bama_jman Posted December 9, 2007 Share Posted December 9, 2007 This may sound strange and I dont even know if its a normal problem but I prefer a woman who wants a man to love her, treat her right, cater to her needs, work and support her financially and do everything that a normal boyfriend/husband would provide. However I also want the type of woman that sleeps around, and takes charge of the house and me and the money and I basically just live for her and my kid. Whenever I have brought this up to women in past relationships, they have said I am crazy to want that and they refuse to consider dating/sleeping with others. I don't have no desire to date more than one woman so I don't seek a woman who will let me cheat-I just want the type who will cheat on me with others and expect me to be faithful. It turns me on-I don't know why- to know she was off with another guy and came home to me... I'm just not jealous and want the woman to always be able to get her groove on and be satisfied and happy sexually as I make her happy love/relationshipwise by working and cleaning the house, cooking, etc... A woman shouldnt have to do these thing-thats what men are for-and she should be able to find guys that make her happy in other ways on the side. I have always been told I was really good to to my woman-one passed away and the other I left cause she was mean to my kid. And if I was jealous/controlling, I am sure they would cheat as everyone else can find cheaters but don't like it. Why do women I meet have too be church goers and old fashioned? Am I normal or am I warped or just going about this the wrong way? Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted December 9, 2007 Share Posted December 9, 2007 my kind of guy... LOL I'm not a church goer and I'm not old fashioned... You're exactly the type of guy I would looooove... One of my friend had a husband like you... but he wasn't doing much in the house.. but he wanted her to bring men home and have sex with them... it was a huge turn-on for him... It takes all kind of people. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bama_jman Posted December 9, 2007 Author Share Posted December 9, 2007 Well, it is a turn on somewhat mainly because I like a sensual woman but its more piece of mind that I know she knows if she is attracted to someone and wants to fool around she can do so and wouldn't have to worry about hurting me or losing me. I'd sleep on the couch to give them privacy or have no problem if she went out for the night. I just believe a woman should be happy and if it takes another man (or woman) to achieve her happiness, I wouldn't want her to feel limited to just me. Ive been told in the past that if I'm not jealous, then I didn't love her. Link to post Share on other sites
Blue Eyed Brain Posted December 9, 2007 Share Posted December 9, 2007 Clone yourself immediately and get back to us! Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted December 9, 2007 Share Posted December 9, 2007 Hahaha... yes good point... More men should think like you! Link to post Share on other sites
marazul Posted December 15, 2007 Share Posted December 15, 2007 I would not use the word "normal". That's what you would like and works for you so it's OK. You are honest with the girlfriend to be, that's OK too. I never thought it would be hard to find a woman who accepts such freedom. Probably it gives them an idea that you don't really care about them if you allow them to cheat on you. And also there are women that don't cheat, so maybe you were just unlucky. Be patient. I've heard of guys wanting their wives/girlfriends to go with other men, it turned them on, so probably is not so uncommon. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 OP why do you call it * cheating * ? You want her to bring home guys in front of you ..thats called * swinging * and * open relationship with a twist * Link to post Share on other sites
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