PLAYBRAT Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 I'm 36...and I think I look pretty good for my age..not to brag. Lately I have been going through a bit of an early mid life crisis..lol.. I'll be 37 in a few months, so I am considering some cosmetic "tweaking". Anyway..I am considering a boob job. Not sure why...my boobs are actually pretty nice..(I am 34C) but am unsure if that would be a bad idea. I am in pretty good shape..I work out, never had kids. Do any of the ladies here have a boob job? If so how do you like it? How do they feel as opposed to REAL? Do they feel weird? How easy was your recovery? And guys? Do you like or dislike boob jobs? I have heard a few guys say they love a woman with a fake "rack"....but I know a lot of men hate them... Just looking for some input... Link to post Share on other sites
Leia Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 I think 34C is very nice so why do you want bigger? I'm not a lesbian, by the way. A friend's mom had her boobies done. From B to C. She went through hell but she said it was all worth it. . I didn't ask how it feels like, although her mom speak to us like we are all buddies... too much information sometimes on other matters if you know what I mean. As for recovery, I think it depends on you and skin or something. It took her almost 3 months where else her friend recovered from it about a month and a half. I think I saw an episode on one of those health channels, it could recover in less than a month. Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 As a man, I would rather have a natural A cup than a fake D cup. Dead serious here... fake tits gross me out more than you could imagine. Please, for the love of your body, DON'T DO IT!!! Link to post Share on other sites
PWSX3 Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 The most important reason to have them done is "do you want them?" and it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, but since you are asking for opinions here is mine. Personally I'm more of a butt kind of guy but I don't mind the boobies either. For me I would rather see real ones instead of fake ones. I also wonder if people that do have fake ones also have other reasons for getting them, such as not being confident in themselves. It also seems like once girls get fake boobies they like showing them off to everyone so they aren't a part of the person anymore, just an object. The most important part I feel is it all comes down to the person they are attached to, you can have the best looking boobs & a$$ but if you don't have a personality to go with it then they don't do anything for this kid. Link to post Share on other sites
lost66 Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 As a guy, fake boobs are GREAT. I date someone w/ them and they are great. I'm a boob guy though. Link to post Share on other sites
reboot Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 I've never been with a woman with fake boobs. I've seen them, they look great I guess. But do they feel like real boobs? Do you still have feeling in them like with real boobs? Like the earlier poster, I'm also not really a "boob man", so I guess it's just never been something I thought that much about. Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 I am most definitely a boob man, but small tits aren't a deal breaker for me. Fake tits are a deal-breaker. Even if I think she's cute and cool, if she has fake tits I have no interest at all in her. The kind of person that would do that is not the kind of person I want to spend time with. Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 It is your choice in the end, if an augmentation is what you want and makes you feel good; then do it. Why would you care if someone else doesn't like them? Just make sure you want them and are not doing it for someone else. I like boobs and as long as they proportional, e.g. not ZZZZ cup or something crazy, then by all means... yummy! Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 It is your choice in the end, if an augmentation is what you want and makes you feel good; then do it. Why would you care if someone else doesn't like them? Just make sure you want them and are not doing it for someone else. I like boobs and as long as they proportional, e.g. not ZZZZ cup or something crazy, then by all means... yummy! The problem with that line of thought is that if they're not for someone else than why bother? I mean the whole reason for having bigger tits is because you would be considered more attractive, right? Otherwise they'd be just a nuisance... Link to post Share on other sites
Tripper Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 I'll take real A cups over fake D cups any day of the week. But then I'm a leg and butt man myself. I do appreciate a great rack but it's gotta be real. Link to post Share on other sites
PWSX3 Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 The problem with that line of thought is that if they're not for someone else than why bother? I mean the whole reason for having bigger tits is because you would be considered more attractive, right? Otherwise they'd be just a nuisance... I have seen & heard woman say; I am doing it for myself, for my own confidence but like you say; deep down I feel it is to be more attractive, to show off to others. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 You are a good size! Don't change a thing!! Be happy with what you have. One day you might regret it, especially if this is just a midlife crisis... What you can do though is, go to a good bra shop and get fitted for a bra that will enhance your boobs. I've heard that many women wear the wrong types of bra for their size and shape. Also think, if you haven't had children yet, your chances of breastfeeding are slim if you get your boobs done bigger. Link to post Share on other sites
