his for saying what he said to her,that I got it wrong,that he told her he WAS inlove with her then...so why even call up an ex and say these things anyway? I dont understand how someone can do this to another person...how they can lie and pretend they want them and tell another they are still inlove with them. Link to post Share on other sites
purplebubbles Posted November 29, 2007 Share Posted November 29, 2007 You know, I don't want to play devils avocate, because my own relationship is absolutely far beyond perfect. But, I've read all of your recent posts and I'm wondering what does he provide for you? It seems as though he is intent on showing you that he doesn't care nor respect you, but you keep hanging in there? How come? He did this to you because he didn't care enough about you to respect your feelings. It seems as though he doesn't have the balls to end the relationship of his own accord, thus allowing you to be hurt over and over again. Those are not the actions of a man worth your love or time. I'd just sugggest that you be glad that it ended before you invested yourself in him further. Link to post Share on other sites
dancinggal Posted November 29, 2007 Share Posted November 29, 2007 Awww, Aussie, thats so not cool. Sounds like he has no idea what he wants, and you can't be in love with a person like that, or be in a LDR either. I'm sure he did care about you, he just didn't know what to do about it. If he is that messed up that he can't make decisions, forget him. There are plenty more boys out there. I know it hurts now, but a guy like this just isn't worth it. Link to post Share on other sites
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