Rise Against Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Well here's a story, kind of interesting... There's this girl I like, and I have some information that she might like me back. But then all of a sudden, this random guy (kind of mentally ill), keeps hugging the girl I like in front of me and she feels very uncomfortable and is trying to avoid him. Is there something I can say to the other guy that will make the girl I like comfortable, or just let it happen?
Lovegod Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 I know, why don't you send her some flowers for Christmas? Then she'll forget all about him and be madly in love with you!
Author Rise Against Posted December 20, 2007 Author Posted December 20, 2007 hahaha Good One! Kinda feel bad for the other guy but he is kinda weird and she does try to avoid him anyways.
Ronni_W Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 Tell her it seems to you that this guy's attention makes her uncomfortable (bonus points: you are sensitive to her feelings and at the same time you don't just jump to conclusions about what she *may* be feeling.) Then ask her if she'd like you to do anything and what she thinks would be appropriate for you to do (bonus points: you respect that *she* knows what she needs and you value her input at resolving her problems. EDITED TO ADD: and you're willing to help her if/when she needs it.)
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