AlmostAvirgin Posted December 29, 2007 Posted December 29, 2007 my live-in gf refuses to sleep in the same bed as me. It isnt on any moral or religious grounds - she claims she had been molested as a child in bed and she doesnt feel safe with anyone else there. I can get that I can never understand what that must have been like but she was married for 4 years previously and had other live-in relationships and I dont know if there's something else she's not sharing yet or if she's just trying to take advantage of my paying all the bills and naivety.
polywog Posted December 29, 2007 Posted December 29, 2007 Just because she was married and had other relationships doesn't mean that much, IMHO. Abuse victims tend to go through phases in their lives where it rises its ugly head, and maybe it's where she is right now. Has she seen a therapist to deal with this?
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