Trialbyfire Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 3-way girlfight... I hit the jackpot!!! I'm tempted to mediate but I would really rather see it escalate. I'm not certain what happened here but it's been interesting to see other perspectives about what they're willing to settle for. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 Yup that's little ol'me! Thank you..now where is that little blushing face avi when you need one :-) WOW... just WOW... If I was a lesbian, I would make a pass at you... You are BEAUTIFUL... your MM must be terrified to lose you.. Link to post Share on other sites
sarme Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 If that's what you want to believe and it makes you happy believing it, go for it. It's sad that you've never had any exposure to "real" men. Perhaps that's why you poached a weak man. A cheater. I love my little weakling all the more to control MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! With the small exception that I tend to grow very cold towards those that show that one weakness. That however is the predator in me. yes I know "you are women hear you roar" don't wake up the neighbours with all that roaring the cave is extra cavernous and echoey when there is only one lion in it. Phateless: LOL Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 I love my little weakling all the more to control MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! yes I know "you are women hear you roar" don't wake up the neighbours with all that roaring the cave is extra cavernous and echoey when there is only one lion in it. Phateless: LOL Link to post Share on other sites
sarme Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 You are BEAUTIFUL... your MM must be terrified to lose you.. awww thanks Lizzie you're so sweet! Nooooo he has me and he knows it! well maybe just a tad...tee-hee ;-) Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 I love my little weakling all the more to control MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! If control makes you happy, I can see why you picked him. Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 yes I know "you are women hear you roar" don't wake up the neighbours with all that roaring the cave is extra cavernous and echoey when there is only one lion in it. Actually, I am that silent and unknown type of predator, in those cases for which I feel some deserving justice or truth should be served. I also show restraint at times. Sometimes for good, sometimes because it is just fun to watch someone fall. I think you are a very sweet girl and very pretty. I am sure you will get exactly what you invest in your relationship. After all you two have 'officially' been together for 3 months? I am sure it will all work out. There, there. Link to post Share on other sites
sarme Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 If control makes you happy, I can see why you picked him. No huney control apparently makes you happy. Don't you remember earlier you asking Cobra "who doesn't like control in a relationship"? That's why I made that joke it was my little gift, from me to you. Come on now, if I were into controlling a man I would not have suggested earlier tha a woman should know when to submit to a man....remember all that? Please don't make me explain all that again. Link to post Share on other sites
cranium Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 sarme, I never once said that I was a superior being. I would never even consider a relationship with a weak man like a cheater. I'm surprised you didn't put weak in quotation marks. You may have never said you were a superior being, but your posts certainly drip with righteousness. Others have cheated; you never will. You win the prize, you win the prize. Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 I'm not certain what happened here but it's been interesting to see other perspectives about what they're willing to settle for. Settle for? Not interested in divorcees? I've fought that battle before. I think that divorce does not make the person bad or unworthy. Link to post Share on other sites
sarme Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 Actually, I am that silent and unknown type of predator, in those cases for which I feel some deserving justice or truth should be served. I also show restraint at times. Sometimes for good, sometimes because it is just fun to watch someone fall. I think you are a very sweet girl and very pretty. I am sure you will get exactly what you invest in your relationship. After all you two have 'officially' been together for 3 months? I am sure it will all work out. There, there. Well if I really thought your bout of confidence would have an iota of influence on my reality in any way I might thank you for it but since it doesnt I'll stick to what does affect the outcome of my relationship and that is hard work on my part and his. That's the bottom line if it fails we let it fail if it blossoms and keeps growing in time then we also did it. Three months??? I met my boyfreind in early 2006. Wha chu talking about Willis? Link to post Share on other sites
