BlueEyedSarah Posted January 10, 2008 Share Posted January 10, 2008 I lack a lot in confidence when I am around my guys mum, step-dad, friends, step-sisters - basically I am a nearvous wreck! They invite me to places with them - social places to be with them, to their house for dinner with the rest of he's family! Even without him, to interact in discussion with them and BE part of the family but I'm a very timid and soft spoken person and have been for the longest time since I was in school! Its now time I break the ice! I have done a lot of ice breaking but I still get the invisiable lump in my throat which halts me from carrying on the conversation or starting conversation sometimes. Does anyone have any tips on how I can act/seem much more mature and confident? The main thing I can think of is practice by seeing diffrent people and conversing with them everyday. I'm suprised the guy I like has not kicked me in the backside by now! My relationship is a long distance, known him 4 year (comming up to 5 years) now. He wants me to go back to he's country but the whole meeting he's family & friends again for the dozenth time showing my timid mouse moves makes me nearvous and upset I'm 20, almost 21, I want to make a change now before its too late. Link to post Share on other sites
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