Author devastated402 Posted December 18, 2007 Author Share Posted December 18, 2007 Cant wait for tomorrow. Had a really really bad day today, complete depression, sadness, the whole nine. I really hate my life right now. Link to post Share on other sites
redblack66 Posted December 18, 2007 Share Posted December 18, 2007 Cant wait for tomorrow. Had a really really bad day today, complete depression, sadness, the whole nine. I really hate my life right now. Have you considered going on anti-depressants? They may help you to go through this. Link to post Share on other sites
Chrome Barracuda Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 Hey D402, I've been reading your thread since the inception and you have come a long way, you have learned many insights. But let me tell you something. She's not only had one affair with women, but 2! Not only that she was willing to sacrifise your family and walk away from your marriage but the only reason she stopped is because everyone would know. If that's the reason to end an affair then you dont have much hope of a future with her. Your wife is GAY!!! Now I'm not saying that to rile you up or anger you. I'm just saying that looking at this sitch. You need to protect yourself emotionally and financially. I know you love her but you gotta start asking the hard questions and prepare yourself for the future. Women have a hard time letting OM go with whom their cheating with, even harder if the OP is a female. Now if this was to happen to me I would expose to everyone and file for divorce on grounds for adultery, and supoena the OW in court. Why? Not to be vindictive but to level the playing field, scorched earth style. All secrets shall be exposed to the light. Keep your eyes open my friend. This is gonna get a whole lot worse before it get's better and trust me you should start planning your escape right now. Dont be blinded by unconditional love. If you have kids make this easy as possible for them as well. But the more you accept the situation the more you'll feel better next time she'll drop the bomb. This isnt your issues, it's hers. Point blank, bottom line. I try on thse boards to be blunt as possible without overstepping my bounds but alot of people probably hate me for keeping it too real. But if we didnt have truth and honor, people like me would cease to exist. Good luck to you. Link to post Share on other sites
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