so confussed

[Ed]

My best friend has been in a abusive relationship for two years now. She always calls me to come and pick her up.

 

She has moved out and in with me several times over the last two years. But this time she moved out and into my house with all her stuff. She has been there since one week before christmas. Two weeks ago her Boyfriend sent here

 

flowers, she said maybe he finaly got it. Then she called

 

him and moved back with him. She has not moved any of her

 

stuff out of my house yet. I have told her since she is

 

moving back with him, Dont call me with all your problems

 

and ask me to be your support system. Deal with him. She

 

asked if we were going to stop talking? I said I dont know?

 

I have always been thier for her. Supporting her with her

 

abusive relationship, going to court with her for custody of

 

her children, taking her to her doctors appointments, cooking for her, talking for hours on the phone, babysitting

 

her children..... and the list goes on.. What should I do now? She knows I love her, but I cant take her on again off

 

again relationship with her boyfriend.

[Quettia]

Ed, since you are her friend, then be her friend the next time she comes to you for help and she has a bruise on her any where, call the police. She may deny it but she is afraid and since she can not do anything she wants someone else to do it. She is calling out for help. Also, her children do not need a guy like that in their life.

My best friend has been in a abusive relationship for two years now. She always calls me to come and pick her up. She has moved out and in with me several times over the last two years. But this time she moved out and into my house with all her stuff. She has been there since one week before christmas. Two weeks ago her Boyfriend sent here flowers, she said maybe he finaly got it. Then she called him and moved back with him. She has not moved any of her stuff out of my house yet. I have told her since she is moving back with him, Dont call me with all your problems and ask me to be your support system. Deal with him. She asked if we were going to stop talking? I said I dont know? I have always been thier for her. Supporting her with her abusive relationship, going to court with her for custody of her children, taking her to her doctors appointments, cooking for her, talking for hours on the phone, babysitting her children..... and the list goes on.. What should I do now? She knows I love her, but I cant take her on again off again relationship with her boyfriend.