sarme Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 Actually, I am that silent and unknown type of predator, Yes yes I know your type, I think they also call you silent killers, or is that what my puppy does when he enters the room and then all the guests end up blaming each other? Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 No huney control apparently makes you happy. Don't you remember earlier you asking Cobra "who doesn't like control in a relationship"? That's why I made that joke it was my little gift, from me to you. Come on now, if I were into controlling a man I would not have suggested earlier tha a woman should know when to submit to a man....remember all that? Please don't make me explain all that again. I took it at face value because it appeared to apply. I'm surprised you didn't put weak in quotation marks. You may have never said you were a superior being, but your posts certainly drip with righteousness. Others have cheated; you never will. You win the prize, you win the prize. I don't know you or your story and at this point in time, I don't particularly care to know you. Congrats, you win...nothing. Settle for? Not interested in divorcees? I've fought that battle before. I think that divorce does not make the person bad or unworthy. Divorcées are female, so no, I'm not interested in them. Divorce doesn't make a person bad or unworthy but most definitely, a non-remorseful cheater who hasn't made restitution, is as low and weak as they go. Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 Three months??? I met my boyfreind in early 2006. Wha chu talking about Willis? My apologies. I remember reading a post of yours that his divorce was final in October. Please correct me. How long have you two been officially together since the divorce? Yes yes I know your type, I think they also call you silent killers, or is that what my puppy does when he enters the room and then all the guests end up blaming each other? Funny, I guess. I don't think you understand what I mean. Link to post Share on other sites
sarme Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 Yes his D was in Oct. but we have been dating since nov 2006. Link to post Share on other sites
sarme Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 Yes his D was in Oct. but we have been dating since nov 2006. Well the only other meaning you could have refered to was that you are god you wait around waiting for justice to be made against the weak like some kind of GOD. TrialBy Fire is that you in those Underpants? Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 Yes his D was in Oct. but we have been dating since nov 2006. So his divorce was official on 10/06 or 10/07? Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t89780/ Actually, looks like you entered into an emotional affair with him sometime in April/May 2006. Link to post Share on other sites
sarme Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t89780/ Actually, looks like you entered into an emotional affair with him sometime in April/May 2006. Yeah so? but we started dating end of that year! so? What is this the Spanish Inquisition conducted by Trialbyfire and Underpants? because I will warn you both I do speak spanish! LOLOLOLOL Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 Divorcées are female, so no, I'm not interested in them. Divorce doesn't make a person bad or unworthy but most definitely, a non-remorseful cheater who hasn't made restitution, is as low and weak as they go. Ah... you always find a way to trample through my more subtle points. Anyway... so you have no problem with divorced people getting into new relationships? Therefore I assume your issue lies not in the action... but instead in the timing of that action? Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 Ah... you always find a way to trample through my more subtle points. Anyway... so you have no problem with divorced people getting into new relationships? Therefore I assume your issue lies not in the action... but instead in the timing of that action? Timing is everything. If you're still in a marriage, where you're living together (aka not permanently separated), you don't enter into physical or emotional affairs. Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 Timing is everything. If you're still in a marriage, where you're living together (aka not permanently separated), you don't enter into physical or emotional affairs. What kind of physical distance do you require? 1 mile? 2 miles? 10 miles? It's not the distance that counts. Just because a financial situation does not permit seperate residences... does not mean you are not allowed to move on from a failed marriage. Here is what does matter. That you give yourself emotionally and physically to only one person at a time... and you do not go back and forth. The rest is just semantics! Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 What kind of physical distance do you require? 1 mile? 2 miles? 10 miles? It's not the distance that counts. Just because a financial situation does not permit seperate residences... does not mean you are not allowed to move on from a failed marriage. Here is what does matter. That you give yourself emotionally and physically to only one person at a time... and you do not go back and forth. The rest is just semantics! Spin, spin, spin. If this is the case, then every exit affair is acceptable to you. Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 Spin, spin, spin. If this is the case, then every exit affair is acceptable to you. Ah... I failed to add that it needs to be done in the open, with disclosure and honesty. And while I find it pushes the boundaries of acceptability... I do treat this as something different... because it is. Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 Here is what does matter. That you give yourself emotionally and physically to only one person at a time... and you do not go back and forth. The rest is just semantics! Cobra, Here is where it does matter and I whole heartedly agree. I do respect you. However, I would contend that someone 'fresh' out of a marriage or especially stuggling within one is a poor investment in emotion. If you compound issues of infidelity then that is just well...not healthy. Not the foundation I would want to build. I don't want to build on semantics, but on truths and convictions. Do they make people like this anymore? Link to post Share on other sites
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