OverNow Posted December 9, 2007 Share Posted December 9, 2007 I definitely prefer nice girls. I prefer a bit of a feisty personality, but they MUST be nice deep down. A mean girl who likes being cruel is a complete turn-off for me, and wouldn't get my interest one bit, no matter how they looked like. In saying that, I wouldn't be interested in a girl who doesn't enjoy a bit of fun conversation with sexual undertones. In other words...the "extra-nice" girls i guess. No fun at all. Link to post Share on other sites
swirlyq Posted December 12, 2007 Share Posted December 12, 2007 There are 1000 nice guys out there that can say the same thing about women. my thought exactly. Link to post Share on other sites
randuff Posted December 13, 2007 Share Posted December 13, 2007 Ive come to the conclusion not, in every single relationship ive been nothing but loyal, loving, commited, supporting and still its not enough I would love a girl like that, I just haven't met one yet..... Link to post Share on other sites
Crestfallen_KH Posted December 15, 2007 Share Posted December 15, 2007 You can definitely be TOO nice. I have friends who are so nice because they don't want to do anything to give the guy "red flags." What they end up doing is shooing them away anyway because they say things like "oh, I don't care what we do..it's up to you!" or don't speak up when they disagree or aren't happy about something. Also, there is a difference between being aggressive and assertive. The latter is good. In my experience, guys want a girl who will speak up in a tactful way. Aggressive people shove things down your throat while assertive people stick up for themselves but know to drop it once they've made their case. I think if you're loyal, honest, attractive, intelligent, and nice in an assertive and tactfully opinionated way you will be most guys' dream. Link to post Share on other sites
LaughMachine Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 Being nice and sweet can be a good thing. But you also have to have other aspects of your personality that make a man go whoaaaaa Read the book.. why men love bitches haha Link to post Share on other sites
Passionate69 Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 well..talk about nice. sometimes being overly nice is boring. i had these bf who is very nice and boring in bed. makes me wanna kill my self. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 If you give all, expect to be taken for granted. It's got to be give and take. This is far from being a gender specific issue. Link to post Share on other sites
CanadaGuy Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 Ive come to the conclusion not, in every single relationship ive been nothing but loyal, loving, commited, supporting and still its not enough What is a "nice girl" ????? Loyal loving, commited, supporting, sounds great..... (sounds perfect!) What are you not telling us?? Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 Nice guys like nice girls and vice versa. Everybody likes to be treated nicely unless they are mental. Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 Nice guys like nice girls and vice versa. Everybody likes to be treated nicely unless they are mental. unfortunately, in a college town, most everyone is mental. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 unfortunately, in a college town, most everyone is mental. College makes you cerebral, not necessarily mental. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 Nice guys like nice girls and vice versa. Everybody likes to be treated nicely unless they are mental. Mental is good... sometimes. Consider it a change of pace. Mental all the time gets draining. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 Most men would love a truly nice woman but fake sweetness tends to send red fkags. Many women will smile in your face but try neuter you when you are not looking. They will tell you they love you over the phone while the OM is giving them head. A woman has to show over time through actions whether or not she truly is nice and if she is most men consider her a rare gem. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 A woman has to show over time through actions whether or not she truly is nice and if she is most men consider her a rare gem. And the same goes for women. If a woman finds herself a good guy, a genuinely good guy who's proven himself over and over to be a good guy, then she appreciates him too. The opposite of nice is mean. Who wants to hang out with a mean person? Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 Being mean isn't always a bad thing but you need to have the right response for the right person. If somebody is trying to screw me over I can be the ********* of the year but it doesn't make sense to be mean to somebody you are supposed to love. If you don't feel they are worthy of the best treatment then you should not be with them. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 it doesn't make sense to be mean to somebody you are supposed to love. If you don't feel they are worthy of the best treatment then you should not be with them. Yeah that's what I think too. So nice guys do like nice girls and treat them nicely. But if someone doesn't like that nice person so much then they will take advantage of that niceness. And see it as a weakness rather than a bonus. And exploit it. And crush that nice person's spirit into pieces. So be careful who you're nice too. Link to post Share on other sites
Florida Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 Yeah that's what I think too. So nice guys do like nice girls and treat them nicely. But if someone doesn't like that nice person so much then they will take advantage of that niceness. And see it as a weakness rather than a bonus. And exploit it. And crush that nice person's spirit into pieces. So be careful who you're nice too. This sums up the answer to the post nicely-most everyone wants to be treated nicely, but choosing the wrong people can make one think otherwise....and come to the conclusion being nice is for suckers. But mix this with what TBF said : If you give all, expect to be taken for granted. It's got to be give and take. This is far from being a gender specific issue. Link to post Share on other sites
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