Starting a family with the mm

[Gwyneth]

Gwyneth, you should go find an internet slang dictionary. No one is calling her a troll because she wants to have someone's baby. A troll is someone who, for instance (and in the context of a forum like this), makes up stories just to cause trouble. i.e. They are saying that they don't believe any of the OPs story actually happened.

 

I know what a troll is and believe me when I say I doubt very much this person is Not a troll.

 

I run my own celebrity forum and have dealt with many trolls and snarks--well my opinion is this person is not a troll. I'm just giving her the benefit of the doubt.

[curiousnycgirl]

Gwyneth -

 

I am happy to lend support to someone who is not sincerely hell bent on messing with children. If she and her MM want to go off into the sunset - great. If he chooses to leave his family, so be it - there are reasons that he sought comfort outside of his home.

 

However suggesting that one has strong maternal urgings but cannot get pregnant without assurances that their body will be fixed afterward is not someone I owuld see as a strong candidate for mother of the year. Additionally someone who suggests leaving any children in an abusive situation and/or separating siblings who will have just had to deal with the divorce of their parents, because taking them in will be too hard to take them all in does not win any awards in my eyes.

 

Finally someone who genuinely comes to a forum for insight and advice does not twist every response to mock and insult the posters. She is inciting each and every negative response she is getting.

 

Again what this woman and her MM do is their business, however there are children involved and they MUST come first.

 

That's all.

[Gwyneth]

No need to defend yourself to me--I can careless. I'm just saying she might be in some kind of crisis and the things being said aren't really necessary.

[writeon]

I'm just saying she might be in some kind of crisis and the things being said aren't really necessary.

 

Personally I don't think anything twisted is saying is necessary -- and I agree she's a troll. I mean really, bragging about how hot she is and how "dumpy" his wife is? Is that really necessary? Saying she wants to "drive a knife" into their marriage? Saying that she is doing harrassing things to her MM's wife just to get them to divorce (ex., hiring a PI, reporting her to CYFD, etc.)? Saying that she doesn't want her body to be destroyed by having children? Can you not see why her words are angering everyone but you (including even the most tolerant / open-minded of current OWs like OWoman and Lizzie)??

 

See Gwenyth I am only trying to point out very inciteful things she has said to get the forum stirred up, to show why she's probably a troll. I'm also trying to show you that nearly everyone here has been offended by something twisted has said... because she's saying things on purpose to offend people. I don't see how you can read her posts which welcome if not encourage incredulity, amazement and yes, even disdain, and then say that other posters are saying unnecessary things. No offense but to me it sounds like if an OW says something, you think it's great and necessary and not to be questioned, but if a non-OW says something, it's totally unnecessary and mean and they should go away. Perhaps if you look at the content of what people are saying instead of their status as OW or not, you will see what everyone else is talking about? I am just trying to help explain why people think she's a troll and how things she says seem to be purposefully said to inspire people to be get riled up back at her.

[Frances]

No need to defend yourself to me--I can careless. I'm just saying she might be in some kind of crisis and the things being said aren't really necessary.

 

She does need help. She is either a troll or she should be in therapy.

[writeon]

Personally I don't think anything twisted is saying is necessary -- and I agree she's a troll. I mean really, bragging about how hot she is and how "dumpy" his wife is? Is that really necessary? Saying she wants to "drive a knife" into their marriage? Saying that she is doing harrassing things to her MM's wife just to get them to divorce (ex., hiring a PI, reporting her to CYFD, etc.)? Saying that she doesn't want her body to be destroyed by having children? Can you not see why her words are angering everyone but you (including even the most tolerant / open-minded of current OWs like OWoman and Lizzie)??

 

See Gwenyth I am only trying to point out very inciteful things she has said to get the forum stirred up, to show why she's probably a troll. I'm also trying to show you that nearly everyone here has been offended by something twisted has said... because she's saying things on purpose to offend people. I don't see how you can read her posts which welcome if not encourage incredulity, amazement and yes, even disdain, and then say that other posters are saying unnecessary things. No offense but to me it sounds like if an OW says something, you think it's great and necessary and not to be questioned, but if a non-OW says something, it's totally unnecessary and mean and they should go away. Perhaps if you look at the content of what people are saying instead of their status as OW or not, you will see what everyone else is talking about? I am just trying to help explain why people think she's a troll and how things she says seem to be purposefully said to inspire people to be get riled up back at her.

