Author watchconcierge Posted January 3, 2008 Author Share Posted January 3, 2008 Games, games, games. I wish some of our men would respond to you. Sorry... I didn't catch your point in that response. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 I DON'T party. I go to charity events and make some public appearances. I don't go to the bars at all. I haven't been to a bar since we've broken up. And on New Years, I made a donation to a group of bars and they were going to pimp me out to their patrons... make an announcement that I was in attendance, etc., but I didn't go. You're making some assumptions about me that aren't correct. I meant to say that I don't like feeling like I'm stuck at home while she's out at the bars. Then I'm tending to our child while she's having the time of her life. I am not a partier! I am a worker who likes to be at home with family. Then go out when it's not your time to have your child. Then she'll be tending your child and you'll be out. Pretty simple, really. Link to post Share on other sites
cj1988 Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 Yep Watch, it is on page 2 get another address quickly or your W and everyone else you know will see it ! Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 My daughter is doing well. I see her and we have a great relationship. I will say that I know everybody will tell me it's wrong, but I have been having a very difficult time taking her Thursday night thru Sunday morning, bc that enables easier all nighters for the ex. Ummm...what's to stop you from having different custody days? One parent have the child up to Friday or Saturday and the other parent from either Saturday or Sunday, onward? You're not exactly strapped for cash so get yourself a good lawyer and work on your custody issues... Link to post Share on other sites
Kasan Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 And if you are as a famous as you say you are, when the sh*t hits the fan on Entertainment Tonight we'll know who you are. Link to post Share on other sites
Author watchconcierge Posted January 3, 2008 Author Share Posted January 3, 2008 Those are games that WOMAN and MEN hate to play, it is not about having control over HER now, it is about control over YOUR SELF and your own actions. Be a dad she is proud of, not a jerk like mine ! Yeah... BUT... If I am not in the position of being the one who won't take calls, then I will probably get the "Mountain Bell Too Frequent Caller Award." And I will sit and stare at my phone screen and check my email over and over. Sad... I know... But true... I know this about myself. Link to post Share on other sites
Author watchconcierge Posted January 3, 2008 Author Share Posted January 3, 2008 I seriously don't care. People write all kinds of things about people in the public eye. I have had to deal with my fair share. This is nothing new. Somebody will figure out who I am then will tell some of my myspace friends and then it will spread like wild fire. Oh well. Link to post Share on other sites
PinkRibbon Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 Seriously....if a woman can not show respect, pride and dignity in herself and for the marriage and husband do you really want to be with that kind of woman? Love and Marriage are sacred and too many people confuse them with things that come and go with the minute. They are mature and lasting and need to be treated with care. The women or rather girls and I am phrasing it are not people that sound like they want to be in a lasting, caring, MATURE relationship. Apparently you are someone who is known and the girls you seem to hang around (all this is by your posting) know that and enjoy being in your light. You should have some who can shine on her own. Honestly take a step back from everything and evaluate yourself not your wife or the calender model or the 18 year old little girl. Look at yourself. What do you see? You need to be secure in yourself. My husband left me for a younger woman and I am by no means old. I am a good looking woman, I have a very healthy sexual appetite, I have a good position and great kid and am a wonderful person so it is hard to give a shoulder to someone who puts so much emphasis on age and positon ie: calender model or she is 18. Who care. The only thing that should matter is how she treats you. And it seems with a lack of respect. Link to post Share on other sites
Kasan Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 Sorry... I didn't catch your point in that response. You are playing games with your wife. Calling, not calling. Link to post Share on other sites
cj1988 Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 I did the same thing, sat by the phone and waited and watched for his car etc....you are more normal than you think......do what your job requires and the rest of the time, spend with your precious baby ! You can never go wrong with her, she loves daddy no matter what ! Link to post Share on other sites
Kasan Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 I seriously don't care. People write all kinds of things about people in the public eye. I have had to deal with my fair share. This is nothing new. Somebody will figure out who I am then will tell some of my myspace friends and then it will spread like wild fire. Oh well. So your child deserves to have this bandied out in public? You and your wife are adults, your child shouldn't have to deal with this. Link to post Share on other sites
PinkRibbon Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 And if you are as a famous as you say you are, when the sh*t hits the fan on Entertainment Tonight we'll know who you are. HAHHAHAHA very true. I can only imagine... Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 Ok... So tell me this... How would each of you feel if the reason you left your spouse was because he/she was partying and staying out all night and then shortly after you were the "babysitter" while that person got his/her partying on? I don't think it's ridiculous for me to be having a difficult time with that. I don't want her to have the time of her life after I left while I babysit. Yes, I'd have a difficult time with that concept. But I'd also realize that I'd have to just suck it up. It's her life now. And by the way, you're not a "babysitter." You need to realize that your the child's FATHER..not babysitter. Don't you want to bond with your kid and form a relationship? We know you don't want your ex to have the time of your life while you have YOUR child with you. But you really don't have a choice. You sound like a little boy stomping his feet when he doesn't get his way...again...grow up. As adults, we don't have to like everything. But you really, really need to accept it and move on. What she does shouldn't be your concern any more. Do you think it would be an acceptable compromise to simply choose to see my daughter at times other than those that enable the thing that makes me so angry? This makes no sense. When are you saying it would be "convenient" to see your daughter? There's never going