Author PLAYBRAT Posted December 1, 2007 Author Share Posted December 1, 2007 WOW...thanks for all the replies!!!!! Phateless...I appreciate your brutal honesty. I was concerned that me getting a boob job would make me seem pretty shallow and self centered ..which I am TOTALLY not!! I have always thought women who got boob jobs and wear REALLY revealing tops...then get pissed at guys for staring at them were nutjobs. Like you said...what's the point? The fact IS they DO it to LOOK more attractive!! I am not saying I am unhappy with my body...I am quite confident. I suppose I could always consider botox instead!!! Anyway....thanks for everyones honest opinions.I appreciate it!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 I've got fakies and I LOVE them. For me, the surgery was easy and the results fantastic. They look and feel real, but that's most likely because I had a 34B beforehand (the more natural breast tissue you have before getting them 'done,' the more natural the result). I recommend you visit the forum at http://www.breastimplants411.com - there is a wealth of resources there for women considering any form of breast augmentation. I spent a long, long time there before and during my recovery. And as a side note, I've had a couple guys who were once emphatically anti-boob job completely change their mind after seeing mine. Kinda funny, really. They'd make comments on a date or amongst friends about how much they hate fake boobs never knowing they were talking to a gal with a "fake" set. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 The problem with that line of thought is that if they're not for someone else than why bother? I mean the whole reason for having bigger tits is because you would be considered more attractive, right? Otherwise they'd be just a nuisance... Do you workout? Allow yourself to get a tan in the summer? Clearly you do these things in part to make yourself more attractive, correct? Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 Do you workout? Allow yourself to get a tan in the summer? Clearly you do these things in part to make yourself more attractive, correct? Absolutely. But I am under no false delusions about WHY I do it. Sure it makes me feel confident and good about myself, but that's because of the resulting attention. Bodybuilding is a vain past-time, and I'll readily admit it. Think of this way through simple logic... if attention and other people had NOTHING to do with the decision to get implants... women would not feel self-conscious about their breasts in the first place and it would never occur to them to get implants. Does that make sense? If you look at it backwards, the underlying reasons are easily exposed. My best english teacher told me that if you want to know what a certain phrase or word adds to a passage, take it away to see what is lost. Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 WOW...thanks for all the replies!!!!! Phateless...I appreciate your brutal honesty. I was concerned that me getting a boob job would make me seem pretty shallow and self centered ..which I am TOTALLY not!! I have always thought women who got boob jobs and wear REALLY revealing tops...then get pissed at guys for staring at them were nutjobs. Like you said...what's the point? The fact IS they DO it to LOOK more attractive!! I am not saying I am unhappy with my body...I am quite confident. I suppose I could always consider botox instead!!! Anyway....thanks for everyones honest opinions.I appreciate it!!! You're welcome! One of my close female friends (at the time) was thinking about getting implants for a while and I told her I was vehemently against them, but if it would make her happy I would support her. I literally probably have bigger boobs than this girl, lol. She ended up changing her mind and deciding against it, which I was so happy to hear. I like her for who she is... I don't care about her tits. Now if only she'd dump that bf and go out with me... Link to post Share on other sites
PWSX3 Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 O.K. no one has posted this so I might as well. How did this go so long with out pictures????? It sounds like you are a pretty level headed lady & I just don't see the point in fake boobies unless like you said you want guys checking them out & not checking you out. If you feel you need to spend money then go buy yourself a sports car or something like that. Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 O.K. no one has posted this so I might as well. How did this go so long with out pictures????? It sounds like you are a pretty level headed lady & I just don't see the point in fake boobies unless like you said you want guys checking them out & not checking you out. If you feel you need to spend money then go buy yourself a sports car or something like that. lol I agree, we need pics (no perv here) for a sense of perspective on all of this. Somebody said something about my brutal honesty... I will tell you if I think you'd look better with bigger boobs. Link to post Share on other sites
