Niki35 Posted January 17, 2008 Share Posted January 17, 2008 My husband and I went through a similar situation, though not quite like this, when his friends were planning his party before our June wedding. His buddies all wanted to go out to a strip club and drink and whatever else. Your situation sounds a lot more serious though. I sat him down and told him why I didn't want him to go to a strip club for his bachelor party and finally he agreed not to go. Although his friends still pushed him to go he didn't and stood his ground telling them he wasn't going if they were going to go there. I think you need to make yourself absolutely clear to him about how you feel. I dont' think threatening to do the same thing with your friends is very helpful to the situation. If he really loves and respects you he should be able to see how much this situation upsets you and not go through with it! If he disregards your feelings now after he knows how you feel then you have to ask yourself what things will he do when you are married that he knows you disagree with? Link to post Share on other sites
Alibi Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 It's common practice and acceptable for a man to have his last taste at freedom before the ceremony (pun intended). It's just sex and he deserves that much for wanting to put up with one woman for the rest of his life. Give him a break. Im sorry but you are completely messed up in the head for thinking that. Obviously your not a person of morals. Link to post Share on other sites
HisLove Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 lol @ sally4sara. I like you!! Link to post Share on other sites
sally4sara Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 lol @ sally4sara. I like you!! Awww shucks! I didn't do nuthin Link to post Share on other sites
MakeItCount Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 Oh, dear lord. To the OP - please completely disregard the post below. It is a giant steaming pile of horse****. It's common practice and acceptable for a man to have his last taste at freedom before the ceremony (pun intended). It's just sex and he deserves that much for wanting to put up with one woman for the rest of his life. Give him a break. Link to post Share on other sites
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