Schtinkerbell Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 My best friend, who's like a sister to me is getting married in five months, and I just discovered through my nephew that he saw her fiancee out at a late night club. Mistaken identity? I think not, because when he was spotted, the fiancee asked my nephew not to mention this sighting to me, because my best friend's parents are "uptight about his drinking alcoholic beverages". My nephew did say that fiancee was alone -- wasn't hanging with any women, or even looking for other women. Fiancee just appeared to be blowing off some steam, enjoying the music and drinks. (I'm also concerned about his apparent drinking and driving...) Do I tell my best friend about her fiancee? She has no idea that he's leading a late night life. He calls her at 10 p.m. every night to say goodnight -- she's thinking he's going to sleep, and then he apparently heads to the city to the clubs. He's not cheating with women, but I hate the idea that he is lying to her about his whereabouts. I mean, if his clubbing is in innocence, then why is he keeping it a secret? Do I tell my best friend? or Do I confront the fiancee in private? Please help, everyone before I make the wrong move and cause chaos in everyone's life! Link to post Share on other sites
NEONINK Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 hmmmm..... very sticky situation. If you do decide to tell her, don't make a big deal out of it. Just drop it in passing. That way everyone can save face. And if you decide not to tell her, that's ok too. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 Keep your mouth shut. What this guy does with his time is his business. People who get in the middle of crap like this always end up the losers. Your friend will find out about this sooner or later. You might set things up so she just happens to observe him by accident, if you want to do that. Otherwise, mind your own business. Getting involved will only make YOU the loser. I think he deserves to get some of this out of his system...because after he's married, it's very doubtful he'll ever again be able to go out drinking late at night. Give him a break while he can have one. Link to post Share on other sites
Lila Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 His life is none of your business. Stay out of it. Link to post Share on other sites
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