to be a right time if you want to play that little head game. You can't control what your ex does and when she does it. I mean you're not making sense. What she does has nothing to do with your being with your daughter. What if performing parenting time during those times makes it so I end up becoming an "old maid?" What if I have a great relationship with my daughter by spending all of this time with her, but I let years go by and become too old and end up lonely in the romance department for the rest of my life? This is a legitimate concern. That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard! Didn't you say you have her a few days a week? What about the other days? So you think every single person who has a child never gets married again? How can this be appropriately balanced so I don't feel taken advantage of, have a prosperous relationship with my daughter, and am able to move forward (when ready) in the romance department? It's called keeping a balance. We can help with that if you want to tell us what the visitation schedule is now. Link to post Share on other sites
Author watchconcierge Posted January 3, 2008 Author Share Posted January 3, 2008 Ummm...what's to stop you from having different custody days? One parent have the child up to Friday or Saturday and the other parent from either Saturday or Sunday, onward? You're not exactly strapped for cash so get yourself a good lawyer and work on your custody issues... We're pretty amicable, so we don't need lawyers, but we have lawyers because one day I told her I wasn't going to give her spousal support when I was upset about something. She got a lawyer that day and then I got a lawyer. I apologized and told her I was just mad when I said that. I would never withhold cash from her. When I moved out, I moved about 70 miles away. That makes things a little more difficult. Forgot to say that when I left I was getting her a new Volvo. She was test driving it to the major city I live in over night. We are friends with the owner of the dealership. She was going to the Denver bars. She rear ended somebody on the way down. She was bringing our daughter to me for the weekend. That was sad. Link to post Share on other sites
PinkRibbon Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 I don't get it? How would anyone know who he is from the username? Am I missing something? Heck I have no clue either....although if it is Leo then I want to point out I am right here and waiting for you! I will be at the grocery store after work and will meet you in the bread section at 5:30 sharp. Run Leo Run to me! hahahahahaha:D:D Link to post Share on other sites
Author watchconcierge Posted January 3, 2008 Author Share Posted January 3, 2008 I'm not Entertainment tonight famous. I said I'm a little bit famous. But one of my business partners and best friends is Entertainment tonight famous and he's the one who did sexual things with my wife. I've worked with some of the absolute most famous people on the planet. Doesn't change the fact that I'm having an anxiety attack right at this very moment. Link to post Share on other sites
marlena Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 Even your emoticon looks like a VIP... sunglasses and all! You are a strange fellow, I must say! Link to post Share on other sites
cj1988 Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 Your wife sounds like she needs a spanking and lesson in parenting ! Link to post Share on other sites
Kasan Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 I'm not Entertainment tonight famous. I said I'm a little bit famous. But one of my business partners and best friends is Entertainment tonight famous and he's the one who did sexual things with my wife. I've worked with some of the absolute most famous people on the planet. Doesn't change the fact that I'm having an anxiety attack right at this very moment. Are you seeing someone for your anxiety attacks? Your best friend did this to you? Link to post Share on other sites
PinkRibbon Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 Breathe easy, relax and just realize that this is temporary as anyone on this board can attest to that. You will make it through this. It will be tough but you will make it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author watchconcierge Posted January 3, 2008 Author Share Posted January 3, 2008 Seriously....if a woman can not show respect, pride and dignity in herself and for the marriage and husband do you really want to be with that kind of woman? Love and Marriage are sacred and too many people confuse them with things that come and go with the minute. They are mature and lasting and need to be treated with care. The women or rather girls and I am phrasing it are not people that sound like they want to be in a lasting, caring, MATURE relationship. Apparently you are someone who is known and the girls you seem to hang around (all this is by your posting) know that and enjoy being in your light. You should have some who can shine on her own. Honestly take a step back from everything and evaluate yourself not your wife or the calender model or the 18 year old little girl. Look at yourself. What do you see? You need to be secure in yourself. My husband left me for a younger woman and I am by no means old. I am a good looking woman, I have a very healthy sexual appetite, I have a good position and great kid and am a wonderful person so it is hard to give a shoulder to someone who puts so much emphasis on age and positon ie: calender model or she is 18. Who care. The only thing that should matter is how she treats you. And it seems with a lack of respect. Great comment. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
cj1988 Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 Well that is not a friend at all. Now, what do you think people think about your W now? Not too good rep she is building ! Link to post Share on other sites
cj1988 Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 Now, do you see that NO ONE here cares WHO you are? We treat you like we do everyone else, like a human in trouble ! Link to post Share on other sites
Author watchconcierge Posted January 3, 2008 Author Share Posted January 3, 2008 Are you seeing someone for your anxiety attacks? Your best friend did this to you? No... I'm not seeing anybody about them. I know what they are and I address them when they arise. I'll get throught it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author watchconcierge Posted January 3, 2008 Author Share Posted January 3, 2008 Breathe easy, relax and just realize that this is temporary as anyone on this board can attest to that. You will make it through this. It will be tough but you will make it. I'm literally breathing into a large zip lock... and no... it's not tight around my mouth. I'm decreasing the oxygen level in my blood so that my breathing gets back to normal so the tingling and numbness in my face and left arm will go away. I'll be alright. Link to post Share on other sites
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