Size 4, 6 for Women

[yongyong]

I used to date a girl who wore size 2.(somtimes even 0)

she was 5'4" and didn't look starving at all.

 

I think I can date a girl who wears 4 or 6 only if she is athletic type.

 

I don't know if I would get flamed by telling this to other people?

 

what's women's point of view about the size?

 

If she someone wears size 4, is that a big deal to you?

(by the way, janice dickinson wears size 4)

[amaysngrace]

I don't understand what you're saying. Do you think size 4 is fat? Because I wear a size 5 sometimes and my clothes are little. I am little. People describe me as little.

 

You must be really small.

[Trialbyfire]

yongyong, before I answer your original post, what size and height are you?

[Florida]

If you only like size 2 women-own it! Don't compromise for fear of being flamed.

 

If you only like women with double D and don't want others-own it.

 

I think if more people were honest with themselves about what they liked physically-you wouldn't have so many broken hearts, not that that is the only cause, but why waste anyone's time if they are not perfect in your eyes?

 

Someone else will like them for who they are, it's all good.

[Trialbyfire]

If you only like size 2 women-own it! Don't compromise for fear of being flamed.

 

If you only like women with double D and don't want others-own it.

 

I think if more people were honest with themselves about what they liked physically-you wouldn't have so many broken hearts, not that that is the only cause, but why waste anyone's time if they are not perfect in your eyes?

 

Someone else will like them for who they are, it's all good.

I've yet to meet a person who's perfect in my eyes, male or female, airbrushed celeb/model or normal person. If perfect looks is the sole dictator of attraction, good luck in the real world. Also, make certain you're perfect too.

[Florida]

I've yet to meet a person who's perfect in my eyes, male or female, airbrushed celeb/model or normal person. If perfect looks is the sole dictator of attraction, good luck in the real world. Also, make certain you're perfect too.

 

Hmm maybe I explained it wrong, not literally perfect, but take the OP-he has this preference-so it would be best for him to stick to it-what is perfect for him won't be someone else's perfect.

 

Or...another way to explain it-sometimes I read about (ususlly guys) wanting a type of girl who is really their ideal, so their current SO is shortchanged because of that.

 

Not literally perfect, no that is crazy. Does that make sense? Like I don't think it would be good for a guy who only likes busty women to date a non busty woman-what would be the point?

 

Granted-not everyone has these parameters-but for those that do-they should honor it so as not to waste other people's time.

[Trialbyfire]

Hmm maybe I explained it wrong, not literally perfect, but take the OP-he has this preference-so it would be best for him to stick to it-what is perfect for him won't be someone else's perfect.

 

Or...another way to explain it-sometimes I read about (ususlly guys) wanting a type of girl who is really their ideal, so their current SO is shortchanged because of that.

 

Not literally perfect, no that is crazy. Does that make sense? Like I don't think it would be good for a guy who only likes busty women to date a non busty woman-what would be the point?

 

Granted-not everyone has these parameters-but for those that do-they should honor it so as not to waste other people's time.

That makes more sense, although I don't know too many men who ask women out, who they aren't initially attracted to. Most often, it's probably a situation of not appreciating what you have, due to consistent exposure. More grass is greener because there's always someone else who comes closer to cartoonish/unrealistic ideals.

[Florida]

That makes more sense, although I don't know too many men who ask women out, who they aren't initially attracted to. Most often, it's probably a situation of not appreciating what you have, due to consistent exposure. More grass is greener because there's always someone else who comes closer to cartoonish/unrealistic ideals.

 

Grass is greener will be the downfall of many... I was thinking of 2 posters here -one who lost weight and her boobs were smaller-and her formerly attentive BF was more attentive to the bigger ladies. Same thing another time except it was a growing fascination with ladies of another culture than his (and his GF's) and both situations were heartbreaking to read about.

 

I just thought to myself why couldn't they have just been more honest with themselves and not dragged these SO's through their new changes?

[Trialbyfire]

Grass is greener will be the downfall of many... I was thinking of 2 posters here -one who lost weight and her boobs were smaller-and her formerly attentive BF was more attentive to the bigger ladies. Same thing another time except it was a growing fascination with ladies of another culture than his (and his GF's) and both situations were heartbreaking to read about.

 

I just thought to myself why couldn't they have just been more honest with themselves and not dragged these SO's through their new changes?

I don't know about you but for me, if I'm invested, I find them more and more attractive, instead of less so. You notice smaller details, like the way they smile, how chiseled or sensitive their face is, all that stuff, where at cursory glance, you might not have noticed it so much or even found it attractive. Grass is greener doesn't seem to strike me, when I'm in a committed relationship. I don't understand this superficial phenomenon.

[Florida]

So what do you think it means when the person those 2 people I mentioned above starts doing that? Is that more of a guy thing? Or a sign they just were not that into them in the 1st place?

[Trialbyfire]

The weight/breasts example, strikes me as a relationship based on the superficial. The second example, seems to be an obsessive personality type.

[IpAncA]

I used to date a girl who wore size 2.(somtimes even 0)

she was 5'4" and didn't look starving at all.

 

I think I can date a girl who wears 4 or 6 only if she is athletic type.

 

I don't know if I would get flamed by telling this to other people?

 

what's women's point of view about the size?

 

If she someone wears size 4, is that a big deal to you?

(by the way, janice dickinson wears size 4)

 

What are you asking us to respond to?

