Phateless Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 I think the title pretty much sums it up. oh, and i've been drinking. Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Turn your phone off. Then throw it out of the window. Sorted. Oh and, sober up. Eventually. Happy Birthday. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Phateless Posted December 17, 2007 Author Share Posted December 17, 2007 Turn your phone off. Then throw it out of the window. Sorted. Oh and, sober up. Eventually. Happy Birthday. lol, thanks. I haven't texted her yet and I'm glad. But i'm still thinking about it... Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Well, providing that's all you do, then that's ok.... Really. Give the phone to someone else, and tell them to only give it back once you're sober. Then - and only then - decide if it's still a good idea to text her. Booze is great stuff, doubtless, but it does fusk you up a bit.... Link to post Share on other sites
lbj123 Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Don't send the drunk text! Girls HATE drunk texts, although I guess there are exceptions. what is your relationship with this girl? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Phateless Posted December 17, 2007 Author Share Posted December 17, 2007 Don't send the drunk text! Girls HATE drunk texts, although I guess there are exceptions. what is your relationship with this girl? she's hoping i'll text her... Link to post Share on other sites
lbj123 Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 ok, then why is it such a bad idea? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Phateless Posted December 17, 2007 Author Share Posted December 17, 2007 ok, then why is it such a bad idea? Cuz i'm not into her... i don't think she wants more anyways... but i dunno... Link to post Share on other sites
lbj123 Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 you know what...its your birthday so its the one day of the year to do whatever you want!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Phateless Posted December 17, 2007 Author Share Posted December 17, 2007 you know what...its your birthday so its the one day of the year to do whatever you want!! lol! I like your style! You'd better watch out or I'm gonna send that text at this rate. Link to post Share on other sites
lbj123 Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Have fun!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Phateless Posted December 17, 2007 Author Share Posted December 17, 2007 Have fun!! I can't bring myself to do it... I kinda wanna text her... I kinda wanna have sex... but I dunno... I feel it's better if I don't. WTF is that about? Link to post Share on other sites
SpanksTheMonkey Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Its called haveing respect for others and not useing them for your own pleasure. Its a good thing lacking in 95% of men now adays be happy your not one of them! To you it may be just some fun on your bday but to her it may mean more. And when you sober up in bed with her the day after and have to deal with that it can't lead any were but to hurt and dissapointment! just not worth it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Phateless Posted December 17, 2007 Author Share Posted December 17, 2007 Its called haveing respect for others and not useing them for your own pleasure. Its a good thing lacking in 95% of men now adays be happy your not one of them! To you it may be just some fun on your bday but to her it may mean more. And when you sober up in bed with her the day after and have to deal with that it can't lead any were but to hurt and dissapointment! just not worth it. I never texted her. I'm glad. Thanks for listening to my drunken ramblings guys. Link to post Share on other sites
marlena Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Happy Birthday, Phateless! Ummmm,let's see. Shouldn't she be the one texting or even better calling you to wish you a Happy Birthday? Link to post Share on other sites
polywog Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Happy Birthday Phateless! This thread made me laugh. Geez, the drunken contact.... it's mostly got me in trouble! (I'd have put an embarrassed smiley here, but they don't seem to be working for me). Link to post Share on other sites
Author Phateless Posted December 17, 2007 Author Share Posted December 17, 2007 Happy Birthday Phateless! This thread made me laugh. Geez, the drunken contact.... it's mostly got me in trouble! (I'd have put an embarrassed smiley here, but they don't seem to be working for me). Thanks guys. Yeah, I have no problem with drunken contact usually, but right now I'm really glad I never sent that text. Link to post Share on other sites
SpanksTheMonkey Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Awsome happy birthday want a bday banana? lol Link to post Share on other sites
polywog Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Thanks guys. Yeah, I have no problem with drunken contact usually, but right now I'm really glad I never sent that text. Maybe you are getting wiser with age! Link to post Share on other sites
oppath Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 At first I thought you were talking about your ex, now it sounds more like your FWB. Take the former out of your phone, write it on a post it and put it in a drawer if that is the case. If the latter, now that you are sober, call her up. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Phateless Posted December 17, 2007 Author Share Posted December 17, 2007 Nah, I have passed the point where I would be weak enough to call my ex. No amount of alcohol would make me succumb to that these days. The girl I was referring to is someone I always see at a certain local bar and we slept together once. She's cool but I'm not into her. I don't think she's under any illusions about what I want from her, but I still don't want to risk hurting someone. Link to post Share on other sites
oppath Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 I don't think she's under any illusions about what I want from her, but I still don't want to risk hurting someone. Unless it's a sure thing, the late night drunk hook up is not the way to go if there is any ambiguity. The day time flirt, however, es muy bueno. Link to post Share on other sites
Rise Against Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Happy Birthday Man! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Phateless Posted December 17, 2007 Author Share Posted December 17, 2007 Unless it's a sure thing, the late night drunk hook up is not the way to go if there is any ambiguity. The day time flirt, however, es muy bueno. I think that's all she wants is the hookups. But still... I don't want to make it a regular thing. Thanks Rise Against! Link to post Share on other sites
oppath Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 I think that's all she wants is the hookups. But still... I don't want to make it a regular thing. I agree with that. If hookups are too common, you are too intimate with the person for the level of connection you actually share, and you become complacent in your dating life. Best to make them infrequent, but frequent enough to get the willies out of your willy. Link to post Share on other sites
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