Ocean-Blue Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 I'm 36...and I think I look pretty good for my age..not to brag. Lately I have been going through a bit of an early mid life crisis..lol.. I'll be 37 in a few months, so I am considering some cosmetic "tweaking". Anyway..I am considering a boob job. Not sure why...my boobs are actually pretty nice..(I am 34C) but am unsure if that would be a bad idea. I am in pretty good shape..I work out, never had kids. Do any of the ladies here have a boob job? If so how do you like it? How do they feel as opposed to REAL? Do they feel weird? How easy was your recovery? And guys? Do you like or dislike boob jobs? I have heard a few guys say they love a woman with a fake "rack"....but I know a lot of men hate them... Just looking for some input... I think a 34C is a beautiful size to have. Why would you want to change it? Are you in proportion to the rest of your body? If your boobs are too small for your body...then work out and tone up. Don't get plastic surgery to get bigger boobs. I'm not a guy nor do I date women...but I'd hazard a guess and say men would prefer natural boobs to fake ones. This is not to discredit fake boobs or their aesthetic appeal...maybe some men prefer FBs because of the way they look (more symmetry, rounder, perkier, etc). I don't think the risks involved are worth in (scarring, loss of sensation, inability to/complications with breastfeeding your babies)... Ya know? Link to post Share on other sites
Ocean-Blue Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 I am most definitely a boob man, but small tits aren't a deal breaker for me. Fake tits are a deal-breaker. Even if I think she's cute and cool, if she has fake tits I have no interest at all in her. The kind of person that would do that is not the kind of person I want to spend time with. A bit of a generalization, don't you think? So having work done (i.e. a boob job) makes a woman unworthy of being dated? Why not take that a step further then... How about people stop dating women who've had braces or ones who've had corrective eye surgery. There's a fine line, no? Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 A bit of a generalization, don't you think? So having work done (i.e. a boob job) makes a woman unworthy of being dated? Why not take that a step further then... How about people stop dating women who've had braces or ones who've had corrective eye surgery. There's a fine line, no? Touche, good point. I can see where you're going with this... I have a problem when people claim to get work done "for themselves" instead of admitting that they want the extra attention they'll get by being more attractive. People that lack that level of introspective ability are probably not good candidates for relationships with me, imo. I dunno, I just figure in most cases it's an attention-whoring kinda thing. Going from AA to B or C is one thing, but women with fake D or DD boobs... There's gotta be something psychological going on there don't you think? The main thing is they just plain gross me out. I'm big into everything natural and organic (born and raised in Berkeley) and I hate electric lights when natural light is available. I prefer running or hiking to treadmills, etc... Fake tits just look disgusting to me. Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 The fake ones I have seen on people I know generally look pretty good, and that includes you Stargazer. Personally, I wouldn't put myself through a general anaesthetic voluntarily, and I like mine as they are. I can also think of other things I would rather do with the money. However, I would probably consider OTHER forms of cosmetic surgery for the body parts I don't like. Phateless, what about girls who dye their hair or wear makeup or shave their body hair? Thats not natural either. Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 Phateless, what about girls who dye their hair or wear makeup or shave their body hair? Thats not natural either. Excellent counterpoint SB... You're right, but that stuff doesn't bother me. Well, actually, I'm very minimalist on make-up. If a girl wears foundation it grosses me out. I go for girls who MAYBE wear lip-goss and a TOUCH of eye-shadow and that's about it. I prefer zero makeup. I want to kiss your FACE, not a coat of paint... Hair-dying and shaving are both sexy, in my opinion, but those are a far-cry from surgically implanting silicone under your skin, don't you think? I agree, that money could be SOOO much better spent on.... ANYTHING. Link to post Share on other sites
Author PLAYBRAT Posted December 2, 2007 Author Share Posted December 2, 2007 So Phateless...I guess it's safe to say you would never consider a penis extension?? LMAO Anyway...to answer you're questions....I am 5'4, 120 lbs... I am proportionate for my size.I guess you could say I have more of an hour glass figure ....I'm DEFINETELY not skinny. Even tough I HATE the word "thick" I guess that's the best way to describe me..LOL I work out ..but not obsessively.I DO wear make-up..in fact I am going to hopefully become a licensed make up artist so I almost have to. I also color and highlight my hair. I am very much into fashion too. I don't have anything fake or weird about me..LOL...except my occsasional bouts of insecurity...but I guess we ALL go through that. I tried to upload a pic for my avatar but I was not able to for some reason. I'll try again and see if it works.... Link to post Share on other sites
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