Do you women want the truth?

[Trialbyfire]

Don't get pissed with me but here goes...

 

You're an overachiever who gets pissed with reality. You make posts like, "I hate it when men objectify me" and "pregnancy" (even though you don't have children)... I mean, NO SH*T they objectify you (do you even realise what goes on in our heads?) I mean... here, I'll try to explain.

 

Since I've never cheated on my GFs etc, I can only talk about porn. See, we get these thoughts about sex (even when we try to block it out) and this compulsion... then we watch porn (in a dazed haze) and then once the deed is done, we look down disgusted at ourselves (often, we think how sick is it that this poor girl on screen has to do this job and how bad it is that we're jerking off) AFTER we do the deed.

 

Anyway, back to the point... I don't like the type of woman you are because I think you are stubborn and very assertive and selfish. Someone who will gladly let someone else get screwed if it takes you one step higher. I'm sure you don't do it consciously, but you seem like a mega feminist pseudo-intellectual.

 

This is my honest opinion, I hope you don't flame me for it, you did ask me what I thought.

Hey, you're amazing. You're right on the money. That's exactly who I am. Wow, so insightful!!

[The Real Truth]

I AVOID RELATIONSHIPS.

 

At least I plan to anyways.

 

Good. You are smart... men (except for me) seriously only consider love as an afterthought.

 

There was this GF that I considered to love, it was love out of protection... love because she was so fragile. I would sacrifice anything to make her not cry. I can't explain it... but everytime I thought of her, I just wanted to protect her from every bad thing there was out there. It was like she was this precious thing that I had to make happy. Not saying I did that, but when I thought of her, that's what I thought. I had to leave her because I had to move away...

 

But for some reason, that's what love feels to me. Is that twisted?

[Florida]

I don't cheat. This is unfortunately because I fear God and am disgusted by people, not because I was born that way.

 

I simply hate looking at others, so I myself cannot do it. In a way, I guess it makes me feel superior, to be honest, and anything that separates me from the scum (in my mind), is a strong enough motivating factor not to cheat... ever.

 

Well I'm the same way, minus the fearing God part. Mostly the disgusted by others and that that is how I feel good about myself-by being aware of what some others do, and not partaking. Also because I just don't want to.

 

So...logic follows that if I feel like this, and you feel like this..then some others do too, right?

 

And one step further-is it too much to hope that you believe you could meet a like minded individual and they would not be like that?

 

Because-sorry (not literally-it's a good thing) but you aren't the only one.

 

Also- what did you mean you doubt that about what I said about my personality traits? It's all true. I can't control what you think, but I think that is odd you are dubious. I know myself, but you don't know me. Guess you just have to have faith.

[The Real Truth]

But yeah... once again, I only don't cheat out of fear of retribution and disgust of other people who do cheat. I don't think it's an intrinsic thing? The thing is, many girls do hit on me, and yet... I don't know, internally I think, "if I actually go out on a date with her, then I'll be stuck with her... and to be honest, she seems like the same vapid b*tch like most girls". So I smile politely, and internally laugh when she puts on a quasi-offended face.

 

I don't really care about relationships anymore, because I know most of you are so selfish and destructive, you would f*ck over your own family just so you can get an ego boost (which is all a relationship is, when you think about it... more so in an affair).

[The Real Truth]

1. So...logic follows that if I feel like this, and you feel like this..then some others do too, right?

 

2. And one step further-is it too much to hope that you believe you could meet a like minded individual and they would not be like that?

 

3. Because-sorry (not literally-it's a good thing) but you aren't the only one.

 

4. Also- what did you mean you doubt that about what I said about my personality traits? It's all true. I can't control what you think, but I think that is odd you are dubious. I know myself, but you don't know me. Guess you just have to have faith.

 

1. No. I believe I am twisted because of my parental upbringing and because I am extremely self-conscious that I can't lie to myself for extended periods of time (unlike most cheaters and women).

 

2. You know what, believe that if you want. But when you get cheated on, then you can come back to me and I'll explain why it happened. Seriously, don't want him to cheat, find an uglier guy, preferably a nerd.

