AugustLane Posted December 23, 2007 Share Posted December 23, 2007 Since this thread was lost in the corruption, I'm re starting it. Here's the deal: I'm 30 and have a crush on a 20 year old guy I work with. There is no danger of getting in trouble for messing around with him workwise other than my boss being slightly jealous that he couldn't do it Said little hottie has told me how gorgeous I am on numerous occations and that when he looks at me he just can't believe I'm 30. At work we are all tripping over each other due to the holiday rush- but unlike with my coworkers- whom we all try to get out of each other's way- with him it seems like an excuse press against me a little longer. He is always very flirty with me. Other problem. Said hottie has a gf. I said before I'm a proponent of the 'if there ain't no ring, it ain't no thing' line of thinking- especially at that age. But I'm also not looking for a relationship with the guy, just a little affair for fun on my part. Would it make me a bad person for going after this? ok- yes I might be a bad person, but should I do it anyway? Link to post Share on other sites
Blue Eyed Brain Posted December 23, 2007 Share Posted December 23, 2007 I read you post yesterday..... Go for it, then post all the details..... Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted December 23, 2007 Share Posted December 23, 2007 If the guy is unhappy in his current relationships, he should end it and be single. Then you two go at it. Keep it physical. I do caution that you may want to consider the unintended consequences of you actions. You will be the OW. Just a thought. Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted December 23, 2007 Share Posted December 23, 2007 He has a girlfriend. What does that say about you if you are willing to help him cheat on her? Besides that you two have to work together and those relationships are prone to failure. I would just keep the relationship professional and later down the road if him and his girlfriend split up and he or you move on to a different job then explore the possibility of dating. Don't be a party to cheating. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AugustLane Posted December 23, 2007 Author Share Posted December 23, 2007 What does that say about you if you are willing to help him cheat on her? Besides that you two have to work together and those relationships are prone to failure. I already said I was a bad person. ...and I don't want a relationship, just relations... Link to post Share on other sites
HouseOfCards Posted December 24, 2007 Share Posted December 24, 2007 Yeah, if this guy has a girlfriend already, I definitely don't think you should go for it, be it physical or whatever. Trust me, in any other situation I would have fully supported you corrupting this guy's mind. Sounds like fun. Link to post Share on other sites
EYECANDY000 Posted December 24, 2007 Share Posted December 24, 2007 I say dont do it, Only wanting physical contact is even worst.. If there is no emotional connection it gets old really quick. and since you guys work together that is putting gas on the fire. Letting him go back and forth between you two is senseless. I say look into the future and down the line. What happens when he decides that he dont want to be with you any more and he just wants to be faithful to his girl? I smell Tension in the air! Link to post Share on other sites
Author AugustLane Posted December 24, 2007 Author Share Posted December 24, 2007 but she never has to know. Maybe I could teach him a few things to take back to her Seriously, he is so hot. I can't remember the last time I lusted after someone like this! Once would be good enough for me! i know it's wrong. and the truth is that it will probably never happen- unless of course we are left in the store alone after closing time Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted December 24, 2007 Share Posted December 24, 2007 Wow...just wow. Link to post Share on other sites
EYECANDY000 Posted December 24, 2007 Share Posted December 24, 2007 but she never has to know. Maybe I could teach him a few things to take back to her Seriously, he is so hot. I can't remember the last time I lusted after someone like this! Once would be good enough for me! i know it's wrong. and the truth is that it will probably never happen- unless of course we are left in the store alone after closing time hmmmmmm .............. speechless!!!! anyone else want to take it Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted December 24, 2007 Share Posted December 24, 2007 but she never has to know. Maybe I could teach him a few things to take back to her Seriously, he is so hot. I can't remember the last time I lusted after someone like this! Once would be good enough for me! i know it's wrong. and the truth is that it will probably never happen- unless of course we are left in the store alone after closing time Till the security camera footage is in an infomercial: "Clerks. Caught on tape!" By the way the beeping noise is to notify employees that they are being recorded for training purposes! Link to post Share on other sites
Author AugustLane Posted December 24, 2007 Author Share Posted December 24, 2007 Till the security camera footage is in an infomercial: "Clerks. Caught on tape!" By the way the beeping noise is to notify employees that they are being recorded for training purposes! Ah the joys of being friends with the owner/ my boss. I know all about the security there... Don't worry, I'm not as bold as I'm pretending to be. I'm just enjoying the thought of it all. -but if anything should happen, I'll come back and post all the dirty details Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted December 24, 2007 Share Posted December 24, 2007 Ah the joys of being friends with the owner/ my boss. I know all about the security there... Don't worry, I'm not as bold as I'm pretending to be. I'm just enjoying the thought of it all. -but if anything should happen, I'll come back and post all the dirty details Forget words, just post the videos with multiple angles!!! BTW, just be careful. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted December 24, 2007 Share Posted December 24, 2007 I already said I was a bad person. ...and I don't want a relationship, just relations... You say you only want "relations" with this younger guy? Well suppose he is so good in bed that the next thing you know he is on your mind constantly and you are jealous as hell of his younger gf, because oops you've fallen in love!!!!! You'd better leave this young hottie alone and keep your relationship on the professional level. You don't want to get a bad reputation at work do you? I remember when I worked our office manager got involved with a younger guy of about 10 years. They were the talk of the office. A pretty young girl started working there and he fell for her and again the office manager was the talk of the office. I would leave him alone if I were you. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted December 24, 2007 Share Posted December 24, 2007 but she never has to know. Maybe I could teach him a few things to take back to her Seriously, he is so hot. I can't remember the last time I lusted after someone like this! Once would be good enough for me! i know it's wrong. and the truth is that it will probably never happen- unless of course we are left in the store alone after closing time I know how you feel... I still have to pinch myself when I think about the fling I had in Cancun last year with a young guy soooo freaken hot I don't think I will ever meet another one like him... (him 23, me 54) It's like a 'dream'.... only it happened for real... it lasted a few days... and I still love to 'replay' the details... Keep us informed... Good luck... Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted December 24, 2007 Share Posted December 24, 2007 If it doesn't bother you to get involved with someone who's previously committed, then what's the issue? Why not go for it and see how the drama unfolds? It should be interesting when the g/f finds out. Link to post Share on other sites
sderenzi Posted December 24, 2007 Share Posted December 24, 2007 I love this damn site, these are the kinds of posts I live for, lmao Hey umm darling where do you work, I'm 26 and not bad looking I'd like to learn a few things wOOt! Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted December 24, 2007 Share Posted December 24, 2007 I love this damn site, these are the kinds of posts I live for, lmao Hey umm darling where do you work, I'm 26 and not bad looking I'd like to learn a few things wOOt! hang around ... you might learn a few things... LOL Link to post Share on other sites
sderenzi Posted December 24, 2007 Share Posted December 24, 2007 hang around ... you might learn a few things... LOL wOot from u or her Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 This situation sounds pretty freaking hot ! The idea of you two going at it in a Utility Closet..woooooooo......post back ! LOL Link to post Share on other sites
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