melbelle Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 running out of time. is he interested? is it worth it? recap: Is he interested? I'm running out of time and I could use some advice as to if its worth it to pursue. I dont want to ask my friends about this (crazy superstition). I just met him this year, but we I have caught his eye in the year since we've started going to school together. Kind of one of those "i know you've seen me, I've seen you" kind of things. - When off at a school retreat, he swatted me with his sweatshirt playfully. - would try and link everything back to what we have in common: ex: we were talking about interests in music- he asked me "you play guitar? I play too. You taught yourself? Me too!" stuff like that. - he was going to a concert with a mutual friend. He knew I went to a similar show earlier, and kept being like, "well you saw Ratdog (the band), what do you think of Phil Lesh?" He brought this up numerous times. - I saw him walking across campus, he smiled HUGELY and waved - Saw him in teh campus restaurant, I stopped and said hi, we talked for like 10 minutes, he was smiling and laughing, very attentive. (I could have just been seeing what I wanted to see, though) - this weekend, i saw him at a concert. Before I could say hi, he left. So i shot him a cute message being like, "I saw you but couldnt say hi. so i'm doing it now!" He responded right away being like, "you should have stopped me! I'll see you tonight (at another show)?" He seems interested. Its weird that we had that connection before we even formally met. *************************************************** A few weeks later, I've only seen him a couple more times. We've talked online a couple times, with him being like, "anything good going on this weekend? See you at such-and-such? " So it appears that he'd be interested in hanging out. Tonight's our big school formal, and I'm hoping he'll be there (he's getting over mono, so i dont know if he will)... would it be too forward to try and dance with him, etc? Do you think he'd even be receptive to it?? Thanks a lot Link to post Share on other sites
Lovegod Posted December 3, 2007 Share Posted December 3, 2007 would it be too forward to try and dance with him, etc? Of course not. Men generally like being picked out from other men as being "lucky". And quit trying to guess what the hell is going on. Go for the digits and get yourself a date with him! Quit passing up your opportunities. Link to post Share on other sites
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