orly Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 kinda a long story so ill try to keep it to the point and short year or so ago I started dating this girl fell in love with her to the point that I never wanted to live another day with out her next to me 8months or so latter she said she wanted to take a break and asked me to leave since we where living together I packed my stuff up and left. I messed this up and thought she wanted to end the relationship but apparently she just wanted to be alone for a night few days latter she has a new bf and two weeks latter she moves in with him. the guy ends up cheating on her and now she broke up with hi now here is where I would like some thoughts.. for the 2-3 months we where apart she would tell me that she loves me and 'really really' misses me I would tell her that I miss her as well and on the weekends we would hangout now for the past week or so im back living with her sleeping in the same bed and cuddling with her. she knows I wanna get back together and shes saying she just wants to get her life back on track before she starts thinking about getting another bf dose anyone think I still have a chance? we are never apart from each other once again unless one of us is at work. she inviting me to go on this xmas thing with her fam this weekend witch I said yes to. im driving my self crazy thinking about this Link to post Share on other sites
vivrantflo Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 Why would you want her back man? Just her actions alone, have shown her character. Any time a woman asks for "space" or a "break".. there's another guy in the mix. Your story once again proves that. You didn't mess up anything.. you were right. She did want to end the relationship when she asked you to leave Two weeks after you leave, she moves in with another dude?? Guess that means she's known him for a while longer than you think, for her to make that move.. and because things didn't work out with him, she's crawling back to you.. and not even.. she says she doesnt want to rush a relationship... which means she'll hang around you to keep her company, untill she finds someone "better" You DONT deserve that treatment, and you should be spending time with a woman that wants to be with you, and only you. IF you want her back..(which I wouldn't advise) move out, and give yourself some more value.. she's walking all over you, and knows she can get u back whenever she wants.. Personally, I think you should leave her alone and move on to someone more deserving of your attention and love.. Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 Why would you subject yourself to this torture? Never give someone like this a second chance. She will kick you to the curb as soon as the next guy comes along so bet her to the punch. Link to post Share on other sites
Author orly Posted December 5, 2007 Author Share Posted December 5, 2007 thanks for the replys, bring up good points that I have thought about before and never could come to a good awnser, I've had a few relationships in the past, or almost relationships I should say but they where over within a month every single one the other person couldn't make the cut just something about her makes me never wanna give up on her I guess that's why I put my self thou this. the guy she started dating was an old friend of hers that always wanted to date her but never did the way im currently looking at it is that I hurt her and she was on the rebound she was never happy with him we wuld talk nighty and 3-4 times a week she was talking aout hating beening there wishing she could be back in the city I live in things like that but this might just be me making excuses up :/ im not sure just really confused Link to post Share on other sites
sandra Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 Yes, it does seem she that she wants to be with you again. Be confident, tell ask her if that is what she wants. You're not losing anything by asking. Women are complicated, you have to read between the lines most of the time. Link to post Share on other sites
AHIWON Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 She doesn't know what she wants. If I were you I would distance my self from this woman. You can do better than her. Link to post Share on other sites
thelegend Posted December 6, 2007 Share Posted December 6, 2007 Why would you want to be a second hand man? You were the star in her life that wasn't good enough she sent you to the bench for a free agent he didn't pan out now you the starter again. Please nobody deserves to get their feelings played with. She's being selfish and love has put you in the worst possible situation. That's knowing you need to leave but dying to stay. Link to post Share on other sites
Author orly Posted December 6, 2007 Author Share Posted December 6, 2007 thanks every one for the reply's I didnt even want a girl when i got together with her.. now i dont want to be without her... meh love's a bitch eh? Link to post Share on other sites
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