Rise Against Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 I was wondering, if a girl asked you if you liked her and she was your friend what would you say? Also if she invites you to parties so you can hang out with her. She also tells everyone that you always help her and tells how you are alike her (i.e. same music preference, etc.). Also she says how you are funny and her favourite guy, is there an indication she likes you? Sometimes, when I'm around her she talks about other guys and saying her favourite type of guys, is she giving me signs. She probably knows I like her because I would always wait for her, open doors for her, help her, etc. What should I do? P.S. Im a senior at high school as well as she is and next year is university. Our choices based on university are exactly the same . Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 I was wondering, if a girl asked you if you liked her and she was your friend what would you say? Also if she invites you to parties so you can hang out with her. She also tells everyone that you always help her and tells how you are alike her (i.e. same music preference, etc.). Also she says how you are funny and her favourite guy, is there an indication she likes you? Sometimes, when I'm around her she talks about other guys and saying her favourite type of guys, is she giving me signs. She probably knows I like her because I would always wait for her, open doors for her, help her, etc. What should I do? P.S. Im a senior at high school as well as she is and next year is university. Our choices based on university are exactly the same . You need to man up and kiss the girl!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rise Against Posted December 10, 2007 Author Share Posted December 10, 2007 wow u think i should just go up to her and kiss her? Like when we're alone or with some friends?? I really want to but having the guts to do it is the obstacle Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 Well obviously you wait for the right time, but I think she likes you. It could be as simple as you two are watching a movie together on the couch, then you put your arm around her, and then a while later you kiss her. You just feel it out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rise Against Posted December 10, 2007 Author Share Posted December 10, 2007 Well I'm glad you think she likes me ! But imagine if she liked someone else . But what makes you think that she likes me?? Like doesn't talking about other guys and type of guys with me and her friends seem interesting? P.S. She wanted me to go to starbucks today and we did lol. I was the only guy there . Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rise Against Posted December 11, 2007 Author Share Posted December 11, 2007 are there anymore ideas?? thanks Link to post Share on other sites
benevolent one Posted December 11, 2007 Share Posted December 11, 2007 dude kiss her already! PLEASE!!! your gonna miss your chance. Link to post Share on other sites
Yosef Posted December 11, 2007 Share Posted December 11, 2007 Just take a chance. It's easier said than done, and easier heard than to believe, but I've missed my chances on several occassions, and I only look back to the words I didn't get to say and the chances I didn't get to take, because I was afraid of making a fool of myself. Life is all about learning from your mistakes and growing from your opportunities. It hurts to look back and ask yourself, "Why didn't I? The clues all seem so obvious now..." It's better to love and be hurt than never to love at all. You still suffer heartbreak when you don't choose to get together. The only difference between not dating the person you like and dating the person you like, is missing the great opportunities you would have had with her. I hope you consider my advice. Link to post Share on other sites
IrishCarBomb Posted December 11, 2007 Share Posted December 11, 2007 Audentes Fortuna Juvat Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rise Against Posted December 11, 2007 Author Share Posted December 11, 2007 thanks for the help, but are there anymore tips? Is there a way I could find out if she really likes me? Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted December 11, 2007 Share Posted December 11, 2007 thanks for the help, but are there anymore tips? Is there a way I could find out if she really likes me? Ask her out on a date. At some point the game has to be played in real life, and not in front of the screen. Link to post Share on other sites
Yosef Posted December 12, 2007 Share Posted December 12, 2007 Here are a couple common signs: She invites you out with her girl friends. Her friends know about you but you dont know about them (or not very well). She sits close to you. If you move closer to her, and she doesn't move, you've got a sign. The volume of her voice adapts to match yours. She laughs when you laugh. She tells people about how great of a person you are. She blinks a lot more than normal, but im not sure if you can tell what normal really is. I don't usually consider this a great sign. She asks if you like them. (a much less common sign) She likes to be with you and hang out with you, AKA they like your presence. When you make eye contact with her, she smiles. If she's already smiling, she makes a bigger smile. Twirls her fingers in her hair or messes with her jewelry. (they try to distract themselves) Basically, if she matches a lot of these signs, you're in for the clear. Most girls dont match ALL of these, so be open for possibilities. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted December 12, 2007 Share Posted December 12, 2007 phateless origional advice was the best just man up and go in for a kiss. It will just be weird if you have some do you like me and where do we stand convo. DUDE just kiss her and try to get a make out thing going, and obviously get her alone, if your with friends ask her into the next room or something and then plant the kiss Link to post Share on other sites
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