kidneyguy Posted December 2, 2007 Share Posted December 2, 2007 I mentioned in my previous thread that I like this one girl at my school, but I haven't told her yet. Anyway, I had a weird, but awesome dream last night that my friends and I went to Japan for an anime convention (we're all into that). We were in our hotel room for all of us, and I saw the girl I like changing. Right when she lifted up her bra though, it was censored and I immediately turned away from her (I wasn't staring at her, I just turned and noticed it). My dreams are typically f#@$ed up, but not as much as that instant. When I woke up, I was thinking about my idea of a road trip to San Diego again for Comic-con, and I was thinking of inviting her with my friends. I would invite one of her friends as well (who was also one of mine) that was female too so that she won't feel left out among her gender. Anyways, I still really like her and have not told her. Does this dream mean something? Should I invite her in the trip (if I can go, since I'd be going in 2009)? If we went, we'd be staying in a hostel near the convention center to save money. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kidneyguy Posted December 3, 2007 Author Share Posted December 3, 2007 I've never been the popular one. I've always been the guy everyone picked on, all because of what happened when I wasn't even in kindergarten (though the effects last to today). I really want to truly belong to someone. I just want to show those out there I can beat the odds one more time. PS: Just so you know, I had to kidney transplants before kindergarten. The effects are great from the medication (weak enamel, puffy gums, stunted growth, immune suppression, etc.). I just want to truly belong to a girl. I think this girl will be my last chance for a while so.................I really need all the help I can get. Link to post Share on other sites
Lovegod Posted December 3, 2007 Share Posted December 3, 2007 Is it me, or do I smell estrogen? Before taking some girl you don't know on a trip, perhaps you should get past the first date, or even past the first few MONTHS of dating. Go up to her, make some small talk, get her number, call her up with a date plan, and take her out. If she says no, then move on. And dreams don't mean anything, they occur to keep your brain amused at night. You're watching too much Disney. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kidneyguy Posted December 3, 2007 Author Share Posted December 3, 2007 We just don't talk that much. I have trouble talking to her. I think she has another guy she likes (who is my friend). I'm just going to try and take it one step at a time. The trip isn't going to be for over a year, so I have time. Link to post Share on other sites
Lovegod Posted December 4, 2007 Share Posted December 4, 2007 ...and I'll bet you're planning to take the whole year to build up the confidence to ask her out. Yep, definately estrogen. Baby steps won't get you the date. Some other dude with the balls to ask her out will come along before you can muster up the courage to say "hi". Do yourself a favor and dive into this head deep. What the hell is she gonna do if you go up to her and get her number? Cut off your head? Link to post Share on other sites
tomwiz Posted December 4, 2007 Share Posted December 4, 2007 Dude, you sound like me in junior high sort of. You have to discover that you are a "catch" even if you really arent, if you believe you are, she will too. I'm not a great looking guy by anymeans, I'm not ugly however I recently landed a pretty good looking gal, how? By gaining some confidence, girls find it sexy. Like lovegod said, you gotta take a chance man...whats the worst that can happen. Nothing is worse than wondering what could have been if you woulda taken a chance. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kidneyguy Posted December 4, 2007 Author Share Posted December 4, 2007 I've tried for the past few months to hang out with her outside of school. Unfortunately, her parents are overly protective (and divorced), so it could only be in a small group every other weekend. I don't know many of her friends, but they're all nice to me. Any suggestions for the winter break on what we could do? Link to post Share on other sites
Author kidneyguy Posted December 5, 2007 Author Share Posted December 5, 2007 Will she like this?: 1. I have a 1st degree black belt in taekwondo. 2. I will have a GPA better than 4.0 by the end of the quarter. 3. I know a lot of medical stuff because of my kidney transplants (just in case if anyone they know is sick, unless if they're going through something only girls do, then I have no idea). 4. I was best friends with an 11th grader when I was in 4th grade (she was at my dojo). 5. (I know this is a yes) I like anime, manga, and webcomics. 6. I LOVE roller coasters. 7. We work well together. What do you think (exclude #4 though, sorry)? Link to post Share on other sites
tomwiz Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 How old are you man? While all of those things are nice enough, and good job for you...its not really the kind of thing that will get/keep a girl interested. Girls are looking for something fun and exciting at that age, since its around christmas time maybe ask her opinion on what to get someone for christmas ( a girl)...or maybe ask if she'd like to see a movie with you and some of your friends and her friends in a group. When it comes down to it, you just hae to make a move Link to post Share on other sites
Author kidneyguy Posted December 5, 2007 Author Share Posted December 5, 2007 Well, I did invite her to the Christmas party at my house over Christmas break, which may lead to something. But all I have is $5, and I occasionally don't get allowance (my parents forget this easily). What can I get her for less than $10? Link to post Share on other sites
Author kidneyguy Posted December 7, 2007 Author Share Posted December 7, 2007 Well, she knows I like her. What should I do? I know she doesn't like me though! It wasn't me that told her. She guessed it was me and a friend of her's (and mine) had to tell her the truth. Can't girls just do a little white lie to each other???!!!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Lovegod Posted December 7, 2007 Share Posted December 7, 2007 Well, she knows I like her. Nothing wrong with that. I know she doesn't like me though! Then it's time to move on and focus on other women. Link to post Share on other sites
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