[EnigmaXOXO]

she was 5'4" and didn't look starving at all.

 

I think that’s the key.

 

what's women's point of view about the size?

 

It really doesn’t matter what size clothing you buy off the rack. Pick the correct size, and everyone can look good in what they wear. It’s what you look like when you’re NOT covered up that counts.

 

I’ve seen plus sized women who were amazingly curvy and toned. Beautiful skin and not a cellulite dimple or spare roll on them. Especially young women and ethnic women. I’ve also seen what I call “skinny flabby” or crack-addict skinny. They don’t look very healthy either.

 

It’s more about finding the body weight proportional to the individual. Looking healthy and fit is more important than trying to squeeze yourself into the next size smaller as the fashion industry dictates.

 

I remember when I was in a size 4, I got more comments about being TOO skinny and everyone was trying to FEED me. I found that because of my frame and height, I look much better between a size 6 and size 8. Only then do actually have boobs and a butt. If I go any lower or higher, I don’t look very proportional for my body type at all.

 

And I think that goes for everyone ... both guys and gals.

[sb129]

I don't know about you but for me, if I'm invested, I find them more and more attractive, instead of less so. You notice smaller details, like the way they smile, how chiseled or sensitive their face is, all that stuff, where at cursory glance, you might not have noticed it so much or even found it attractive. Grass is greener doesn't seem to strike me, when I'm in a committed relationship. I don't understand this superficial phenomenon.

 

I absolutely agree with this statement.

 

My Wonderboy is the best looking man in the world to me. Neither of us are what you would call "perfect" but who cares, because we only have eyes for eachother.

[LexiB]

I don't understand what you're saying. Do you think size 4 is fat? Because I wear a size 5 sometimes and my clothes are little. I am little. People describe me as little.

 

You must be really small.

 

Got a chuckle outta this.

 

 

But to the OP - There's nothing wrong if you prefer to date super thin girls but it sounds like you're saying anyone above a 2 needs to go on a diet...

 

I'm a size 6 - 5'9", 140lbs. Call me biased, but on behalf of my fellow size 6-ers, um, that's certainly not big! At my height a 4 is the lowest I would ever go...I actually *like* having boobs and a butt

[LexiB]

Ahh, I missed the part where u said she was 5'4" - height is crucial to this.

 

As long as you're not blowing off girls just by checking the tag on their clothes!

[norajane]

I used to date a guy who had an 8 inch cock (sometimes even 8 1/2 )

 

he was 5'8" and didn't look out of proportion at all.

 

I think I can date a guy with a 6 or 7 inch cock only if he is the oral type.

 

I don't know if I would get flamed by telling this to other people?

 

what's men's point of view about the size?

 

If he has a 6 inch cock, is that a big deal to you?

(by the way, howard stern is a 6 1/2)

[ElvenPriestess]

I used to date a guy who had an 8 inch cock (sometimes even 8 1/2 )

 

he was 5'8" and didn't look out of proportion at all.

 

I think I can date a guy with a 6 or 7 inch cock only if he is the oral type.

 

I don't know if I would get flamed by telling this to other people?

 

what's men's point of view about the size?

 

If he has a 6 inch cock, is that a big deal to you?

(by the way, howard stern is a 6 1/2)

 

As long as it's not too thin;)

[sb129]

I used to date a guy who had an 8 inch cock (sometimes even 8 1/2 )

 

he was 5'8" and didn't look out of proportion at all.

 

I think I can date a guy with a 6 or 7 inch cock only if he is the oral type.

 

I don't know if I would get flamed by telling this to other people?

 

what's men's point of view about the size?

 

If he has a 6 inch cock, is that a big deal to you?

(by the way, howard stern is a 6 1/2)

 

 

Its not what you've got- its what you do with it that counts.

[melodymatters]

I used to date a guy who had an 8 inch cock (sometimes even 8 1/2 )

 

he was 5'8" and didn't look out of proportion at all.

 

I think I can date a guy with a 6 or 7 inch cock only if he is the oral type.

 

I don't know if I would get flamed by telling this to other people?

 

what's men's point of view about the size?

 

If he has a 6 inch cock, is that a big deal to you?

(by the way, howard stern is a 6 1/2)

 

:lmao: Ha ! Thanks for my first laugh of the morning NJ !

[Trialbyfire]

Ahahahaha...smackdown nj....

[norajane]

Someone had to do it...

[Curmudgeon]

...I actually *like* having boobs and a butt

 

I know I'd certainly like you better that way.

[marlena]

I used to date a guy who had an 8 inch cock (sometimes even 8 1/2 )

 

he was 5'8" and didn't look out of proportion at all.

 

I think I can date a guy with a 6 or 7 inch cock only if he is the oral type.

 

I don't know if I would get flamed by telling this to other people?

 

what's men's point of view about the size?

 

If he has a 6 inch cock, is that a big deal to you?

(by the way, howard stern is a 6 1/2)

 

Thank God for the NJ's of this world!!!

[KittenMoon]

So how would one judge someone who wears 3-4 different sizes of clothing? Because I do. I'll admit I'm carrying about 20lbs more than I'd like to be, and about 40lbs more than society might like me to, but f--k em. It doesn't stop guys from giving me drooling looks.

 

Why? Because proportion really counts more than clothing size or even body weight.

 

Limiting yourself to thin girls is ok, your preference, but counting it by weight or clothing size is dumb.