Touche Posted December 9, 2007 Share Posted December 9, 2007 men do like hot bitches, i cant deny that You're such a jerk! Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted December 9, 2007 Share Posted December 9, 2007 men do like hot bitches, i cant deny that Some men do. I have (in a sociopathic moment) tested this theory. I found that it stems from some strange insecurity. I could not conclude my little study as I grew a conscious. Physical attraction will only get you so far. Then you have to deal with the mind. The mind is so much more sexy then any body. If you can connect with someone mentally (in a healthy way). Oh ...thats nice. Link to post Share on other sites
randuff Posted December 9, 2007 Share Posted December 9, 2007 After reading this I have come to the conclusion that I am probably shallow :/ I like girls 5'2" - 5'8" and 105-125, never cared for large breasts although my ex is 5'2" 108 with 36(small)D breasts. But then again I am only 5'8" and 160 so maybe thats why I prefer the smaller frame. Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted December 9, 2007 Share Posted December 9, 2007 After reading this I have come to the conclusion that I am probably shallow :/ I like girls 5'2" - 5'8" and 105-125, never cared for large breasts although my ex is 5'2" 108 with 36(small)D breasts. But then again I am only 5'8" and 160 so maybe thats why I prefer the smaller frame. I don't know if you are all that shallow. You seem to have a generous range. Well, except that maybe you a boob man? The thing is, that all that will shift and change, gain and loose, grow and loose hair all along the way. You need to form a pretty cool mental connection to make it with one person. That is my theory, anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
britt_a7777 Posted January 10, 2008 Share Posted January 10, 2008 I am not alone when it comes to body-image/weight. I am 5'4" and weigh 125. I have a pretty decent body with a bit of a belly pooch and some love handles, and I am obsessed with getting rid of those curves. My question to you is...what is your ideal body type? Are you into the Paris Hilton look? The Jennifer Aniston, the Scarlett Johannson? Even britney Spears gets critisized for her body now, but I actually think she looks pretty good, considering 2 babies. Anyway, should i be concerned about getting rid of my lovehandles/belly pooch or do guys acually like them? Thanks for the feedback! who cares if u have a few love handles or extra pounds not everyone is ment to have that perfect body that we all dream 4 we all get blessed with different things wheather it be a nice body, brains, cute face n theres a guy sum where out there that will like u 4 u n isnt all about how ur body looks so as long as ur comfortable with ur body then thats all that really matters Link to post Share on other sites
bozwa Posted January 10, 2008 Share Posted January 10, 2008 So are you saying that rail thin is a turn off? If this is the case with you, and probably other men, why are the women in Hollywood aiming for that look, which in turn makes us common women strive to be rail thin too? Like i mentioned before, i have a decent body. i'm a size 2-4 depending on the day, but I'm still trying to lose the pooch and be not be super skinny like high fashion models, but more like Kate Huson or Jennifer Aniston. I'm actually 30, going on 31 soon, so i definately dont have the curve-less body of a 20 year old or younger. . Should i stop trying so hard, and just accept the slight curves i have? Why WOULDN'T you want curves? Most (if not all) men I know love the curviness of a woman. And also most men don't care about a little extra..if they do, they're shallow as hell. And another thing, if you want to lose the pooch and the love handles (which I can't imagine there is much to either of those at 5'4 and 125lbs, size 2-4...I'm 5'2 and weigh 143 and have love handles and a pooch), then lose them for YOURSELF, not because of what some shallow man finds sexy. Link to post Share on other sites
Stereogram Posted January 10, 2008 Share Posted January 10, 2008 I like curvy women....not fat. Large breasts and a normal sized butt are a turn on for me. I've dated skinny before, and I just wasn't physically attracted. Ribs gross me out. I want a girl who works out...but isn't counting calories. Google the name Marla Sokoloff. I think she has a perfect body. My ideal mate would be a blonde Kelly Clarkson with larger breasts. Yummy. Link to post Share on other sites
Racquel Colette Posted January 10, 2008 Share Posted January 10, 2008 I hate to say this but if you have a very attractive/pretty/beautiful face you can trump out a plain/average/unattractive female face even if you are up to 20 pounds over your ideal weight and the plain/average/unattractive female has an awesome railthin body. This has been proven in studies. Also when I was 25 pounds heavier, I still got tons of attractive men hitting on me, no problem, it really didn't make a difference. (I'm pretty.) Link to post Share on other sites
