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xenonsrt10, you're failing miserably. Trialbyfire just told you she was a female who was interested in the things listed yet you failed to spin it into a flirtatious conversation. You don't need money xenon. What you need is MOUTHPIECE, and if you listen to THE THRONE, and follow the doctrine of the Seven-Legged Lamb you'll be on your way.

 

The book of the Seven-Legged Lamb chapter 7 verse 97 says: Thou shalt not try to impress women with thy wealth, for thy wealth is not promised to thee for it is here today and gone tommorow.

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Look, man, you can't hide money. There's no need to flash it. In fact, it's not classy at all. I come from a small country where wealth has been concentrated in the same few families for generations and the wealthiest of the wealthiest are the least pretentious. They're that classy.

 

We have a saying that doesn't sound that clever in english but literally translated is: "The monkey, even if he's dressed in silk, he is still a monkey."

 

If you go slumming, use your money for one night stands... but it helps if you're old enough to at least buy drinks for yourself and whoever it is you want to bang.

 

And, if you want decent girls, don't brag about cars, that's lame and oafish. Enroll yourself in some etiquette classes and become more refined. That's how your wealth will really show. Oh, and travel, man. Go out and try the best of the best in life, that way, whenever you run into real sophisticated people (and you will), you have some proof that you're classy and don't have to "flash" your cars (I forget which ones you named, but I don't know about cars).

 

And I'm actually surprised that females reading this thread haven't picked up on the fact that there's more to displaying wealth than your vehicle. Subtle things, like your shoes and watches, speak volumes about your financial situation. There are a lot of other ways that unknowingly convey your monetary status. Look them up. That's why you simply can't hide wealth. There's no need to brag about it in any way.

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Oh yeah, and I agree with that seven legged lamb guy. You totally dropped the ball with that girl you had that car interchange with. Not that she wanted to jump your bones or anything, but you could've at least tried to think about maybe saying something flirty in one of those posts. Come on, dude. It's the internet.

 

But in real life, before displaying your wealth, practice talking to chicks. They're not that scary. Or hairy.

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I have been there, money might get you laid but it wont get you love. I gave up 7 figures learning this lesson. You got a nice car, but if its for a payment on it I would use money you need on a girl, only use the surplus you can do without. Good luck, a nice girl will come around....dont sit home.

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I'm with the folks who say use your money to travel and broaden your horizons. Because people respond to other people who do things they find appealing.

 

• I live with my parents rent-free, so I've got a ton of money saved up to spend on clothes and cars and buying friends drinks

 

versus

 

• I'm a student and got to spend last summer schlepping around europe/mexico/the US

 

¿entiendes? while the drink-buying sounds appealing to freeloaders, the student who got out and broadened his/her horizons is more appealing because he's got a buttload of stories and observations to share ...

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Hey dude, your young, if you want... go out there and start flashing money around and experiement! and see what happens. Chances are, maybe girls won't jump on you the way you thought they would or maybe they will. either way... then you learn more about being around them, the things you want, the things you don't want, expereince some drama, increase some confidence, and maybe down the line... you will grow more and decide that you don't want to flash money anymore, but you will have gained more knowledge and experience that it will be easier to pursue some sweet non-devil girls. My point is, you could still gain something by doing something that lot of these people are saying is not a good idea to do.

 

If you do, do it with an open mind as there is some will try to sap from you, some girls are soo *^*&(^ up that will never step inside a vehicle that isn't luxury, some that will want to marry and devorce to get your monies, etc etc... i'm sure you know this stuff happens. but in the end, the way everything will unfold in your life will be based on the type of person you really are.

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I think he did just fine. We had a nice exchange and from the sounds of it, since he played to his strengths, as in the subject matter, he felt fairly comfortable and his confidence level picked up. That's all he needs to learn to do.

 

I do agree that the more you expand your interests, the more interesting a person you'll be.

 

Good luck xenonsrt! :)

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