Getting rid of the awkward silence in a conversation with a girl.

[Rise Against]

Well sometimes when you talk to a girl you have that one awkward moment of silence like both of you don't know what to say? What does that mean and what should we do about it?

 

Thanks

[Tomcat33]

Sounds like a kiss may be in order, if face to face.

 

Awkward silences are natural. Every conversation thread must come to a stop and sometimes topics flow and connect other times they stop dead in its tracks, it doesn't mean anything more than the brain is not ready to process the next topic. It could be because it is preoccupied trying to deal with the sexual chemistry you may feel when with a person you like.

 

If you are feeling awkward chances are she is too so do nothing, ride it out and let it pass. The more you try to fill in the void the more awkward it feels. If it is someone you are trying to seduce or win over to go out with then you should use that time to simply look into her eyes and hold the look, a lot can be said with the eyes.

 

If she looks away and nervously you have zapped your little zebra and she is ready for the taking my dear tiger!

[Lovegod]

^^^ Agreed, it's pretty normal. Let her worry about filling in the awkward silence

[hotpinkrockstar]

by noticing the awkward silence guess what you are doing? Making it more awkward! Let it slide, and eventually you wont even think about them...