Came face to face with my MM and his wife

[OWoman]

No one has ever died from lack of sex. Ever.

 

Yet. I do think I would, though. I think I'd burst a blood vessel somewhere significant if too much pressure built up...

[OWoman]

I humbly submit to you... AIDS.

 

You can get AIDS within a marriage or an ONS or any other kind of sexual encounter (or intravenous drug use, or blood transfusion). People are less likely to use condoms in a M than they are in an A, and condoms cut the risk of HIV transmission.

[Lizzie60]

I wish it wasnt a game, but it is, and I see no way around not playing it.

 

Which is why James, should pick a woman from work to start talking about at home.

 

Insecurity and jealousy when applied judiciously and in very small amounts can be your best friend.[/quote]

 

OH WOW.. this has got to be the best line ever... this is soooo true.

 

I know for a fact that this works... if you make the MM jealous just a tiny wee bit.. he will be hooked.. same thing with any guy... just be independant, make them feel you don't need them 24/7... then they're hooked... works every time....

 

It's funny because I've been telling my best friend to use that.. she did last week... and for the first time in almost 2 years, the guy slept at her place (long story)... but now she is starting to see that it could be a 'good tool'..

[luvmy2ns]

You can get AIDS within a marriage or an ONS or any other kind of sexual encounter (or intravenous drug use, or blood transfusion). People are less likely to use condoms in a M than they are in an A, and condoms cut the risk of HIV transmission.

 

Yeah, but people in a marriage aren't SUPPOSED to have to use a condom. However, the unwitting spouse of a skanky cheater would never be told they need one, now would they?

[Lizzie60]

I humbly submit to you... AIDS.

 

However, I like your attitude!

 

my -my.. I once spoke to a doc and he said that if we take the stats and meticulously study them... we'd find out that the chances of an heterosexual contacting AIDS by having sex (and I'm not talking about drugs addicts) I'm talking about 'normal' everyday people... are so minimal... that we have more chances of dying from 'smoking', over eating, drinking, accidents.. you name it.. than having sex with a total stranger.

[KenzieAbsolutely]

Yeah, but people in a marriage aren't SUPPOSED to have to use a condom. However, the unwitting spouse of a skanky cheater would never be told they need one, now would they?

 

touche! (not to be confused with the LS member)

[marlena]

No one has ever died from lack of sex. Ever.

 

Biologically no, they haven't!

 

Emotionally, many people have.

 

 

 

Making love (I will not call it sex) is the ultimate expression of love!

 

People shouldn't undermine the importance of physical touch! It nutures us and makes us grow.

 

Where would a child be without the embrace and loving arms of his/her mother?

 

Psycopaths are often raised by frigid mothers who are afraid to touch and arouse sensations of love and comfort in their children.

 

It is one and the same regardless of how old we grow. To be human is to want to be touched in love...it dispels fears and anxieties and calms even the most savage of beasts!

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Lizzie60]

It is an open secret that a person gets into a cheerful mood during an act of love. In addition to purely psychological satisfaction, the human body produces endorphin – the hormone in charge of elevated spirits and positive perception of the environment. Researchers say that such inspiration comes from the activity of certain brain centers, which change the hormonal status of the body. Good quality sex produces a spiritually elevating effect on the chemical level, which does not require any additional efforts.

 

Prior to the culminating moment of an act of love, orgasm, the brain emits a dose of oxytocin – the hormone of the posterior lobe of pituitary. Oxytocin results in the production of sedative endorphins – natural analogues of morphine. Sex spurs the production of estrogen with women – the substance, which eases premenstrual pains. Therefore, sex is the best painkiller.

 

One may say that a bed is the best equipment for physical exercises that man has ever designed. The pulse rate of a sexually excited individual increases from 70 to 150 beats per minute, which is comparable to muscle efforts of a weight-lifter. Only one sexual intercourse burns off the same amount of calories that a person loses running on a treadmill for 15 minutes. Needless to say that the first option is much more pleasant than the second one. Thirty minutes of sex kill about 200 calories.

 

Sex is a very good impetus for the strengthening of the immune system. It has been tentatively proved that those people, who have sex on a regular basis, are much more protected against various viral diseases than those, who prefer abstinence: healthy sex saturates blood with antibodies. Therefore, sexually active men and women suffer from widespread infectious diseases such a flu and cold less frequently. As for sexually transmitted diseases, the answer is obvious: a condom makes perfect.

 

It may seem unreal, but it is a fact: regular sex enlarges women's breasts. Sexual excitement intensifies the bloodstream, which may add 25 percent to a woman's breast size. Furthermore, women can raise their IQ with every orgasm that they experience. American scientists, who continuingly study sexual possibilities of homo sapiens, discovered that the moment of orgasm gives a very powerful incentive to a large number of chemical reactions and physical procedures in the body. The speed of blood circulation reaches its maximum, whereas the oxygen-enriched blood reaches all internal organs, including brain, very quickly. Hypothalamus – the center for control of the hormonal system – also governs the work of learning and memorizing centers.

