nana7777 Posted December 4, 2007 Share Posted December 4, 2007 a couple of weeks ago a friend of mine introduced me to this really cute guy. the three of us went out together a couple of times and he seemed to be totally into me. beeing a gentlemen (getting me drinks, helping me into my coat, opening doors for me etc.) he even told me that he can't believe our friend hadn't introduced us before and that he was smitten the moment he saw me. one night, our friend left the club earlier and then the cute guy tried to kiss me. but i didn't let him because i wasn't sure at that time. (i just had broken up with my boyfriend a couple of days before) anyways, i had to go on a business trip the next day and i told him i would call him when i get back. which i did! he then took me out for dinner and another time he asked to go come to a party with him. (which doesn't really count as a date, i guess) both times he walked be home and sent me a text message the next day, saying that he had an amazing time with me and that i looked beautiful etc.... but he didn't make a move, didn't try to kiss me again. i wonder now if he still is into me or if he just wants friendship. (i know that he has several female friends) any advice? anatina Link to post Share on other sites
Lovegod Posted December 4, 2007 Share Posted December 4, 2007 You gave him a red light, so he's put the ball in your court. It's up to you to give him a green light for him to kiss you. May I suggest initiating the kiss? Remember, we aren't mind readers. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nana7777 Posted December 4, 2007 Author Share Posted December 4, 2007 thanks for your advice, lovegod. but do you think he's still interested? i'm afraid that he may have already lost is interest in me. i don't want to kiss him only to be rejected - i would find that super embarassing. Link to post Share on other sites
Lovegod Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 but do you think he's still interested? Yes, and here's why: both times he walked be home and sent me a text message the next day, saying that he had an amazing time with me and that i looked beautiful etc.... There's still lots of interest there, but you have to give him a green light to show affection again. SO GO AND KISS HIM! Link to post Share on other sites
oppath Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 I agree. He may know about your ex bf too and not want to push things and be rejected. How about you put your hands on him -- on his thigh -- or grab his hand while walking. And if he doesn't resist, but still isn't making a move, kiss him. Link to post Share on other sites
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