jellyfarm Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 Been single for 7 years and I'm getting really frustrated at not being able to meet the right guy or person for me. I've got loads of friends but none seem to be attractive to me. Maybe it's me being fussy but I don't really think so because I actually know what I am looking for and that person is definitely far from being a jerk! Haha! I'm not sure if this is my fate or not but lately, I feel lethargic about meeting guys, don't seem to be interested to take time out to go to social gatherings. In fact, since I'm now in my mid-30s, I find myself putting all my efforts into building my career, not compromising or being a pushover, without finding any enthusiasm/interest in dating. I keep thinking it's all a big show and what's worrying me is that I'll end up this washed up has been who's just living life like an amoeba. And yet, there is this other side of me that is satisfied with where I am now, single, successful career, intelligent and independent. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 Been single for 7 years and I'm getting really frustrated at not being able to meet the right guy or person for me. I'm not sure if this is my fate or not but lately, I feel lethargic about meeting guys, don't seem to be interested to take time out to go to social gatherings. I keep thinking it's all a big show and what's worrying me is that I'll end up this washed up has been who's just living life like an amoeba. And yet, there is this other side of me that is satisfied with where I am now, single, successful career, intelligent and independent. Girl you are all over the place with what you want and what you do. It made me a headache. If you want to meet and mingle you have to get out there. Don't go because you're driven by the fear of being alone. Go because it's what you want to do. If it feels like a show to you it's because it's not really what you want afterall. It seems fake and phony. You have to really want it for yourself to make it be genuine. It seems you aren't being true to you at all. If you were truly happy with being single you wouldn't be frustrated that you're not in a relationship. You need to figure out what you want and where you stand. Otherwise you're just going to confuse the crap out of any guy that comes along. Link to post Share on other sites
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