Frankie24 Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 Ive come to the conclusion not, in every single relationship ive been nothing but loyal, loving, commited, supporting and still its not enough Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 We sure do. They are the best. Sometimes it will take time before you meet the right type of guy for you. Link to post Share on other sites
SYRACUSE03 Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 I sure do. I don't have time or the patience for drama. Link to post Share on other sites
oasis Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 From my experiences, they don't. Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 Define nice girl! It depends on how you define nice, I think someone who is nice to the point o f being aloof may have issues finding a mate that will stick around long. I think generally most men and women don't want a pushover, but a nice and individually confident/stable personality are good assets. Link to post Share on other sites
Pedigree Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 in every single relationship ive been nothing but loyal, loving, commited, supporting and still its not enough If I were to get that from a girl, I'd gladly return the favor. I think generally most men and women don't want a pushover This is also true. I'm curious if the whole "doormat nice" thing exists among girls. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 This is also true. I'm curious if the whole "doormat nice" thing exists among girls. It does I'm afraid. Guys will cheat on them all day and they will still take the guys back. Link to post Share on other sites
RoseRen Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 It does I'm afraid. Guys will cheat on them all day and they will still take the guys back. Oh yeah. That's right. But I still think it is good to be nice, loyal and good, inspite of how they treat you. I'm a strong believer in the thought that "Love can change people." Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 But I still think it is good to be nice, loyal and good, inspite of how they treat you. I'm a strong believer in the thought that "Love can change people." In other words, be a "pushover". If someone continued to treat me badly, the sb129 whoopass can would be opened bigstyle. there is only so much sh** people should tolerate, if they put up with Sh**, then Sh** is what they will continue to get.. Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 I really do like a nice girl, but she's got to have a feisty side to her! Someone who can be a smartass and talk smack with me in a fun and playful way, but a true sweetheart at heart. I'm thinking of one girl in particular who I think has that perfect balance. I have a little crush on her but I have a feeling she'd want something serious and I'm not into that at the moment. But yes, keep that nice girl attitude. One of my friends has been off/on with this girl for 7 years, and I saw a book on her coffee-table titled "Why Men LOVE Bitches" and I thought to myself "lol, uh oh... Link to post Share on other sites
FleshNBones Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 Most guys like nice looking girls. Whether or not they will pursue her depends on how thorny she is. Kindness is a small factor, and considered when other factors are lacking if at all. The same is true for girls. For me, kindness is important because people who work well with others succeed in life. A home should not be a battleground. Too bad I don't make the cut. Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 I really do like a nice girl, but she's got to have a feisty side to her! Someone who can be a smartass and talk smack with me in a fun and playful way, but a true sweetheart at heart. I'm thinking of one girl in particular who I think has that perfect balance. I have a little crush on her but I have a feeling she'd want something serious and I'm not into that at the moment. But yes, keep that nice girl attitude. One of my friends has been off/on with this girl for 7 years, and I saw a book on her coffee-table titled "Why Men LOVE Bitches" and I thought to myself "lol, uh oh... Oh I have read that book. Its stupid! I think you can be assertive and not take any sh** without being a b*tch. Pardon my language. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 In other words, be a "pushover". If someone continued to treat me badly, the sb129 whoopass can would be opened bigstyle. there is only so much sh** people should tolerate, if they put up with Sh**, then Sh** is what they will continue to get.. Oh I have read that book. Its stupid! I think you can be assertive and not take any sh** without being a b*tch.Pardon my language. Yes and yes. Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 Oh I have read that book. Its stupid! I think you can be assertive and not take any sh** without being a b*tch. Pardon my language. lol, I figured as much. Good for you SB. I'm scared for him after seeing that book, lol Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 Ive come to the conclusion not, in every single relationship ive been nothing but loyal, loving, committed, supporting and still its not enough Until you meet the RIGHT PERSON, it will never be enough! Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 lol, I figured as much. Good for you SB. I'm scared for him after seeing that book, lol Don't be. Its full of.......... Sh**!!!! If his GF falls for the BS in that book, then you will find out about it soon enough, because he will be seeking you out to moan about his GF! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Frankie24 Posted December 2, 2007 Author Share Posted December 2, 2007 I mean nice as in rarely argue along those lines mean im not nice nice i dont believe there is siuch a thing, i stand my ground, speak my mind when need to and certainly wont settle for being treat like crap but it seems men like these hard woman the type who will make theres lives utter hell Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 Haway pet you'll find a champion lad soon enough. Link to post Share on other sites
lindya Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 I mean nice as in rarely argue along those lines mean im not nice nice i dont believe there is siuch a thing, i stand my ground, speak my mind when need to and certainly wont settle for being treat like crap but it seems men like these hard woman the type who will make theres lives utter hell Maybe those guys are stuck in a timewarp where they'll be forever frightened 12 year olds snatching glances at the bully-girls who fascinate and terrify them in equal measures. Or maybe they let their partners behave like bitches in public on the understanding that things will be evened up when they get back home. Link to post Share on other sites
brothermartin Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 Ive come to the conclusion not, in every single relationship ive been nothing but loyal, loving, commited, supporting and still its not enough There are 1000 nice guys out there that can say the same thing about women. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Frankie24 Posted December 4, 2007 Author Share Posted December 4, 2007 Haway pet you'll find a champion lad soon enough. I know i will Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted December 4, 2007 Share Posted December 4, 2007 They want a nice girl out of the bedroom and a nasty one in the bedroom. Unfortunately not many women are like that so they either get stuck with the angel or the bitch. Both have their drawbacks. Sorry, had to give one of those stupid cliched responses everyone else gives rofl. Honey, stick with how you are and one day you will find someone to appreciate you for who you are. Link to post Share on other sites
Leia Posted December 4, 2007 Share Posted December 4, 2007 It does I'm afraid. Guys will cheat on them all day and they will still take the guys back. I don't take them back! As soon as I found out they were cheating on me, I dump them! Hasta La vista, baby.. you know?! Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted December 4, 2007 Share Posted December 4, 2007 I don't take them back! As soon as I found out they were cheating on me, I dump them! Hasta La vista, baby.. you know?! Thats good. You are not the "doormat" type of gal. You won't take guys crap. Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 They want a nice girl out of the bedroom and a nasty one in the bedroom. Unfortunately not many women are like that so they either get stuck with the angel or the bitch. Both have their drawbacks. Sorry, had to give one of those stupid cliched responses everyone else gives rofl. Honey, stick with how you are and one day you will find someone to appreciate you for who you are. This is kinda true.... Link to post Share on other sites
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