gdog Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 An interesting perspective here..... If a fellow comes on here with a major problem, all and sundry come to his aid with tons of advice. I have been here fore a few days with 3 entries and very little to no response. Conclusion: People love scandals, thrive on others inability to sort things out. If a situation occurs and the 2-5 individuals are able to make things work ok, then the rest of you "do gooders" are not interested so no "moral" help???? Whatever, I wil get through this the best I can and will make things work out for us. Guarantee. Later, Link to post Share on other sites
Sleeplesstoo Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 An interesting perspective here..... If a fellow comes on here with a major problem, all and sundry come to his aid with tons of advice. I have been here fore a few days with 3 entries and very little to no response. Conclusion: People love scandals, thrive on others inability to sort things out. If a situation occurs and the 2-5 individuals are able to make things work ok, then the rest of you "do gooders" are not interested so no "moral" help???? Whatever, I wil get through this the best I can and will make things work out for us. Guarantee. Later, Gdog, I am not sure what you are talking about, but I will talk to you. Yes, you are right about "drama" people are drawn to it, maybe it's like watching a train wreck. LOL I clicked on your name and this was really all I could find except another post that I think was eluding to the same situation. "Interesting Just got off the phone with the wife. She asked how much longer I would keep bringing up her mistake? It has only been 7 weeks since I got the news. The event took place 10 weeks ago. When we talk, it is good, without anger or accusation. Just good discussion about our feelings. I just told her that it would be awhile yet as the deed is on my mind every waking minute but getting less and less each day." Cheers " I can't really comment much because I don't know what the deed was, I am guessing some type of an affair and your inability to let go of it as soon as she would like you to, but that is all I can get from your post. Probably I have missed something, but again I don't know. I know I have posted on a thread that has completely disappeared and I was told there was some sort of data loss on this board, could that be it. Sorry I know you are reaching out and haven't gotten much help here. Maybe we need more details. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 Gdog if you are referring to the other two threads you started, it appears you are posing a situation update that is positive and you are not necessarily asking for any sort of advice. I for one am not familiar with your situation other than the update you posted about here, as I am sure many must have thought the same thing. It seems you have things under control and are not looking for any sort of solution to a problem. It appears people love drama because it is the posts that are most dramatic that happen to also be knee deep in the depths of a big decision to make, or crisis. When a person reaches out for help and you get two opposting camps to help the original poster this will seem like it is creating drama. But what is happening is people are offering advice and debating the different thoughts. If you are looking for help you need to spell it out in the original post, if you take out a post saying "everything is under control and progressing" what exactly do you expect from people's feedback? Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 Actually, gdog, sweetheart, I have picked up on a couple of points in your other threads, and commented.... But I see TC33's point...if, as it seems, things are on a roll, it's difficult to know what to say without risking de-railing the progress... Link to post Share on other sites
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