I feel that I am finally acheiving a good balance

[Woggle]

I have stated before that one of the reasons I have been afraid to let go of the past and drop my anger against women is that I am terrified of becoming the doormat that so many other man have become in our modern society. I read some of these threads from men on this board and somebody please put a bulllet in my head if I ever become like that. I felt like I had to rage against women to prevent becoming like this.

 

I think I am finally figuring out how to have a spine without being such a hateful person. I will never let a woman treat me like a doormat but I am starting to realize that not every woman will try to treat me that way. Not every woman is some manhating witch who views men as tools to be used and discarded and views relationships as a gender war. Not every woman thinks that women are victims no matter what and that men deserve to get cheated on and abused. The women are this way thought better not even think about pulling that crap on me though. Finally the misogynost pig and the sensitive romantic that live inside are making peace.

[serial muse]

Hooray, Woggle! Peace to you and yours these holidays.

[Lishy]

Wow Woggle that is fab news!

 

You sure have been hating on women on here and it is not attractive babe!

 

I know how it feels to be hurt so bad that you make a concious decision to never let it happen again ... I am glad you have seen the error of your ways lol

 

Here's to a happy, less aggressive future for you!!!!!

[Woggle]

Wow Woggle that is fab news!

 

You sure have been hating on women on here and it is not attractive babe!

 

I know how it feels to be hurt so bad that you make a concious decision to never let it happen again ... I am glad you have seen the error of your ways lol

 

Here's to a happy, less aggressive future for you!!!!!

 

I don't mean to come across so hateful but a lot of it comes from pain and seeing what other men go through. I hate seeing men waste their time and energy on women that will just hurt them. No matter gender, race, class, or whatever a person is if you respect me I will respect you. I also stay off that women's infidelity board because it really does get me riled up.

[Lishy]

I have to stay away from the OM/OW board too - Just to see them patting each other on the back and plotting how to get 'their man' makes my blood boil and it shows in any replies I make lol

 

But back to the original topic hon, you have crossed a big barrier now and I hope you remain in that mind frame as I am sure you will be happier

[a4a]

I don't mean to come across so hateful but a lot of it comes from pain and seeing what other men go through. I hate seeing men waste their time and energy on women that will just hurt them. No matter gender, race, class, or whatever a person is if you respect me I will respect you. I also stay off that women's infidelity board because it really does get me riled up.

 

Woggle out of curiosity....... do you post on that board?

 

Also keep in mind people expect the same from you.

 

Hope you can remind yourself of your new found self - if you feel that you are slipping back into the abyss.

[Woggle]

I have to stay away from the OM/OW board too - Just to see them patting each other on the back and plotting how to get 'their man' makes my blood boil and it shows in any replies I make lol

 

But back to the original topic hon, you have crossed a big barrier now and I hope you remain in that mind frame as I am sure you will be happier

 

I am not talking about that board I am talking about a seperate board dedicated specifically to cheating women. I have decided it is just best fme not to look at it anymore. The women on there are the stuff of every man's nightmare.

[Woggle]

Woggle out of curiosity....... do you post on that board?

 

Also keep in mind people expect the same from you.

 

Hope you can remind yourself of your new found self - if you feel that you are slipping back into the abyss.

 

No I don't post on it. I almost did but what would be the point.

[Lizzie60]

bon... finalement... you came back to your senses... good for you...

 

Not every woman uses men for their selfish needs... just me..

 

Men suck!

 

 

 

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I am being silly... I love them... but they have to be smart and rich...

 

just kidding..

[Harpe]

I am glad to hear there are some strong men on this board, I was beginning to wonder...

 

I have only started posting here recently, but have been really disheartened by all of the quite frankly weak men on the cheating/break up forums. Men (or should I say boys) who are treated badly, but keep going back for more. Guys who are so damned scared to be alone (horror!) for a little while, who are too scared to stand the **** up for themselves that they really shouldn't call themselves men. (though there are some guys here giving advice who seem to share my perspective and whom I can respect.)

 

But then I realized that I too have been there (though not for very long thank goodness), and that I stopped being such a doormat 'nice guy' when I 'connected' with myself. I recognized who I was, what I was worth to MYSELF, what mattered to me in my life, and what I wanted from that life. And I recognized that this only happened after I had been in these guys' shoes, and gone through what they have been going through.

 

So I have decided to stay here and help others realize that the **** they are going through right now can be the best thing that has ever happened to them if they use the experience to open their bloody eyes and find the fire within themselves to be who they are, to stand tall and strong and proud, and not let a woman make them lose sight of this.