shelly1972 Posted June 17, 2003 Share Posted June 17, 2003 My husband constantly looks at pictures of transsexuals on line. He looks at them everyday mostly - He goes into transsexual websites and looks at all of their pictures and chats with them on line. I have confronted him about it a few times and he always tells me that they send him emails, and that they are just spam and he just deletes them, but I know that this is not true because there are so many everyday. Before we were married I found a bag with women's clothes in it in his size and when I confronted him he said that it was from a previous relationship; a girl he dated wanted him to dress up like a women, so he did it for her. Every time I try and talk to him about it and I tell him it upsets me, he denies everything then stops for awhile, then goes back into it. Do you think he may be gay? He likes to look at pictures of men dressed as women. He also surfs porn on the Internet constantly, all different kinds. I'm really worried that someday - he may just "come out" to me and tell me that he's really a cross dresser. I'd really like to know that before we have kids. Please help! Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted June 17, 2003 Share Posted June 17, 2003 First, I suggest you to to this site ----> http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/articles/internet/genderswap.html and read a bit about transexuals and the dynamics behind the syndrome and behavior. Then I suggest you get your husband to a competent psychotherapist who can interview him and evaluate him to get closer to these sexual identity issues. Right now, he probably has no idea what his future holds sexually. From your post, if I was a woman I wouldn't think about passing him in traffic much less having kids with him. He's got a lot of changing (pardon the pun) to do before you should make that kind of committment with him. I think you have a lot of work ahead of you. However, you can cut to the chase real fast by getting him to a therapist and getting right down to the issues that need resolution. Meanwhile, use all the birth control at your disposal. Link to post Share on other sites
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