el_tomas7 Posted January 10, 2008 Share Posted January 10, 2008 i have a really good friend that ive known for about 3 years. Not so long ago we got into somewhat of an argument and didnt talk for a while. Now things have settled and we are back to being just friends again....... but thats the problem is we are still just friends and i wanna change that. She has a new boyfriend, but i really dont think this one will last long. What i want to no is, is it possible for me to go past just friends into something better.... any advice would be nice Link to post Share on other sites
mikeraw Posted January 10, 2008 Share Posted January 10, 2008 In my experience, unavailable girls are the easiest to hook up with cuz they're bored with the monotony of their relationship. If this guy is new, she's going through her honeymoon period. It's gonna be tough right now. But if what you're looking for is a relationship, then keep being friends, do some slight flirting every once in a while, and then simply wait for them to break up. You need to give more info on your situation to get any good advice. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted January 13, 2008 Share Posted January 13, 2008 3 years huh? and has she shown anything that would indicate that she likes you as more than a friend? have you shown her that you like her more than as a friend? if no for the first one, then sorry man you're in the friends zone...and its gonna b hard to change that. If no to both, then yeah dont even try cause even you havent started showing anything more. If yes to the first or both, than yeah what the HELL ARE YOU WAITING FOR? ANOTHER YEAR?!!! christ. and how long have you been wanting to be more than friends with this girl? 3 years? (dont say yes to that...) Link to post Share on other sites
mikeraw Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 I've been waiting 15 yrs for one chick. I'm serious. It's just one of those things. Link to post Share on other sites
Author el_tomas7 Posted January 14, 2008 Author Share Posted January 14, 2008 haha, 15 years for one chick im 15 ive only started liking her this summer. a while ago there might have been something but i was with someone at that time and i thought it was jsut friendly Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted January 19, 2008 Share Posted January 19, 2008 probably not relevant anymore...sorry i dont check this forum as much b/c its the same old questions and responses BUT you're 15...you're young, you probably shouldn't be pursuing her, and if you do then just make a move and get it over with. Relationships at your age don't last. It's called raging hormones...then you realize that you really don't like your SO (usually b/c they are quite demanding at that age and act more mature...don't always appreciate your antics and silliness) Link to post Share on other sites
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