Nevermind Posted January 10, 2008 Share Posted January 10, 2008 Those numbers don't say anything about the looks. I am 5"10 and slightly over 130, yet calling me skinny would be ridiculous. I find women look best when they are not obsessing with their looks and have a certain confidence about them. Link to post Share on other sites
bozwa Posted January 10, 2008 Share Posted January 10, 2008 Those numbers don't say anything about the looks. I am 5"10 and slightly over 130, yet calling me skinny would be ridiculous. I find women look best when they are not obsessing with their looks and have a certain confidence about them. What? Maybe I need to see a pic of you or something but I am EIGHT inches shorter than you, weigh 13-15 lbs more than you, and I NOT skinny, but I am NOT fat! lol You're saying it would be rediculous to call you skinny at those stats??? Link to post Share on other sites
Racquel Colette Posted January 10, 2008 Share Posted January 10, 2008 Those numbers don't say anything about the looks. I am 5"10 and slightly over 130, yet calling me skinny would be ridiculous. Yes, I can definitely call you skinny (thin, slender, whatever.) Count your blessings. Link to post Share on other sites
CD111 Posted January 10, 2008 Share Posted January 10, 2008 I hate to say this but if you have a very attractive/pretty/beautiful face you can trump out a plain/average/unattractive female face even if you are up to 20 pounds over your ideal weight and the plain/average/unattractive female has an awesome railthin body. This has been proven in studies. Also when I was 25 pounds heavier, I still got tons of attractive men hitting on me, no problem, it really didn't make a difference. (I'm pretty.) I think you are totally on to something with this. Because a girl can have a great body, but have less then average facial features and not have guys lining up to talk to her Link to post Share on other sites
makemyblackrosesred Posted January 10, 2008 Share Posted January 10, 2008 Wow God this has been a debate my whole life. I am 5'7 1/2 and weigh 152 currently. Which is by no means skinny. My body has been compared to Marilyn Monroe's my whole life, except I have a larger chest. If you look at the pin -up girls from the fifties..that describes my body perfectly. However, since I am anywhere between a 9 to 12 in women's and juniors clothing (pants), I have always felt fat. My stomach is flat, I have long, thin legs and my waist is small..I just have wide hips. I know what its like to want to just be shaped like a boy and not worry about weight, but I realized the more I focus on my weight and curves the more depressed I would get because I liked my body..but I was always worried about what some men liked. You know what? It really doesn't matter what society thinks because everyone in "society" is different. I can be a size 12 so what?? At least I have a shape that appeals to all the men I've ever gone out with. Link to post Share on other sites
StartingOver07 Posted January 10, 2008 Share Posted January 10, 2008 At least I have a shape that appeals to all the men I've ever gone out with. And that's all that matters. No matter what our shape, we are only going to attract guys who like that shape. And since there are plenty of guys out there for each possible shape/color/height/bust size/booty/you-name-it, why worry about it? I think this falls under the category of a lid for every pot. Link to post Share on other sites
Leoni Posted January 10, 2008 Share Posted January 10, 2008 Now that someone has brought up Marilyn Monroe, there's a picture of her in a white bathing suit. She's hot but doesn't look like someone who has a 13" spread between her chest-to-waist or waist-to-hip. If you look at pictures of her clothed, showing the extreme hourglass figure, it's always in a dress that can cover up girdles and bustiers. There's one picture of her in a dress that's cut down to her waist, in the center. Her body has the same look as the one in the white suit, not as extreme an hourglass figure. It's not right that Hollywood makes her out to be the ultimate hourglass figure when she's more the product of foundation garments. Even her published measurements pretend that the extreme hourglass is natural for her. She is gorgeous and sexy though. Link to post Share on other sites
Kezersoze Posted January 20, 2008 Share Posted January 20, 2008 big breasts, small waist, big backside and pretty face.Sort of a body like something you would see from those ancient fertility idols lol. A women you can look at and know for sure she will birth you about 10-15 kids lol Exhibit A: http://esther.el.cx/pics/scans/Smooth_August_07-Esthers_Last_Photoshoot/Images/img_esther005_122_740lo.jpg Link to post Share on other sites