 

3. I'm afraid I am... but not for the right reasons.

 

4. I doubt that you don't love attention (most women do), you'd love it from any random person too.

[Florida]

4. I doubt that you don't love attention (most women do), you'd love it from any random person too.

 

Sorry-totally wrong. You're making things up. I understand you are saying this to me because you cannot comprehend a woman would not want validation or atttention from you glorious men-impossible right? I mean-men as a whole are sooo cool. They leave their families, cheat, get hard at the slightest breeze, rape, lust after their own daughters secretly, yeah-I really give a rat's a%% about getting attention from that

 

How do I like attention if I go out of my way to avoid it-by avoiding loooking at anyone, avoiding eye contact, wearing clothes that aren't realy flattering.

 

This is your own thing, you own it- I'm signing out.

[The Real Truth]

You know on some level that I am correct.

 

Ahhh... I'm hungry aswell, man, the only reason I may need a woman is because I can't cook (but it's okay, since that's not a good enough reason to get a girl).

 

BTW, guys... if the girl is 2 points hotter than you, then she will cheat on you. Definately cheat on you. But don't worry, once she reaches 35, you can have your revenge (so I guess it evens out).

[polywog]

BTW, guys... if the girl is 2 points hotter than you, then she will cheat on you. Definately cheat on you. But don't worry, once she reaches 35, you can have your revenge (so I guess it evens out).

 

Um, this is somewhat true of me. I am consistently at least 3 or 4 points hotter than any man I've ever seen, let alone dated, and yet I'm over 35 and still manage to cheat every chance I get.

[The Real Truth]

Sorry-totally wrong. You're making things up. I understand you are saying this to me because you cannot comprehend a woman would not want validation or atttention from you glorious men-impossible right? I mean-men as a whole are sooo cool. They leave their families, cheat, get hard at the slightest breeze, rape, lust after their own daughters secretly, yeah-I really give a rat's a%% about getting attention from that

 

How do I like attention if I go out of my way to avoid it-by avoiding loooking at anyone, avoiding eye contact, wearing clothes that aren't realy flattering.

 

This is your own thing, you own it- I'm signing out.

 

We are not cool. We are pieces of sh*t who don't consider others when we get an erection. I admit it.

 

Uhh... no one lusts after their children (although i wouldn't know because I don't have children), but you're right, men do lust over younger girls. Men do rape, men do cheat (but so do women, although women do it for a more stupid and destructive and selfish reason).

 

Women are worse though, because women cheat because they need to be the center of everyone's attention.

[The Real Truth]

Um, this is somewhat true of me. I am consistently at least 3 or 4 points hotter than any man I've ever seen, let alone dated, and yet I'm over 35 and still manage to cheat every chance I get.

 

As I said, women like you (who justify their disgusting behaviour) is a major reason I will not ever get married or have children. It's also a reason that I actually feel joy when men treat you like sh*t because I feel you deserve it.

 

Just so you know, thanks to people like you, I will be alone my entire life (when I didn't have to be).

[cutegirl]

We are not cool. We are pieces of sh*t who don't consider others when we get an erection. I admit it.

 

Uhh... no one lusts after their children (although i wouldn't know because I don't have children), but you're right, men do lust over younger girls. Men do rape, men do cheat (but so do women, although women do it for a more stupid and destructive and selfish reason).

 

Women are worse though, because women cheat because they need to be the center of everyone's attention.

 

It's true, a lot of women do want attention and want to be the "prettiest" or "most beautiful", women are very competitive.

 

I don't cheat though, I never have. Mainly because I'm anti-social so I don't like interact with guys much or at all.

[polywog]

As I said, women like you (who justify their disgusting behaviour) is a major reason I will not ever get married or have children. It's also a reason that I actually feel joy when men treat you like sh*t because I feel you deserve it.

 

Just so you know, thanks to people like you, I will be alone my entire life (when I didn't have to be).

 

Who says men treat my like sh*t? They worship me, as far as I can tell.

[The Real Truth]

What's wrong with that?

 

Don't worry, when you reach menopause, and you see all these virile young 20 year old girls in their skirts, and you've settled for 2nd best (after wh*ring around for the better part of your life), it will definately hurt.

 

This is the only reason I don't completely hate women like you, because I know what's in store.

[polywog]

Exactly, you're the scum I'm talking about. You must be the center of everybody's attention. So thoughtless and selfish.

 

Seriously, because a person like you exists, I will be alone my entire life (isn't that sad?).

 

Don't worry, once you've reach menopause, everything changes (nobody will worship you then, think about that while you're cheating on your stable 4 point below you husband). When this change happens, it will be like nothing you've ever felt.

