Sw3etdev1L Posted January 5, 2008 Share Posted January 5, 2008 I am so, tired. It is just that life hasn't been what I expected it to be. I don' know why but, I feel lonely. My friends are all working and in their jobs, my friends are all having boyfriends and I hate it because they don't spend time with me...I am starting to get tired of clubbing. and so I've thought to find myself a man to have a stable relationship with...but I haven't met anyone yet, pure morons and I am so disappointed. I live with my father still, because I am in College and the College is very near my house. sometimes I get very frustrated and well....my parents got divorced and they used to have lots of problems, now sometimes my mother comes to my house, they keep on fighting. I am 23. I used to be so happy before, because i studied music and I had all of these dreams you know?? but they all went away when i faced the difficulty of that business. and i changed my career. I don't really know what is bothering me lately...it is just that...a lot of the people I used to know are getting married and starting to build up their families. sometimes I feel weird because I am not in that same road. it stresses me out. how should I take life?? because sometimes I get very desperate? Link to post Share on other sites
american-woman Posted January 5, 2008 Share Posted January 5, 2008 Sweety your only 23 and have your whole life ahead of you. You are under alot of stress I bet from just going to College. Friends come and go. Settling down right now or even wanting to is NOT a good idea at your age. My daughter was feeling the same way you do right now. I suggested she go talk to someone and she did, it helped her . It helped her put things in perspective. Keep posting here and let us know how you are doing. Good luck:) Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted January 5, 2008 Share Posted January 5, 2008 Sw3etdev1l, from what you've posted, it sounds like it's time to shake up your life a little. In the past, your focus was music and friends. Maybe it's time to adopt new interests or get a part-time job and with them, opportunities to meet new people to open up your social network. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted January 5, 2008 Share Posted January 5, 2008 You can still have music as a hobby. Get involved in your spare time, volunteer where you can make a difference in someone's life. Link to post Share on other sites
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