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Hey guys well heres the story iv konwn this girl for a while and she is unbelieveble trust me, its scary how well we fit, i'm 16 and sheis having a rough time down in irelend, trust me i mean the worst time possible and she does need me, so she is gonna pay for a plane ticket down there but ill have to take 2 weeks of college to be with her and thats not a problem and im not sure how my mams gonna take it, i think and i feel i need to do this not just for her but for me aswell. What do you think?

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You are obviously in love, and you are young, so be careful.

 

Don't be surprised if it blows up in your face. Young love has a way of doing that!

 

What is her rough time comprised of?

 

Is she in college too?

 

You're sixteen and in college? I was a fifteen year old senior and that really s*cked.

 

Couldn't take a girl out without a drivers license... very, very frustrating!

 

Can't offer more without knowing more. Tell us more about what's going on!

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Well she is kinda in hospital at the moment because he ex bf harrases her and assaults her, she nearly died yesterday coz he got in her house she stoped breathing, then came round, he also raped her a few days before that and she has no one, and i need to be there she is just so like me its unreal and we deserve eachother :)

I need her and she needs me :)

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Oh and no she;s working... :) She has a great job at her age, manager of a designer shop :D

she is 18 on friday

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Her previous bf sounds like a nut-case! Be very careful! I hope he is in jail for everyones safety.

 

It sounds like if you were ever going to be there for her, now is the time.

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One other thing.... My mam wont let me go :mad::mad::eek: Im ****ed... really

She needs me bad, Im 16 and i cant leave home without her consent :( aww man nothing i can do!!!!

 

****!

 

If you know any law that i can go over on then i'd love to hear it :) im from england. she lives near belfast.

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Hey guys well heres the story iv konwn this girl for a while and she is unbelieveble trust me, its scary how well we fit, i'm 16 and sheis having a rough time down in irelend, trust me i mean the worst time possible and she does need me, so she is gonna pay for a plane ticket down there but ill have to take 2 weeks of college to be with her and thats not a problem and im not sure how my mams gonna take it, i think and i feel i need to do this not just for her but for me aswell. What do you think?

 

if she is unbelievavle why did u leave me:(

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Life and love is more important to me than school. However, I still hold quite a bit of importance to school. I don't know how close you two are and for how long, but like someone said, young love can really motivate you to make dumb choices. That is a part of life. If I had known a girl for about a year, and we were very close and intimate, I would leave college for a few weeks to be there for her. You need to know the difference between love and LOVE. For most younger relationships, there is a period of 6 months where what you feel is more chemical in the brain than the actual person.

Find out your options... like with college - tell them you are leaving and see what options they can give you to make up, if you can, that time. Also what do you think you're going to do once you make it to Ireland? Will someone be able to take you to her? Anyways, think it through.

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