 

I dunno, I seem to be the center of attention, and I don't have to try. it just happens. Even though I am well past menopause. I still get worshipped, it seems. Oh well.

[Legend]

It's a sad truth... I have to agree with 90% of the stuff 'the real truth' has said.

[The Real Truth]

It's a sad truth... I have to agree with 90% of the stuff 'the real truth' has said.

 

What's the other 10%?

[cutegirl]

Exactly, most women are selfish, self-centered, attention wh*res. I'm glad you agree with what I'm saying.

 

I don't really agree with that though. I think men cheat more than women. Men are driven by their penis. Men are either in a state of loaded or un-loaded and when they are loaded, they'll do anything to get rid of that load.

 

A lot of men also use the excuse that women get pregnant for 9 months, while the guys can keep on going and fertilizing new women in the meantime... It's somehow decoded in their genetic dna to bed as many women as possible. It is only society that has socially conditioned men to be monogamous but it's very hard for a man to control his true impulses.

 

I think men cheat more than women. There are a lot of scandalous women out there. I just think men a worse.

[Trialbyfire]

I dunno, I seem to be the center of attention, and I don't have to try. it just happens. Even though I am well past menopause. I still get worshipped, it seems. Oh well.

The same thing happens to me. Now that I'm in my sixties, it just gets more and more. I dunno why. Can you figure out what kind of magic we both possess to cause men to fall at our feet?

[The Real Truth]

I don't really agree with that though. I think men cheat more than women. Men are driven by their penis. Men are either in a state of loaded or un-loaded and when they are loaded, they'll do anything to get rid of that load.

 

A lot of men also use the excuse that women get pregnant for 9 months, while the guys can keep on going and fertilizing new women in the meantime... It's somehow decoded in their genetic dna to bed as many women as possible. It is only society that has socially conditioned men to be monogamous but it's very hard for a man to control his true impulses.

 

I think men cheat more than women. There are a lot of scandalous women out there. I just think men a worse.

 

Oh well... I guess all humans are f*cked. What can I say? I still think women are worse, they cheat for the dumbest reasons and do it without remorse. Oh well, I guess being alone wouldn't be so bad (knowing how much scum there is out there ---> which is pretty much everybody)

[Saxis]

What's the other 10%?

 

Exactly, most women are selfish, self-centered, attention wh*res. I'm glad you agree with what I'm saying.

 

There's the 10%. You're mostly correct, but there are people willing to look for ONE person in a small minority. And it only takes one...

 

Will you mostly likely suffer on that journey? Yep.... probably 90% of the time.

[The Real Truth]

There's the 10%. You're mostly correct, but there are people willing to look for ONE person in a small minority. And it only takes one...

 

Will you mostly likely suffer on that journey? Yep.... probably 90% of the time.

 

Dude, that 10% does not exist. It's more like 0.000000001%. Also, most people that claim they would never cheat end up cheating, so it's even less than that. Many church going people (including pastors) cheat aswell so don't act like God is a strong enough factor to deter them from cheating either.

[Legend]

No one said you're right about everything. I'm not sure if anyone asked you're age, but obviously quite young. There are plenty of guys here willing to give advice from a guy's perspective without "lies".

However, you do have a pretty juvenile way of getting your point across.

[Trialbyfire]

See, there you go, "fall to your feet". You must have everything, musn't you, Princess Diva?

 

I mean, ahh, it's things like that which annoy me the most because it's like the whole center of attention thing.

 

Don't worry though, we men are also scum so I take responsibility too.

I can't help it when they fall at my feet. If it's muddy out, they do come in handy so I don't need to get my Jimmy Choos dirty. I knew there was a use for men.

[Saxis]

Dude, that 10% does not exist. It's more like 0.000000001%. Also, most people that claim they would never cheat end up cheating, so it's even less than that. Many church going people (including pastors) cheat aswell so don't act like God is a strong enough factor to deter them from cheating either.

 

But you wouldn't know if the 10% exists, would you? I would actually think 10% could be a pretty close number of marriages that survive without infidelity.

 

And I don't. I don't believe in God at all. I think people who admit that they are scared of God are the weakest links. I think that's all religion is. A means of control. Keeping people "scared" into "doing the right thing". All bullsh*t. These are the same people that chastise others for not believing, essentially making them hypocrites.

[Trialbyfire]

There's no need to make fun of me here.

What? Can't you see this for the truth, in your awesome insights? You try opening my front door without hitting parcels. Damn, it's tough to be me.