 

It goes without saying that an act of love ends with the ultimate relaxation and sleep, especially if it occurs after a hard day at work. The raising level of oxytocin produces a strong tranquillizing effect. Sex can therefore be considered as a perfect natural soporific medication.

 

Sex trains almost all groups of muscles, especially muscles of pelvis, butt, stomach and arms, which is an important factor for women. Regular love acts improve the bearing and exert a favorable influence on the musculoskeletal system. In addition, sex results in the production of collagen – the substance, which adds smoothness and glow to women's skin. Progesterone, another hormonal product of sex, helps a person fight acne. American scientists concluded as a result of their research that couples, who love each other at least three times a week, look two or three years younger than their coevals, who either abstain from sex or hardly ever enjoy it.

 

Any long-legged beauty girl annoys you, especially if she looks younger and prettier. A photograph of a beautiful model wearing fancy designer clothes ruins your entire day. Only passionate sex can save you from this infirmity. When a man tells his woman that she is the most beautiful lady on Earth, a woman usually stops thinking about several centimeters of fat on her waist or the fading elasticity of her skin. Psychologists say that it is much easier for a woman to learn how to love herself, if she has a man, who desires and worships her.

 

 

 

Now I know why I look younger.. It works...

[Lizzie60]

Well I agree that he has put you in a bad situation.. but chances that you have contacted a 'fatal' disease is extremely minimal.

 

Don't worry.. the doc only takes his precautions.. I can't blame him.

[OWoman]

my -my.. I once spoke to a doc and he said that if we take the stats and meticulously study them... we'd find out that the chances of an heterosexual contacting AIDS by having sex (and I'm not talking about drugs addicts) I'm talking about 'normal' everyday people... are so minimal... that we have more chances of dying from 'smoking', over eating, drinking, accidents.. you name it.. than having sex with a total stranger.

 

 

That's a risky attitude! Either your doc doesn't understand stats, or he last read up on it in the 70s! In some countries HIV rates are around 30% - and it's heterosexual women who're infected primarily, through "normal" sex.

[Lizzie60]

That's a risky attitude! Either your doc doesn't understand stats, or he last read up on it in the 70s! In some countries HIV rates are around 30% - and it's heterosexual women who're infected primarily, through "normal" sex.

 

Oh yes I forgot about this detail.. in Africa for example... the rate is wayyy higher... so it also depends on the country, the lifestyle.. etc.. a lot of factors are taken into consideration.

[Owl]

I agree .. no one has ever died.. and no one has ever died from an A...

 

Mustand Sally raised a good point. I met a man once in a bus station...I was headed to North Carolina, he was headed to Florida. We got to talking...he mentions he was just released from prison for murder. And he says "Before you ask, yes, I did it. I came home one day and found my wife in bed with another man, and shot and killed him."

 

Sounds like the cause of death was an affair to me.

 

Not to mention...

 

I had a soldier who worked for me many years ago who found out his wife was cheating on him...and he ate a bullet right there in the same house as his wife and small child. Right there in front of another soldier who was his best friend. This guy was a combat vet...and it wasn't PTSD or anything like that.

 

Don't think that affairs don't kill people.

 

 

And that's not even mentioning the whole STD thing.

[Cobra_X30]

You can get AIDS within a marriage or an ONS or any other kind of sexual encounter (or intravenous drug use, or blood transfusion). People are less likely to use condoms in a M than they are in an A, and condoms cut the risk of HIV transmission.

 

Go back and read what I was responding to!

 

I swear... sometimes I think your from the UK or something!

 

OH WOW.. this has got to be the best line ever... this is soooo true.

 

I know for a fact that this works... if you make the MM jealous just a tiny wee bit.. he will be hooked.. same thing with any guy... just be independant, make them feel you don't need them 24/7... then they're hooked... works every time....

 

It's funny because I've been telling my best friend to use that.. she did last week... and for the first time in almost 2 years, the guy slept at her place (long story)... but now she is starting to see that it could be a 'good tool'..

 

Lizzie, some poeple understand this instinctively. I guess it goes both ways. Remember with guys though... this can have the opposite effect. If a guy feels he has options and you try to make him jealous... then he may still persue the physical aspect of the relationship while compartmentalizing the emotional aspect.

 

my -my.. I once spoke to a doc and he said that if we take the stats and meticulously study them... we'd find out that the chances of an heterosexual contacting AIDS by having sex (and I'm not talking about drugs addicts) I'm talking about 'normal' everyday people... are so minimal... that we have more chances of dying from 'smoking', over eating, drinking, accidents.. you name it.. than having sex with a total stranger.

 

LOL... I suggested AIDS because the transmission rate from man to woman is pretty high, while the reverse is not so bad.

 

Either way... I think you got my point.

[Lizzie60]

Mustand Sally raised a good point. I met a man once in a bus station...I was headed to North Carolina, he was headed to Florida. We got to talking...he mentions he was just released from prison for murder. And he says "Before you ask, yes, I did it. I came home one day and found my wife in bed with another man, and shot and killed him."

 

Sounds like the cause of death was an affair to me.

 

Not to mention...

 

I had a soldier who worked for me many years ago who found out his wife was cheating on him...and he ate a bullet right there in the same house as his wife and small child. Right there in front of another soldier who was his best friend. This guy was a combat vet...and it wasn't PTSD or anything like that.

 

Don't think that affairs don't kill people.

 

 

And that's not even mentioning the whole STD thing.

 

Oh well.. I live my life dangerously..

 

I once heard that the best way to die was being shot at 90 yr old by a jealous husband (while making love of course..lol)

 

I know what you're saying but we can't live our life thinking that way.

[Owl]

I know what you're saying but we can't live our life thinking that way.

 

Most people do. They think about how their actions impact those around them. They think about the consequences of what they do, who might be hurt by their choices...or if they'll be hurt by their own choices.

 

Sometimes, a risk is warranted. No pain...no gain.

 

But engaging in multiple affairs with different MM?

 

What are the possible consequences of that for yourself? What are the LIKELY consequences of that for the MM themselves? For their wife? Their kids?

 

Most people DO live like that.

[EnigmaXOXO]

I once heard that the best way to die was being shot at 90 yr old by a jealous husband (while making love of course..lol)

 

Nah. The best way to go is having a heart-attach while having sex. The last BIG BANG so to speak.

 

Of course, not so good for the luver who thought all that hollering and convulsing was because you were doing such a great job. After climbing off of his stiff pale corpse, I can only imagine the YEARS of therapy trying to get over the fact that you actually screwed someone to death!!

 

And if he wasn’t YOUR husband ... how do you dispose of the body?????

[Lizzie60]

Most people do. They think about how their actions impact those around them. They think about the consequences of what they do, who might be hurt by their choices...or if they'll be hurt by their own choices.

 

Sometimes, a risk is warranted. No pain...no gain.

 

But engaging in multiple affairs with different MM?

 

What are the possible consequences of that for yourself? What are the LIKELY consequences of that for the MM themselves? For their wife? Their kids?

 

Most people DO live like that.

 

Ah oui!

 

You really think that MOST people DO live like that, thinking about the consequences of what they do... REALLY!!!!!

 

That's why the % of cheaters is soooo low because they DO think about the consequences... you got to be kidding me...

[Lizzie60]

Nah. The best way to go is having a heart-attach while having sex. The last BIG BANG so to speak.

 

Of course, not so good for the luver who thought all that hollering and convulsing was because you were doing such a great job. After climbing off of his stiff pale corpse, I can only imagine the YEARS of therapy trying to get over the fact that you actually screwed someone to death!!

 

And if he wasn’t YOUR husband ... how do you dispose of the body?????

 

I once talked about this with a MM... he was scared he had something to his heart.. I know a guy who had a stroke while making love (to his W)... anything can happen when so much 'rush' is flowing in our vains..

[Owl]

Not kidding at all.

 

I believe that most people DO think about things like this to some degree or another...that's why things aren't so much WORSE than they are now.

 

Think about how your share of things ADDS to that same 'cheating rate' you refer to.

 

"Because everyone else is doing it" was only a good excuse when I was in the second grade.

[EnigmaXOXO]

I once talked about this with a MM... he was scared he had something to his heart.. I know a guy who had a stroke while making love (to his W)... anything can happen when so much 'rush' is flowing in our vains..

 

Well, at least it was his wife.

 

Can you imagine the eulogy to the two people attending his funeral if it wasn’t?

[Gwyneth]

 

I know you are having issues, but don't come into LS and take it out on the BS's.

 

Here's an interesting concept...but, how about the BS's don't come into the OP threads and take out their anger on the OW and OM?

 

ps: What happened last night??? I was too sick to even bother.

[Cobra_X30]

Here's an interesting concept...but, how about the BS's don't come into the OP threads and take out their anger on the OW and OM?

 

ps: What happened last night??? I was too sick to even bother.

 

 

You need to learn to identify with others for who they are not based on Labels. Not all OW are the same, just as not all BS are the same.

 

Last night. I read that before it got shut down. I'm going to be honest with you. That woman was sick and twisted. A total waste of biochemicals.

[White Flower]

Well, Maybe you should give it a try! Cause your ideas are not really working too well.

 

That trust she has for you is a double edged sword. Make sure it does not come at your expense!

 

Women more than men have a sense for someone who is unbalanced! You ever meet a guy and you think... man... he is just a little off. Just doesnt seem quite right to you. Well women have that same sense with other women!

 

 

 

I keep speedreading these posts... and it totally looks like you wrote Geek God. Which provides a slightly different mental picture! Maybe if you stopped capitalizing the G... it wouldnt overshadow the r?

I'll stop capitalizing the g just for you, lol;)

[White Flower]

It's a device that regulates the speed of an engine - stops it revving too fast, which caps its top speed.

Thanks, btw Owman, are you a genius or what? You seem to know everything about everything!

[White Flower]

Thanks, NID, for sharing your "slight rant". You do have a lot going on and it doesn't help that your H will rush things and make you feel unspecial and uncherished. I totally understand that foreplay thing. Never had much of it from my own H.

 

Thankfully I learned that there are other men out there who understand the importance of cherishing a woman and how that works into foreplay.

 

I could hook you up with a MM. Just kidding:)