Melissababee22 Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over 3 months now, but we've known eachother for years. He is friends with a LOT of girls. about a week ago, he went out to a movie with a girl that i know used to like him, Kaci, and i flipped out on him about it & he said i have NO reason to be so angry. He is constantly telling me about fun times with Kaci. He is also very good friends with Sarah, and she is coming up to see him this summer, and i know she used to like him as well. His closest girl friend is Mary, and they talk A LOT. everytime him & i get into an argument, he either calls Sarah or Mary. I get SO jealous of all three of these girls, and he doesn't understand why. Everytime I try to explain why to him, he just gets pissed off and says he has to call someone to talk to about it because he needs to "cool off". I don't want to be jealous of ANY of these girls becasue i have NO reason to be and I know it, because i know that he never liked any of them, it's just the fact that girls other than ME are getting his attention. Link to post Share on other sites
ElvenPriestess Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 Well as someone with experience with this type of thing, let me say that I don't think he'd be happy if you were the one doing all this. And I want to know why he doesn't turn to male friends? Does he not have any? Having female friends is one thing, but someone who likes him coming to see him? Him going to a movie with her and not taking you too? I don't think that's acceptable behavior. Link to post Share on other sites
JustinWolf Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 Seeing male friends is one thing but some guys don't really like talking relationships to their male friends. Plus, when I am sad or angry or anything, I usually talk to my female friends and I have plenty of male friends. why? because women tend to deal with some situations better than most men. Still, going to the theaters with other women, isn't really acceptable. Try to spend some time with you and him with one of the girls and see how he reacts. Link to post Share on other sites
Jordane Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 WARNING: I have a very good guy friend that I talk to often, very often. His ex-girlfriend was extremely jealous of our friendship (even though I had been in a relationship for 3 years and had no desire to pursue a romantic relationship with him). Evenutally they broke up over her jealousy issues. If you have no reason to be jealous than learn to cope with it. It won't suddenly go away but don't go crazy on him every time he talks to them, keep it to yourself and work on letting it go. Link to post Share on other sites
confuzedgurl Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 honestly... it's normal to get jealous and all but dont fight over it.. like, if u always yell at him when he went out with one of his female friends, he'll feel that u dont trust him.. it can ruin ur relationship. next time he goes out wit one of his female friends, u have to go wit them....ask him if u can go or not ---if he says u cant go wit him then there's a problem....otherwise just go---even if u dont feel comfortable Link to post Share on other sites
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