R2litefan Posted June 7, 2003 Share Posted June 7, 2003 I found out some information over the weekend that really has me confused now, I had previously written about whether I was not good enough or too good, meaning this guys friends told me that my morals were too high for him and that I didn't make enough money for him. What happened over the weekend has me really wondering what is going through this guys head. He saw me out Saturday night with a guy (just an old classmate I ran into that night that I hadn't seen in 5 years), but he didn't know who it was and come Monday at work, he wouldn't even say hi and was rather rude to me and at the time I didn't know why until the other day I found out that he saw me with my friend and he got mad. He had told me last year that there were things about me that he desired but he just didn't want that in his life right now, but why would he get mad when he saw me with someone else but yet it's okay if he's dating a girl who makes more money than I do and has a very loose reputation? I just don't understand what is going on here. Any insight from anyone might help me understand because right now I am all confused. I really like this guy, I know how good of a person he can be but I just don't know what to think right now, he's always been good at keeping me going in circles, making me wonder what's going through his head. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
NEONINK Posted June 7, 2003 Share Posted June 7, 2003 Don't worry about what he thinks. He sounds extremely shallow and mean. Laugh this one off and be glad you didn't get stuck with the smuck... Some people's opinions aren't worth two cents. That's just the way life is sometimes. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted June 7, 2003 Share Posted June 7, 2003 YOU ASK: "...why would he get mad when he saw me with someone else but yet it's okay if he's dating a girl who makes more money than I do and has a very loose reputation?" That's an easy one. It happens a lot. He is not interested in dating you but he doesn't want anyone else seeing you either. You are, in his mind, a distant reserve in case all else fails for him. Seeing you with somebody else is a threat to your reserve status with him, since he knows you would come to him if he snapped his finger. He's a royal piece of crap and I hope you will forget him. The guy has absolutely nothing to offer you. Any guy who would not see a lady because her morals were too high and she didn't make enough money is a real, low class, snobbish sickie. Don't you see what that says about him? Personally, I can't believe you are wasting your precious time on this planet thinking about this guy. He needs to be cycled through the city sewage treatment plant. You say you really like this guy. What in heaven's name do you like about him??? Oh, maybe it's the fact that he is capable of treating you like the crap he does and administering the greatest heartbreak you'll likely experience in your lifetime. Is that it??? I think you deserve just a tad better...I hope one day you will too. Link to post Share on other sites
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