Rise Against Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 (edited) I guess I will never understand the girl i liked. I seems pretty clear liked me with all these signs asking me to hang out with her with all her girl friends and so. But today I ask if there is anything going to night she says she is goin gto have dinner at her neighbours and then hang out with a guy who came back from his trip. WTF? Of course that guy happens to be sort of a friend of mine and I always wondered if she liked him but when I ask around people are like no nothing is up with them but they say what is up with me and the girl I liked because we always hang out. But on the positive side maybe she is just seeing him which I guess is ok but both of them alone lol. Maybe I'm just going crazy. On the other hand when I came back from my trip she did the same for me, asked me to go to her house to help her on her homework and to hang out... So I guess I'm really confused. and I can't stop thinking about her It would be nice if some people can give me some tips thanks! I'm feeling very depressed and lonely... Dx Edited January 4, 2008 by Rise Against Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 funny thing is, didnt u post about this girl in the dating forum? cause your name sounds very familiar anyways, if you are that same guy, then im thinking that she is trying to make you jealous and that you better act quick, because obviously u cant see something good in front of you (if you like her that is) that is ripe for the taking (sorry to make it sound like a girl is a piece of meat here, but when shes pretty much giving you the signals of what every man wants to see from a girl (but doesnt always get) that they like, then YOU BETTER ACT) if you are that same Rise Against poster than i suggest u re-read your last forum post in the "Dating" section because again EVERYONE has told you that she pretty much wanted you to make that move to be with her. If you're someone different than you gotta tell me the backstory of your friend's relationship with your other friend, then i can give u more helpful advice But i'd say that if she is pursuing this other guy, than u better start making it a lot more obvious that you like her and want her, cause unfortunately girls dont wait forever for one man when there are plenty more out there who can get a clue. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rise Against Posted January 5, 2008 Author Share Posted January 5, 2008 yes unfortunately i'm that guy, I was so stupid when I was at her house, she took me to the swings at night just her and I and I knew I should of asked her. But you think she is trying to make me jealous? What should I say? Like try to find some time with her again and ask her? Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted January 5, 2008 Share Posted January 5, 2008 ok just do this call her and ask her when she is free to hang out/chill/whatever and tell her that you have something urgent to tell her then hang up. When you do finally meet up, say that you're happy shes here and just kiss her. Thats it. Hallmark moment. if she rejects you then, well now u know the situation between her and your friend and between her and you either way, it'll be off your chest and you'll be a happy or devastated man. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rise Against Posted January 5, 2008 Author Share Posted January 5, 2008 isn't that kind of like forcing myself towards her? Link to post Share on other sites
mikeraw Posted January 5, 2008 Share Posted January 5, 2008 Chicks dig that kind of decisive action. I've done similar things. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted January 5, 2008 Share Posted January 5, 2008 (edited) Rise Against said: isn't that kind of like forcing myself towards her? maybe if she was a complete stranger and you just came up and kissed her then yes thats forcing yourself onto her BUT WHEN SHE PRETTY MUCH DID EVERYTHING TO SHOW HOW MUCH SHE WANTS YOU ASIDE FROM JUST SAYING "DO ME NOW!" THEN NO ITS NOT FORCING YOURSELF ONTO HER...its called the start of a passionate and hopefully sweet relationship besides, after you kiss her all this anxiety and nerves have will disappear. Edited July 4, 2020 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Link to post Share on other sites
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