Leia Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 i'ts crack me up,men always assumed that the reason why women dress sexy,show cleavage or skin etc is to attract them. oh well.. men from mars and women from venus.:lmao: Same here! I dress up for me... I love to dress up and I do it not to attract men. They love to look and think it's all for them... puhhhleassseee!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 hmmmm. i don't think "competition" is the right term for that. usually women loves to dress sexy,we love to feel good and look sexy for ourselves. we don't dress up or wear sexy out fit only to attract men or to show other ladies how attracted we are. and also it's vary of the person's character. i'ts crack me up,men always assumed that the reason why women dress sexy,show cleavage or skin etc is to attract them. oh well.. men from mars and women from venus.:lmao: I don't know that I buy that completely. I think there's a subconcious reason for dressing up. Even though women may say "I am dressing up for me" deep down they want to look good for others, whether it be to attract a man or fend off the competition. Looking "good" is one thing. Dressing up real sexy like, that's a bit more than just "making yourself" happy Myself don't like fake boobs even if i happened to be a man,i don't like a fake boobs for my woman. i can't imagine sucking a fake boobs with something under in it.lol i prefer small and perky but natural boobies. to each of thier own eh. lucky me my breast are in good shape,perky and in good size plus natural eh. haha Of course, you're saying that for yourself and no one else, right? Link to post Share on other sites
Author PLAYBRAT Posted December 5, 2007 Author Share Posted December 5, 2007 WOW..I never knew a thread about boobies would provoke so many responses!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 I like "enhanced" boobies. As women get older they really make you look more youthful. Guys will tell you they don't like fake but as long as they look nice and are done by someone board certified I think they look and feel great. Link to post Share on other sites
get.mos Posted December 6, 2007 Share Posted December 6, 2007 Star Gazer, I'm sincerely sorry if I offended you with my language, I've often heard girls my age refer to their own breasts as "tits" so I didn't think anyone would mind. Yeah, my views are harsh. I haven't spoken with enough women who have fake breasts to change them yet. Maybe you can be the first? fyi, i'm a woman, and i'm not offended by the reference to boobs as tits. i've referred to mine as tits at times too. and i'm not sure your view is harsh. i've read other posts throughout this forum about how small boobs are ugly. to each his/her own. but kudos to Phateless for apologizing when he felt necessary to do so.back to the OP's question, i guess i'll chime in that if getting a boob job floats your boat, then knock yourself out. just take the time to do the research. remember that they are not permanent, so the question becomes, "do you want to get another surgery in ten years?" i'm of the au naturel school, and mine are not big. when i was younger, i used to be very insecure about my size, but i frankly didn't give a toot's petooty about what anyone else thought. there's more to me than my chest. a decade later, i'm really enjoying my body, and i'm reaping the rewards of how well i've treated myself. one of my coworkers made a comment that, "unless you're an A cup, your boobs will just sag over time." and my mate has said that mine look like the tits of a 19 yo. but, here's another serving of food for thought, some new research has shown what probably many people already believe: your personality plays a much greater role in attraction than physicality. hope you make a decision that will make you happy. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted December 6, 2007 Share Posted December 6, 2007 but, here's another serving of food for thought, some new research has shown what probably many people already believe: your personality plays a much greater role in attraction than physicality. Been saying this for a long time now Link to post Share on other sites
spookie Posted December 6, 2007 Share Posted December 6, 2007 I think men say they prefer natural, but that's when it's between perfect perky 18yo natural vs. enhanced. If it's between gross natural (and there is such thing) and nicely altered most would pick the nicely altered. I've never touched enhanced breasts so I have no idea how real they feel but I think they can look great, and if you feel it will be a positive improvement, go for it! Although, TBH I think 34C is the perfect size and I don't know why you'd want to go bigger. I am hoping to get to 34C (34B here myself) via childbirth. Link to post Share on other sites