 

 

Gwenyth and all, I should have clarified, sorry, I wasn't talking about anger-inciting words by the OP only in this thread but also in her other thread, the "how do I make her go away faster?" thread. In both threads she says very inciting offensive comments that offend everyone. That's what I meant, sorry to infer that they were all in this one thread.

[Gwyneth]

I did in an earlier post write something that I disagreed with her on. I'm just saying, why do people on here feel the need to say harsh things? Just because She is does Not mean it's okay for others. I just do not get it. I am probably transfering my anger with questions into this post.

 

Hey, whatever. If she's a troll, fine--she should be banned and punished. I never said I agree with what she's saying, I'm just saying--back off and lay off of her if you do not like what she is saying and you are reading. Why get all upset about it if you think it's fake? Silly to me.

[twistedapart1]

Personally I don't think anything twisted is saying is necessary -- and I agree she's a troll. I mean really, bragging about how hot she is and how "dumpy" his wife is? Is that really necessary? Saying she wants to "drive a knife" into their marriage? Saying that she is doing harrassing things to her MM's wife just to get them to divorce (ex., hiring a PI, reporting her to CYFD, etc.)? Saying that she doesn't want her body to be destroyed by having children? Can you not see why her words are angering everyone but you (including even the most tolerant / open-minded of current OWs like OWoman and Lizzie)??

 

Oh, for crying out loud. Don't quote something if you can't get it straight.

 

I'm through with the senseless people here twisting my words around. I wish I knew what "CYFD" was too!

[Ms. Red]

I thought Twisted might be a troll based on previous posts.

 

Now I am sure of it.

 

Please stop indulging her....

 

Agreed. Am I the only one who has noticed 2 separate user names posting the same story?

[twistedapart1]

Agreed. Am I the only one who has noticed 2 separate user names posting the same story?

 

Gee. Oh, you mean "twistedapart" and "twistedapart1". Sorry that confused someone like you so much.

[Leia]

I run my own celebrity forum and have dealt with many trolls and snarks

 

Are you THE Gwyneth Paltrow?? Seriously?? What happened to Chris Martin!?

[Leia]

Agreed. Am I the only one who has noticed 2 separate user names posting the same story?

 

I think the first was banned or something... and she re-registered to post more.... isn't that obvious?

[sb129]

Gwyneth -

 

I am happy to lend support to someone who is not sincerely hell bent on messing with children. If she and her MM want to go off into the sunset - great. If he chooses to leave his family, so be it - there are reasons that he sought comfort outside of his home.

 

However suggesting that one has strong maternal urgings but cannot get pregnant without assurances that their body will be fixed afterward is not someone I owuld see as a strong candidate for mother of the year. Additionally someone who suggests leaving any children in an abusive situation and/or separating siblings who will have just had to deal with the divorce of their parents, because taking them in will be too hard to take them all in does not win any awards in my eyes.

 

Finally someone who genuinely comes to a forum for insight and advice does not twist every response to mock and insult the posters. She is inciting each and every negative response she is getting.

 

Again what this woman and her MM do is their business, however there are children involved and they MUST come first.

 

That's all.

 

I agree 100% CNYCGirl. There are some people on this forum who do things that I don't necessarily agree with, but at least they have a bit of humility and simple POLITENESS about them, they are generally good people, and listen to advice without getting nasty and super-defensive.

 

No need to defend yourself to me--I can careless. I'm just saying she might be in some kind of crisis and the things being said aren't really necessary.

 

What kind of crisis? If it was that bad, she shouldn't be here she should be getting professional help.

 

Gee. Oh, you mean "twistedapart" and "twistedapart1". Sorry that confused someone like you so much.

 

See what I mean? Nasty, rude, and not particularly endearing.

Not the kind of attitude that elicits a warm and helpful response from most people.

 

Are you THE Gwyneth Paltrow?? Seriously?? What happened to Chris Martin!?

 

He has gone off to join a Tibetan commune and make music out of rocks and buffalo balls.

[FearNoMore]

I haven't laughed so hard for so long! This thread has got me all in stitches!!! I wonder if any Hollywood producers would buy this story and turn it into a box office!

 

Twisted, you need help. You got help/advice from all these wonderful people on Loveshack and yet you mock some of them and don't appreciate them at all... isn't that nasty? Oh wait... you are after all sleeping with someone's husband so how can you see your attitude toward others as nasty!

 

I hope you will find comfort in whatever you decide...