Texan Posted January 20, 2008 Share Posted January 20, 2008 (edited) LOL... love this... of course, we have a running joke in my family that the women don't ask the men if their a** looks big... it's not a fair question because if it is, and we as men answer honestly, it's 'battle lines drawn' time... then again, we may tease about it... You were spot on about 'Life is too damn short to spend it worrying about your score-card'. Edited January 20, 2008 by Texan Link to post Share on other sites
Kezersoze Posted January 20, 2008 Share Posted January 20, 2008 Guys, if a woman is not your exact physical ideal, how does it impact the way you relate to her? In other words, would you date her anyway if she was likable or is she only friend material? Would you find yourself not as aroused in her presence or when thinking of her? Would it affect your ability to perform in bed if she didn't meet your ideal? Could you marry a woman who did not meet your physical ideal if she had other great qualities? Q1Q2. A women having the ideal body actually has very little to do whether I like her as a person or not. As long as she is somewhat cute, has decent body lol and the chemistry between us is very good then it doesn't matter that much. There are so many qualities that are necessary for a good relationship that requiring a women to be "5'1ft to 5'5ft 36DD-24-38" along with being funny,intelligent,beautiful,trustworthy,sexually compatible,loving person that it is very unlikely that your are going to find alot of women that meets every standard. So its better to have the bold first along with some general cuteness, ofcourse large breasts are always a plus. Q3Q4. At the same time I would be lying my ass off if I said that I would be just as turned on visually by a flat chested girl as I would for a large chested one. I can admit that seeing my ideal women naked ALONE would make me crazy with excitement,but it isn't the be all of sex. Q5. can't answer, marriage is too far off a thought for me lol Link to post Share on other sites
Pacifika Posted January 20, 2008 Share Posted January 20, 2008 "Guys, if a woman is not your exact physical ideal, how does it impact the way you relate to her? In other words, would you date her anyway if she was likable or is she only friend material? Would you find yourself not as aroused in her presence or when thinking of her? Would it affect your ability to perform in bed if she didn't meet your ideal? Could you marry a woman who did not meet your physical ideal if she had other great qualities?" Physical features is a rocky subject for me. For many people, it makes up a large portion of their decisions. I'll be honest though, physical appearance is very important for first impressions. You wouldn't regularly approach an uglier woman unless you had a reason to. However, if she expresses a good personality and qualities that I find appealing (ie. similar interests, ability to keep a good conversation, is funny, etc.), those could definitely override what she lacks in physical prowess. It took me a while, but after hanging around lots of girls that have pretty faces but shallow personalities, I almost find it a turn off. I seek people that care about me equally, can give me the love and attention that I need, and can keep life interesting. Looks get old, but personality always shines. In other words, I value personality far over physical traits. Ideally I would want both, but if I am in love with the person it doesn't matter to me what they look like or even if they get chubby/fat (as long as it isn't insanely obese - but that doesn't mean I'd stop loving her, I'd just try to help her lose it). If I like a girl enough, I'll find myself aroused either way. Physical traits helps arousal, but if we're talking about relationships, actually liking the person makes me a lot more intimate. It doesn't really affect my performance in bed if she doesn't meet my expectations. I'm weird in that I really like to please my woman, so I actually spend a lot of time doing what she wants rather than satisfying my own needs. It really gets me off to see my woman pleasured. To the last question: of course. Like I said before, I look for glowing personalities, someone that I can always talk to, someone that I can trust, someone that I know will love me back...that's what I look for in girls. Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted January 20, 2008 Share Posted January 20, 2008 OK I dont want to be crude, but there is this site called A** Parade and on there there is this woman they call Druuna The Goddess and its totally insane. I think Ive watched the trailer like ten times and thats all ill say Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts