Does She want me back?

[MiloGoesToColege26]

Ok, this is a long story and I desperately need advice on what to do, so im going to include every detail. I would really appreciate it if someone could help me....My ex gf and I broke up after 2 years a little less than a month ago. When we got together she was with someone else for 2 yrs, he was very abusive physically and mentally and she has a kid with him. Through the two years we were together her daughter started calling me daddy. We lived together and i took on the role of a parent to her. One day my ex gf decides after an argument about me not thinking she wants a relationship decides its best for both of us if we take a break. I of course fought it hard. We still hung out and were intimate. 2 weeks later i pushed and asked her again what she wanted to do, she told me she wanted to break up and started crying uncontrollably. We didnt talk for a week. I went and go tmy stuff and left my key, the next day she starts talking to me like nothing happened. Slowly but sureley she started to text me, little things at first like inviting me to her daughters bday party then about everyday things . She would tell me a lot how much her daughter misses me and how she wants me to pick her up from school one day etc etc. Then one morning i get a call that her car wont start so i give her a ride to work and her daughter a ride to school. Then it starts...that night she starts texting me non stop at first about her getting a new computer...then she tosses out...you know i almost leaned in and kissed you out of habbit in the car. We kind of flirted for a little bit, joked about the break up, she tried to explain that she was confused everyday etc etc. The next day she starts texting me again, joking around and flirting then we decide to go shopping on saturday and to take her daughter to get pictures with santa. The next day she sends me a forward text as a joke. Later that night i get one that says "hey dont take the highway home theres a bad accident"..has me thinking ok shes thinking about me a lot. So saturday she starts telling me about what she did the night before. She tells me one of her friends asked if we still talk and are on good terms, she responds "ya we still talk, we're still friends." I tell her i dont want to be friends, she tells me shed be upset to see me with another girl but eventually she has to get over it, like she has no intentions on getting back together. But then she starts saying things like, i wonder what so and so thinks seeing us together here at the mall. We get home, i leave, later that night she starts texting me again. Next day more of the same. Finally we really start getting into the relationship thing. She tells me she feels like **** bc she feels bad about hurting me plus she misses me. She tells me she feels like she lost her best friend. I asked her if shes happy with the decision she made, she tells me she enjoys the freedom sometimes but its hard being alone, she misses me and the times we spent together, but shes never spent time alone and she needs to prove to herself she cans tand on her own two feet. I tell her all the wrong things, that i still love her and would still be there for her, but eventually both of us will move on. She understands and says she'll accept it if i meet someone new. I really dont understand what she wants or whats shes doing. And is there anyway i can get her back?

[thelegend]

Damn brother I'm confused but I'll help ya out cuz I respect what you doing for the child. First things first she probably has someone on the side you don't have a clue about. How do I know this? Well when women say they are confused it ain't with life. They are confused because they are torn between two people. 2. She said she would basically be cool if you had someone else. She would only be cool with it if she had someone too. Sorry that's just how it works. She sent all them text to keep you strung along. No doubt she doesnt want you to leave but she doesn't want you to be the main guy. you are officially plan b my brother I'm sorry cuz that's messed up. If I were you I'd cut all ties and run like hell. Because she's gonna use the little girl to pull your heart strings and everything. Look at it like this if she loved and wanted you like you want and love her would it take you this long to get back with her? Would you be accepting of her being with a man I think not.