Passionate69 Posted December 6, 2007 Share Posted December 6, 2007 Im kind of wonder,must be most men not seeing a real nice boobies but natural. Honestly i've been incountered most men asking me if my boobies are real and i just laugh out loud because they can't tell the difference what is real and what is not. i think most women these days have a fake boobies and men are use to seeing that. i do believe genes is a big factor to have a nice of set natural boobies and how you take care of your boobies that will not sag and remain perky.exercise its helps a lot too for perky boobies. i don't believed only 18 years old woman can have a natural perky boobs. but i believed a 50 above yrs old woman can't have a nice boobies unleast they want to under go under the knife to have a nice one. my aunt who is in her 40's still have a nice set of boobs,just have a lil bit flaw but still nice and perk. she never feed her child to it tho. besides, boobies there are many beautiful parts of a woman body that you can look at for. if you don't have a set perfect nice breast,focus on something else that you have in your body that look much nice. btw; i am in my 20's. Link to post Share on other sites
LotusLaLune Posted December 6, 2007 Share Posted December 6, 2007 That is an almost perfect size! Why would you want to be bigger? I am pretty small ... early twenties, 5'7", 130 lbs, and I wear 34DD ... there are times I absolutely HATE having big breasts and wish they were smaller. A NATURAL C cup is PERFECT! Fake boobs are so gross - please don't do it! Have some faith in yourself and look at cultivating your mind instead of wasting money on plastic parts for your body - it's really sickening! Don't make a bad image for women (like you can undo that, but still) - cosmetic surgery is so nauseating. Be natural and love yourself for who you are! Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted December 6, 2007 Share Posted December 6, 2007 I am pretty small ... early twenties, 5'7", 130 lbs, and I wear 34DD ... there are times I absolutely HATE having big breasts and wish they were smaller.quote] oh wow... Link to post Share on other sites
CanadaGuy Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 Do any of the ladies here have a boob job? If so how do you like it? How do they feel as opposed to REAL? Do they feel weird? How easy was your recovery? And guys? Do you like or dislike boob jobs? I have heard a few guys say they love a woman with a fake "rack"....but I know a lot of men hate them... Just looking for some input... Cohesive gel under the muscle give the best look and feel, but you will have a few days of pain. I know a few women with them, and they love them. I love boobs, and very well done implants, love them as well. Link to post Share on other sites
HoustonScrewed Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Late response due to the avitar of [sIZE=5][COLOR=#660000]PLAYBRAT[/COLOR][/sIZE] looking nice and me just looking at some old posts. Anyway, I have paid for a couple of sets of the fakies, and had some of the real ones in my earlier lives. It doesn't matter either way if you are huge or flat, as long as you are happy. The lady is the one that has to wear them. Personally I used to not like small boob's but after a dear friend lost both breasts due to cancer at the age of 27 I no longer care. I also lost the care for looks after that, boobs are nice and I would like to have them with the woman I am with but in the end it makes no differance. You have to look at how you can talk to the person you are with. Link to post Share on other sites
Meaplus3 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 I'm 36...and I think I look pretty good for my age..not to brag. Lately I have been going through a bit of an early mid life crisis..lol.. I'll be 37 in a few months, so I am considering some cosmetic "tweaking". Anyway..I am considering a boob job. Not sure why...my boobs are actually pretty nice..(I am 34C) but am unsure if that would be a bad idea. I am in pretty good shape..I work out, never had kids. Do any of the ladies here have a boob job? If so how do you like it? How do they feel as opposed to REAL? Do they feel weird? How easy was your recovery? And guys? Do you like or dislike boob jobs? I have heard a few guys say they love a woman with a fake "rack"....but I know a lot of men hate them... Just looking for some input... Playbrat... I went through this same thing a you when I was about to turn 37, have NO idea why it hit at that age but it did. I decided againist it because of the fact that my Bff had this done and in her case she had complication's that were pretty severe....:eek:she was in lot's of pain for while and now she regret's it..... this scared me away from it. Plus I'm happy with my size and shape of breast's anyway.. I would really read up on it and gather the fact's before you make a firm decesion. Good luck. AP:) Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 I see fake boobies a lot. Of course- that is because I fit bras for a living. They usually look great as long as they are in good proportion with the rest of the body. The one thing that I find weird is how they feel. Link to post Share on other sites
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